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School demanding packed meals for 18 hr bus trip

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Snoopmummy · 19/01/2024 17:09

DC is off on a school trip involving an 18 hour coach journey. School is demanding we drop children off in the evening having fed them (fine), equipped with nut free snacks (makes sense). We have also been asked to provide TWO meals: a packed breakfast and a packed lunch.

That means breakfast will be consumed 13 hours after they set off and lunch will be something like 17 hours later. Is there any food that can safely last for that length of time in an insulated bag or flask? DC does not like dried fruit or cereal bars.

AIBU to consider asking for the risk assessment over this and suggesting we equip them with money to get food on the way as they will need to stop anyway?!

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Snoopmummy · 24/01/2024 11:50

Good bloody point about the return journey @Blondeshavemorefun ! I would also add a journey on motorway I hope would be shorter than 18 hours though with a toddler I agree you need to convert to dog years as it can be painful!

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sunglassesonthetable · 24/01/2024 11:50

Never in my wildest dreams did I think this thread would rumble on for so many pages for something relatively insignificant and niche.

I know 😂

Sherrystrull · 24/01/2024 11:54

On similar trips I've done, the hotel provides packed food for the return journey.

Kangaboo · 24/01/2024 12:04

i’ve not read the full thread but jeez @Snoopmummy you are being OTT, risk assessment indeed for requesting you send some food with your DC!

Treat it like a DOE send light things in wrappers they can dispose of after consuming. Do not send a thermos as that will either come back stinking & unwashed or get lost.

Buy some ready made /wrapped crepes from the supermarket. You could buy a ready lunch that does not require refrigeration and send with a disposable fork. You might like this at Waitrose: https://www.waitrose.com/ecom/products/john-west-on-the-go-mediterranean-style-tuna-salad/038412-19157-19158

Some cheddars/crackers for a snack. Send oranges/banana /apple as long life fruit and fruit juice cartons for nutrients.

Find it questionable that you are concerned about insufficient nutrients in sending food with them but you would be happy to send money for service station food. Do you really think they’d go for a fresh, healthy option there?😂

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greenacrylicpaint · 24/01/2024 12:09

18 hours bus trip could be from one end of london to the other Grin

HuntingForChicken · 24/01/2024 12:22

Interesting that this is a private school and therefore there seem to be higher expectations. I wonder if private schools pay their staff to attend these trips in school holidays because state schools don’t?

Mywhoopdeedoo · 24/01/2024 12:27

Anothernewname123 · 24/01/2024 09:44

@Mywhoopdeedoo

I've paid for and sent my kids on many school trips and volunteered on several - at schools where the teachers don't wring hands and say what's best for the kids is 'too difficult', where parents opinions are listened to and not derided and mocked.

So that would be zero trips you’ve actually organised and ran ?

Blondeshavemorefun · 24/01/2024 12:31

Snoopmummy · 24/01/2024 11:50

Good bloody point about the return journey @Blondeshavemorefun ! I would also add a journey on motorway I hope would be shorter than 18 hours though with a toddler I agree you need to convert to dog years as it can be painful!

Think it was 4hrs we were stuck not moving due to accident

Was only 20mins from home they joys of m25

Luckily she slept a bit but was a long 4hrs

Thank god we had snacks !!

Maybe ask teachers what will they say on the return 18hr journey

greenacrylicpaint · 24/01/2024 12:35

when dc went skiing the parents paid a tab at the local ski hut for the teachers.
not in UK but here the teachers get overtime payments for school trips (as they should imo)

sunglassesonthetable · 24/01/2024 12:48

I find it Hmm that you get on a coach at say 10pm and you're getting off at say 3pm next day and the food you've packed for the journey is now " horrid" and " unpalatable and inedible.

Seriously 🤷‍♀️

Obviously if you've got some oysters in your lunch box. But even a salad would be fine with a cool pack next to it.

Snoopmummy · 24/01/2024 12:51

They get on about four hours earlier @sunglassesonthetable . I am sorry this thread has wound you up so much 😬. I’m off to try and do some work to pay for the trip and fees 😀 - and the packed oysters.

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sunglassesonthetable · 24/01/2024 12:53

Don't worry not wound up. @Snoopmummy

Oyster knife as well? 😉

sunglassesonthetable · 24/01/2024 13:09

And hope your DS has a fab time . 👋🏼

kisstheblarney · 24/01/2024 13:14

Snoopmummy · 24/01/2024 12:51

They get on about four hours earlier @sunglassesonthetable . I am sorry this thread has wound you up so much 😬. I’m off to try and do some work to pay for the trip and fees 😀 - and the packed oysters.

But your prince likes a hot meal..... not nasty cold oysters!

How on earth will poppet manage?

kisstheblarney · 24/01/2024 13:18

Snoopmummy · 24/01/2024 11:06

Thank you for all your replies. I will be sending a packed lunch. I can see that another poster on here has had a hard time and it got a bit toxic. Questioning a system does not mean you don’t value teachers though I can only sympathise that teachers on here are feeling frazzled for very legitimate reasons and that may explain their response.

As some have guessed, it is indeed a prep school. Older DC was at a different (independent too) school and they organised similar trips but have always bought the DC food on the way. It would usually involve one staff member collecting the orders which were made in advance. To be honest, older child’s school was always run like a slick operation in comparison. I don’t know how did they it and would like to introduce their efficiency into my own workplace!

I also appreciate that independent schools generally have more back office help to deal with organisational matters and that this trip is outside the norm for this age group at a typical school. I probably should have posted it under Education somewhere but couldn’t see a thread for independent schools.

Thanks again and sorry to have unwittingly wound up so many. Packed lunch it is 😀

Oh give over, I bet no one has seen you @Anothernewname123 in the same room ever.....

She was hateful and rude about teachers and about the standard in which we communicated GrinGrinGrinGrin

Bellaboo01 · 24/01/2024 13:40

This really is First world problems!

Pack your child up with a lunch/snacks/breakfast or whatever - you have plenty of options, not everything has to be refrigerated.

You honestly wont need icepacks/flasks/risk assessments etc etc.

tinytemper66 · 24/01/2024 17:52

Sherrystrull · 24/01/2024 11:54

On similar trips I've done, the hotel provides packed food for the return journey.

This is what is happening with us. A hot meal at the hotel and packed meal for the journey.

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