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When did cheap nights become so expensive.

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gothicomedy · 12/01/2024 21:46

A trip to the cinema last night cost £9 for ticket, £5 for parking, £3 for bag of chocolate sweets and £3.50 for a cup of coffee before hand. So over £20 for a night out at the pictures for one person.

A fish and chip supper for two with a bottle of supermarket wine last saturday cost £23.

AIBU to wonder when what was traditionally a cheap treat has now become an expensive luxury?

OP posts:
VenhamousSnake · 13/01/2024 14:48

Were these things ever cheap?

I grew in a middle class home, comfortable financially, and takeaways/cinema visits were occasional treats, not regular occurrences. That was in the 90s.

catelynjane · 13/01/2024 14:55

VenhamousSnake · 13/01/2024 14:48

Were these things ever cheap?

I grew in a middle class home, comfortable financially, and takeaways/cinema visits were occasional treats, not regular occurrences. That was in the 90s.

Yeah, this was my experience too. I was privately educated but the cinema was still something we only did a few times a year, the same with takeaways.

viques · 13/01/2024 14:58

Bbq1 · 12/01/2024 22:52

Our volunteer run, fabulous, local Art Deco cinema has all the latest films, 3 screens and costs £4.75 per adult and £3.75 per child. Absolute steal. Concessions cost between £2 - £5. It's an experience to visit and we're very lucky to have it.

My local cinema does a daytime silver screen ticket during the week, £6.50, a cup of tea or coffee and as many biscuits as you can get away with!

Bbq1 · 13/01/2024 15:06

Mine does a similar thing plus special screenings for those with Dementia and Autism . They are currently doing the warm space project too - a film, hot drink and a hot snack totally free of charge! Our community cinemas are invaluable and we need to hold onto them. We occasion go to the Multiplex but it's a real experience visiting our local one and ww want to supply it.

Bbq1 · 13/01/2024 15:07

Support it

Ginmonkeyagain · 13/01/2024 15:11

It's worth looking at membership of cinemas like the Picturehouse chain if you go regularly.

£23 for fish and chips and a bottle of wine is super cheap- given at least £6 of that must have been the wine.

I used to budget £20 for a meal out inc. drinks in 1998 when I was a student!

easylikeasundaymorn · 13/01/2024 15:18

I worked in a cinema more than 20 years ago and people complained then it was too expensive - if anything prices in the cinemas by me are cheaper today than they were in the one I worked in in the early 2000s!

All three of the closest cinemas to me do £5 tickets if you book online. Parking is free if you're prepared to walk 10 mins and I honestly don't understand how a bag of malteasers bought for £3 at the cinemas is more of a treat than a bag bought for £1 on the way! So in some places the cinema can be a very cheap night out, if you spend money on completely optional and extortionately overpriced extras then

Presuming the supermarket wine was c£7 then I don't think £8p/p for a large meal is hugely expensive either. A burger king whopper meal is about the same price? I do think since Covid takeaways have become very similar to standard restaurant prices (i.e. not nice restaurants but fish and chip from a shop is the same as from an average pub, a curry is the same price whether you get a takeaway or eat in), despite the fact you still have to clean up yourself after and don't pay any service costs!

ChristmasCwtch · 13/01/2024 15:22

Always buy cinema treats at the Co-op before going to watch a film. It’s bonkers how much they charge at the concession stand.

Trainstrike · 13/01/2024 15:24

When I went to the cinema as a teen in the 2000s the cinema was £3.50, the Vue by me now is £4.99 a ticket fore recliner seats unless you want the back rows. Inflation-wise I actually think the cinema is cheaper for us now than it was back then.

5 of us went for £30 the other day - 5 tickets plus £5 of sweets from B&M and water we took with us!

Milange · 13/01/2024 15:28

It’s regional too- you can still get fish, chips and peas for less than £6 here, and the portions are massive (I know my friend splits one between her 3 kids).

If we need a night out when we are skint, we buy either one kebab or some Brie and crusty bread and drive up to a nice viewing point to sit in the car and share the food while enjoying the view.

VenhamousSnake · 13/01/2024 15:31

The thing is, prices have risen but wages have too!!

In the year 2000 the main rate of minimum wage was £3.60/h. Now its £10.42 - almost 3 times higher.

So yes - things probably do cost triple what they used to. If a couple of cinema tickets with snacks and drinks used to be £15, it would be £45 now.

