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AIBU?

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Broken down car left outside my house.

99 replies

ButterOllocks · 16/01/2024 14:43

We have a drive, so that's ok for now, but when my son comes home on leave from the forces we would like to park outside my own home and let him park in the drive. Most of my neighbours have 2 or 3 cars so parking is at a premium. The car is an old one and the last time I saw the owner - about 2 weeks ago he said it needed a new timing belt which is an expensive repair. Not seen anyone near the car since - really frustrating AIBU to want to report the police ??

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IrisVonEverec · 16/01/2024 14:44

Why not just ask the owner to get it moved?

Singleandproud · 16/01/2024 14:44

If it's taxed and insured it's got as much right to be there as anyone else's car, the police are unlikely to do anything

catelynjane · 16/01/2024 14:45

If it's taxed and MOT'D then the police won't do anything.

purplecorkheart · 16/01/2024 14:45

If it has tax and insurance then it has as much right to be there as your car or your sons.

SouthEastCoast · 16/01/2024 14:45

The police will not do anything. We once had a massive blue bus parked outside our flat for months and not until the tax ran out could anything be done.

HollaHolla · 16/01/2024 14:48

If it's taxed and insured, it can stay there. You have no more right to park outside your house, than anyone else.

GrumpyInsomniac · 16/01/2024 14:48

YWBVU to call the police if it’s legally parked.

LubaLuca · 16/01/2024 14:51

It's unfortunate, but it's not really causing you any problems. I'm sure the owner is keener than you are to get it shifted, so be patient.

WolvesDiscoandBoogaloo · 16/01/2024 14:51

The police will not get involved in your preference about where vehicles are parked. Neither will the council or anyone else.

There is no national body that goes around moving vehicles at the request of the general public.

CacenCaws · 16/01/2024 14:53

They have as much right to park there as you or your son do

Lifestooshort71 · 16/01/2024 14:54

You could park across your drive and let son's car out when needed or vice versa? Not ideal, I know, but as others have said, he has every right to park outside your house.

MillicentRogers · 16/01/2024 14:56

www.gov.uk/check-vehicle-tax

NahHumBrag · 16/01/2024 14:56

As everyone has said, you have no more right to the road than the other driver (if the car is legal etc).

MillicentRogers · 16/01/2024 14:56

www.gov.uk/report-abandoned-vehicle

RestingCatsArseFace · 16/01/2024 15:04

Park outside his house while his car is outside yours.

Purplecatshopaholic · 16/01/2024 15:11

If you think it’s abandoned report it to the council? That’s what my neighbour did when someone dumped their car outside his house. Presumably the council are able to check re the registered owner/tax/insurance/whatever they need to to clarify its abandoned status. The council moved the car a few weeks after it was dumped.

Growlybear83 · 16/01/2024 15:15

Why would you report the car to the police? The owner has as much right to park on the highway as anyone else does.

ButterOllocks · 16/01/2024 15:33

IrisVonEverec · 16/01/2024 14:44

Why not just ask the owner to get it moved?

Don't know whose it is - just that they left if there broken down

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Allfur · 16/01/2024 15:35

Can't you let your fit young son park down the road

SkulkHollow · 16/01/2024 15:36

Annoying as it might be, you don't own the road in front of your house.

Unless it's a private road, of course.

If it's taxed and insured, then it can stay on a public road indefinately and the police can and will do nothing, other than perhaps tell you to stop wasting their time.

ButterOllocks · 16/01/2024 15:36

I get what you're all saying - anyone can park there - I get it - But I don't know who the owner is - just met him once, and with it being an expensive repair I think he's just left is - as you all say rightfully parked - just VERY inconvenient for everyone - I think I just wanted to vent here.

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GasPanic · 16/01/2024 15:37

Unfortunately the road outside your house does not belong to you.

So anyone has a right to park there, provided they are properly taxed.

Floralnomad · 16/01/2024 15:37

YABU , it’s a public road , providing the car is legal then it’s entitled to be there and your son can park elsewhere . You don’t own the road outside your house .

Itslegitimatesalvage · 16/01/2024 15:38

Is it a public road? Or a private road? Is it permit parking only/does the car have a permit or is it just on street parking for everyone?

If it’s a public road with no parking restrictions then anyone can park their car there for as long as they want. It’s not yours, you don’t own it and you have no claim to it. You can’t call the police as no laws are being broken. You can politely ask if they could roll it down a few spaces but then whoever else is normally parking there, will park in front of yours. That’s how on street parking works; first come, first served and you don’t to claim a spot as yours.

ButterOllocks · 16/01/2024 15:38

Allfur · 16/01/2024 15:35

Can't you let your fit young son park down the road

He's got a high spec range rover and thefts of these are really high in my area - we usually let him park it up the drive and I park across our drive to keep it more secure at night.

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