To wonder why he’s messaging me again

[Fluffycat97]

I spoke to a guy for quite some time but then he met somebody and they moved out and had a baby together. The baby is now 9 months old and him and his partner have had a falling out and his partner has moved out a couple of weeks ago. He is now trying to message me again. What would you do?

Block and delete.

Block him and ignore, not your problem.

Nothing.

Did you ever meet him? You say you were speaking, was that all?

To wonder why he’s messaging me again: he wants sex

What would you do? Block and delete

Agree with MumDiva99 - you should block and delete. Show some respect for yourself.

He wants a shag
Either reply or ignore

Block him. He wants sex.

Have some self-respect and block him. He's using you.

I wouldn’t want to be the rebound person, and he has a baby.

sod that !

Block and delete.

Sound the klaxon - you’re the rebound. Don’t reply. Or stop replying, if you’ve already fallen for it.

I’d block him, he’s bored, lonely and looking for an ego stroke at best and some gross sexting at worst

Agree with the others - he wants rebound sex, and possibly somewhere to stay...

Is that you becky?

Tell him to get fucked.

Do you want to be a stepmother to his baby?

Block him.

Delete and block.

You're better than someone's back up.

You're a booty call, that's why.

Block block blockity block

Ignore. Men ALWAYS come back and never for the right reasons

He didn't wait long, did he? I wonder how many exes he contacted before you?

His ex escaped. You had a narrow escape before. Run as fast as you can now.

And don't feel flattered that he got in touch. He was being lazy - your contact details were still in his phone.

He's after a FWB situation. Don't respond.

I’d have some dignity and self respect and block him.

In the nicest way OP are you REALLY wondering why he’s messaging you? You are a back up option, sloppy seconds, whatever (to him) and now his first choice has gone he is looking for someone vulnerable with no self respect to fuck until someone better comes along.

Don’t be anyone’s back up plan.

I'm intrigued by this..

You really need to ask?