IDontHateRainbows · 13/01/2024 15:35

I've got a tastecard, it's free for the first 3 months but quite affordable thereafter and I get discounted cinema/ coffee/ meals out etc so it's worth thinking about if you would use it a lot.

Basically it puts prices back to what they were a few years ago!

Bloom15 · 13/01/2024 15:50

Jessforless · 12/01/2024 22:00

I know you didn’t but popcorn, and this might be fake, but someone once told me the profit margin on popcorn is higher than the mark up for heroin 😂

cinema has never been cheap.

Fish and chips I agree has become extortionate! I asked DH to get a bag of chips when he popped out at lunch today so we could have chip sandwiches for lunch (rubbish work day!) and gave him £5 as I had cash.

He said he had to go to the cash machine as chips were SIX FIFTY!!! Wtf.

WTF?!

That is extortionate- please tell me you live in a London. I'm in suburban Liverpool and the chippy over the road costs about £2.50. They give you loads too 🙏🏻

Sunflower8848 · 13/01/2024 15:59

Yeah it’s sooo expensive. What about if you take your own drinks and snacks, walk there, and use those voucher codes you can get online 2for1 tickets. £4.50 night out each then instead.

ginasevern · 13/01/2024 16:57

I'm in my 60's and the cinema has never been cheap and buying snacks there is notoriously expensive. £23.00 for a fish supper and bottle wine however would be considered pretty reasonable in my neck of the woods.

DyslexicPoster · 13/01/2024 17:02

We don’t get takeaway regularly anymore. Less than once every to moths. Cinema is £5 at the moment and we busy our snacks at the supermarket. Sad times

ThreeTreeHill · 13/01/2024 17:36

I think it's totally okay to go to the cinema as a treat, drive and park close by, get premium seats and a snack and a drink each. But that's obviously going to be an expensive way to do it. You can make it a cheap night out and an expensive one.

Lovelydovey · 13/01/2024 18:43

Our cinema is £6.99 per person, we walk there (about 30 mins) and bring our own drinks and snacks.

We will also buy a large chips between the 4 of us and have with frozen fish and veg, or sausages for dinner. A large chips in south London is £4 - I'm amazed at it being £6.50.

But given there are 4 of us - we tend to try and do things on offers, or we stock up on treats at the supermarket. It helps that I am a very good cook so eating out isn't really a treat unless it's Michelin starred. I'd rather bring a decent picnic or home made cake with us whilst out than spend a fortune on something not as good in an on site cafe. Even going out for a fry-up costs around £50 for the four of us, so I'll do a quality fry up at home for less than £20.

IDontHateRainbows · 15/01/2024 18:33

We have been perfecting the art of the 'poor man's' (insert going out experience eg sauna, cinema, restaurant etc)

Basically just stay at home but try to have some fun recreating the experiences we used to go out to have but can't afford anymore.

IcyLilacZebra · 11/10/2024 14:07

I just went to book mine for tomorrow only have odean here and cineworld and it's £9.49 a ticket but add your drinks on and it gets expensive which is why I don't go often

roses2 · 11/10/2024 14:33

£23 for fish and chips and a bottle of wine, for two people, works out at £11.50 a head. I’d say that is a cheap night.

Not for supermarket food that's not cheap! I buy beer battered cod in Aldi, £4.50 then Mccain triple cooked chips £3. Unless the OP bought a fancy £15 wine then I'd say £23 is a lot.

NeverEnoughPants · 11/10/2024 14:47

roses2 · 11/10/2024 14:33

£23 for fish and chips and a bottle of wine, for two people, works out at £11.50 a head. I’d say that is a cheap night.

Not for supermarket food that's not cheap! I buy beer battered cod in Aldi, £4.50 then Mccain triple cooked chips £3. Unless the OP bought a fancy £15 wine then I'd say £23 is a lot.

People don't buy fish suppers at their local supermarket. I'm pretty sure it's just the wine that came from there.

NeverEnoughPants · 11/10/2024 14:47

(and yes, I know it's a zombie thread, I'm replying to a post from today)

NeverEnoughPants · 11/10/2024 14:49

IcyLilacZebra · 11/10/2024 14:07

I just went to book mine for tomorrow only have odean here and cineworld and it's £9.49 a ticket but add your drinks on and it gets expensive which is why I don't go often

If you did want to go often, you could bring your own drinks and get a cineworld membership - two tickets a month usually more than covers the cost.

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