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To take baby to hospital and demand an answer

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notsurewhattodo7 · 02/01/2024 06:44

Hello

Regular user but changed names.

Baby is 7.5 months old and nearly 3 weeks ago, she started coughing, nose running etc. she also cut her 2 bottom teeth around the same time. We started calpol/nurofen, baby Vicks, humidifier, snot suction etc.

Within 3 days her cough was so bad and she was taking less than half of her usual feeds so I took her to GP and they listened to her chest, diagnosed RSV and sent her to paediatrics to be checked over.

Her oxygen levels and temperature were fine at the hospital, they monitored for 6 hours and sent us home with an instruction that if she had dry nappies etc to bring her back up.

A few days later, her chest was vibrating, you could feel it when holding her so DH took her back to GP who started antibiotics as she said the infection had moved lower and was now a chest infection.

5 days of antibiotics, cough went but still wheezy and rattling chest/snotty nose and unhappy.

30th December, called 111 again as she was so unhappy, no calpol or nurofen seemed to help and just a feeling that something isn't right. They sent us back to paeds, they listened to her chest and told us she should never have been given antibiotics and it's still RSV and will improve.

It's now 2nd Jan, still really unhappy and crying/fussy most of the day which is not like her, she's always been such a happy and content baby, snoring, hates being laid flat, sleeping more than usual, chest still sounds like it's rattling and hasn't had a poo in 2 days which isn't like her.

I'm so worried that something is being missed. I hate seeing/hearing her like this. We've got the humidifier running all night, calpol is still being used, she's pale and her eyes have dark rings around them but I feel like if I take her back to GP or hosp or call 111 they are going to think I'm an absolute pest, overprotective first time mum and not listening to them that it's "just RSV".

I'm worried she has pneumonia or something more serious and I can barely sleep at night.

What would you do in this situation?

OP posts:
rainbowstardrops · 03/01/2024 09:39

See, you were right and you knew something was still wrong! I'm so glad you trusted your instincts and hope your little one is on the mend soon.

BeethovenNinth · 03/01/2024 09:46

Well done OP. Mums instant is ALWAYS right. I was so worried you would listen to the nay sayers saying back to the GP.

i wish your son a speedy recovery xx

WolfFoxHare · 03/01/2024 09:54

notsurewhattodo7 · 02/01/2024 20:00

GP sent us back to paediatrics.

DD has had a chest X-ray and has been admitted with pneumonia. Thank god I trusted myself on this one.

Well done for advocating for your DC. Hopefully she’ll be on the mend soon now she’s been admitted. Read up on the signs of sepsis and make sure you keep an eye out for those, and don’t worry about bothering the doctors.

fancydays · 03/01/2024 10:00

@notsurewhattodo7 good job OP, I do think you should have gone straight to the a and e to get to paeds, but the end result is the same, I'm hoping for a speedy recovery.

HateMyselfToo · 03/01/2024 12:17

Well done.
She's in the right place now and will hopefully be on the mend soon.

Summer8219 · 03/01/2024 12:52

Well done you, go mummy! Hope baby makes a quick recovery

Roselilly36 · 03/01/2024 17:48

Always listen to your instinct OP, I had two DS’ (adults now) every dr I have ever seen over the years re them, has always listened and usually asked me what I thought was wrong. And every dr has always been happy to see them any time day or night, when they were really little and I was always right to take them when I thought it necessary. I hope little one will be on the mend soon. Babies health is too important to think you are bothering them.

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