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My whole perception of my husband has changed

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fatpord · 30/12/2023 22:20

My husband and my son has said they’re not going to talk about it with me until the morning, as I’ve had a bottle of wine, so they might be right and I might my over reacting, but please hear me out. My family is stressful, I can’t even tell you how bad it is. My son has mental health issues and my daughter has physical health problems. The way it works is I work from 8am to 6pm and my husband works shorter hours but is around to handle my son’s mental health and daughters struggles while I work. I honestly thought he was the bees-knees up until today. Please help me put this in perspective and tell me AIBU
He just said he doesn’t wash his hands after ‘a poo’ and preparing our meals
i mean, god, I’ve always appreciated that he was the one that prepared and did all the meals and how lucky we all were but I honestly can’t cope with this revelation. To me it’s disgusting and really ‘fuck-you-ish’.
I’ve always adored him and everything about him but tonight I actually thought, my god, this person I thought I knew, is absolutely disgusting. After my wide-mouthed response to his revelation and him going to bed as I’m not fit to comment until the morning (he may be right of course)
please any I am being unreasonable is truly appreciated

ClaraMumsnet · 30/12/2023 22:43

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