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Crazy early for kids party?!

210 replies

sofedupandtiredofthis · 06/01/2024 20:35

9.30am on a Sunday morning.

Thoughts on whether this is a reasonable time or too early for a kids party?

OP posts:
Oliviojam · 06/01/2024 21:46

sofedupandtiredofthis · 06/01/2024 21:35

Thanks for all the replies. It feels a tad early for us but we are going to make the effort. My DC is generally awake on a weekend around 7/7.30am, and breakfast is usually a relaxed process as on a weekday we are out of the house by 7am for work / nursery, so I enjoy the slower pace of the weekend mornings. We are usually still sitting in PJs at 9am 😂 So we will have to do a quicker breakfast and get dressed and out by 9am, but as a one off I'm sure it will be fine!

If its at a soft play the hosts probably didnt have much of an option. When I arranged my dc’s 2nd party I figured parents would be more annoyed if it clashed with nap time. That’s why I chose the 9.30 slot anyway, trying to be considerate to naps! Also it’ll be fine to turn up at 10, I made this clear (we aren’t early risers in our house either!)

reluctantbrit · 06/01/2024 21:46

At that age, it's brilliant. Most will be up already for ages and the children will be nice and tired so you can have a relaxed Sunday afternoon while they nap.

35965a · 06/01/2024 21:46

Early but I’d quite like it for that age group, gets it out of the way before they’re tired and grumpy

Humbugg · 06/01/2024 21:47

I have a 3 YO and would love to be invited to a 9:30am party. We are awake from 6am every day anyway. Sometimes 5:30

Ellie1015 · 06/01/2024 21:48

It is earlier than usual but would be better for our house. Also at that age much better time for soft play, will be very busy later on.

mintmagnum3 · 06/01/2024 21:55

It's early but I would still be greatful for the invite and my son/a would definitely be wanting to go regardless!

Newsenmum · 06/01/2024 21:59

HippeePrincess · 06/01/2024 21:29

God 5.30 wakes are the stuff of nightmares for me.

It was a very hard few years 😂

Lovetogarden2022 · 06/01/2024 22:00

Bernadinetta · 06/01/2024 21:02

Those saying awful time, what’s awful about it really? Surely no one has 2 year olds that lie in til after 9am?

I’d be perfectly happy to attend a toddler bday party at 9.30am on a Sunday, I would be glad to be up and out of the house. My DD turning 3 party is booked for 10am-12pm on a Sunday.

Mine always sleep in on the weekends until at least 9 🤣 We have a very busy and tiring week so it's important we have a slow start to the day on a weekend. Regardless though, we like to have a chilled start to the day on a Saturday and Sunday so I personally wouldn't be going to this but each to their own 😌

LegoDeathTrap · 06/01/2024 22:01

Totally standard.

WillYouPutYourCoatOn · 06/01/2024 22:02

I've just got my first invite like that for a soft play party. Ridiculous on a Sunday.

Like PP says, there's a decent afternoon slot, and the early slot. If you book in advance enough you'll get the decent slot. If not, you get the early slot that's always available, so all it made me think, was that the parent left it late to organise.

In all 15yrs of multiple child raising, I have never attended, nor organised a birthday party at 9.30am. Mine will either have to miss their friend's party, or go and have a two hour stint exhausting themselves and then come home and be tired and cranky from midday onwards. Terrific.

On behalf of all young primary aged children's parents, our attendance to this daft time, does not mean the party is a roaring success. It means we don't want our DC/birthday child to miss out, in spite of the time.

Newsenmum · 06/01/2024 22:03

WillYouPutYourCoatOn · 06/01/2024 22:02

I've just got my first invite like that for a soft play party. Ridiculous on a Sunday.

Like PP says, there's a decent afternoon slot, and the early slot. If you book in advance enough you'll get the decent slot. If not, you get the early slot that's always available, so all it made me think, was that the parent left it late to organise.

In all 15yrs of multiple child raising, I have never attended, nor organised a birthday party at 9.30am. Mine will either have to miss their friend's party, or go and have a two hour stint exhausting themselves and then come home and be tired and cranky from midday onwards. Terrific.

On behalf of all young primary aged children's parents, our attendance to this daft time, does not mean the party is a roaring success. It means we don't want our DC/birthday child to miss out, in spite of the time.

Remember it’s not primary aged though, it’s 2-3
year olds

JMSA · 06/01/2024 22:03

Crikey. I'm in the laidback parent camp and will happily go along with most things. However we'd have struggled to make this!

Vettrianofan · 06/01/2024 22:05

That's fine. We are up 6am daily anyway. Denied any long lines from 6yo or 8yo🤷🏻

JMSA · 06/01/2024 22:05

Also, it's annoyingly timed because presumably it doesn't include a lunch for the children. So parents will need to go home after and sort that out.

Highlandflapped · 06/01/2024 22:05

YABU

gemloving · 06/01/2024 22:08

Makes total sense as mine still naps and would get overtired if over lunch & I enjoy my time when he naps x

Namechangenamechange321 · 06/01/2024 22:10

Too early. 10 is fine. Otherwise it’s just another day of rushing up and out instead of a nice slow last start with breakfast and pottering about.

AhBiscuits · 06/01/2024 22:10

I've been to one at that time on a Sunday and it was fine. We're hosting one for DD tomorrow at a trampoline place. Asked people to be there for 10:30 for an 11 start.

newnamechangeforthisone · 06/01/2024 22:11

One aspect of my job is doing children’s parties. I on average do 5 parties a week.

There are some parties that happen that early. It can work well with younger children and it frees up the rest of the day. Primarily it happens I think as parents need to schedule in my services and often that's a time I have. From my perspective it's better than a later night with little ones.

Vettrianofan · 06/01/2024 22:11

Cas112 · 06/01/2024 21:27

I'd love this.. my child's up from 6am anyway😂
Get it over and done with

Yep. Gets you the rest of the day to yourself.

Mammyloveswine · 06/01/2024 22:11

sofedupandtiredofthis · 06/01/2024 20:35

9.30am on a Sunday morning.

Thoughts on whether this is a reasonable time or too early for a kids party?

My two swim on a Sunday morning at that time and I pay £45 a month each for them to go so I'd be missing that party!

Newsenmum · 06/01/2024 22:12

I hope it goes well.
Also I’m sure not everyone will be there on the dot so you’ll be fine.

Joeslaol19 · 06/01/2024 22:12

Far too early. I never even met Mums for a coffee until 11am when my lot were young! Parties should be over lunchtime or teatime.Iwas very lucky that my children never got up until 730am at the earliest!

wasanneofcleves · 06/01/2024 22:12

We were invited to one of these once...and it was at soft play to make matters worse!!! I sent DH instead and stayed at home 🤣

Doppelgangers · 06/01/2024 22:13

Not too early at all for a 2-3 year olds. The ones with kids at that age who would find it a rush to be up and out are very much in the minority.