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What are ‘all the trimmings’?

526 replies

HurricaneZeldaAndToto · 29/12/2023 16:56

After a slightly disappointing Christmas dinner at a relative’s house, I wondered if my idea of ‘all the trimmings’ was massively out of whack with the rest of the world?

If you did turkey dinner ‘with all the trimmings’ what did you serve?

AIBU to suspect this means very different things to different people?

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Itslegitimatesalvage · 29/12/2023 19:57

Bigcoatweather · 29/12/2023 19:54

OMG, I’m genuinely shocked at the amounts of food listed here.
I used to do similar many, many years ago but so much was left over I have completely streamlined and I’m a keen cook.

Stuffed turkey crown the size of a small dog.
Roast potatoes
Cabbage - either green or red
Sauteed, spiced brussels in maple syrup
Pigs in blankets
Gravy
Perhaps some homemade bread sauce

We don’t like Christmas pudding, so either homemade Yule log or our special layered jelly that the children make.
Homemade mince pies for later.

That’s it.
Two types of potato?! Wowzers 🙃

How are you so shocked when you used to do it yourself?

It entirely depends on the number of people there, and what’s the issue with two or three types of potatoes? People enjoy different types, so if you’ve got lots of people eating then why should everyone be stuck with just roast potatoes?

Dotjones · 29/12/2023 19:58

The basic roast would be turkey, roast potatoes, parsnips, carrots, brussels, stuffing, bread sauce, cranberry sauce and gravy.

"All the trimmings" would add bacon and sausages/sausagemeat or if you want to combine them you'd have (so-called) pigs in blankets.

Plus crackers obviously cos it's Xmas.

CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 20:00

I love the 'extraness' of a Christmas dinner because I have effectively not had to cook/think about cooking for almost a week. There are enough leftovers for all of us to have a variety of dinners that everyone can help themselves to - which is exactly why I cook as much as I do - because Christmas leftovers are the dinners of queens!

Karrak · 29/12/2023 20:01

CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 19:24

I REPEAT I WILL FIGHT TO THE DEATH ANYNE WHO DISAGREES WITH YORKIES ON A CHRISTMAS DINNER.

Ffs what's the matter with you all? Where's your Christmas Spirit? Bloody heathens, the lot of you!!

Tourists in the UK will make their way to Yorkshire for a night or two stopover. One of their aims is to try Yorkshire Pudding, the traditional way. And they lap it up.

We met a Swiss couple one Summer photographing our local church. They said they had refused Yorkshire Pudding in local pubs because they wanted to have it for the first time in Yorkshire.

The problem with trying to place Yorkshire Puddings on a Christmas Dinner is you dilute it. Then it doesn't get taken seriously. Like Crispy Duck Pud in Shanghai.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 29/12/2023 20:01

.... and pigs in blankets

CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 20:01

Car park. Now. I'm not joking!

CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 20:02

CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 20:01

Car park. Now. I'm not joking!

That was to @Karrak

Nellle · 29/12/2023 20:11

Notimeforaname · 29/12/2023 16:58

Mash, croquettes, sometimes roasties, broccoli, stuffing, carrots/other veg, gravy, sometimes Yorkshire puddings.

"Sometimes roasties"??? After mash and croquettes???

I am triggered.

Meowandthen · 29/12/2023 20:32

BIossomtoes · 29/12/2023 18:55

I really don’t understand why anyone eats bread sauce.

Because it’s the food of the gods. If it tastes like bread and milk you’re not making it right.

I believe you were trying to quote me or maybe you deliberately removed part of my comment. The part where I stated I am told the one I make is good. That’s just snarky.

I don’t like it. Don’t like the texture or the taste.

That’s allowed no matter how snotty you are trying to be. 🙄

Meowandthen · 29/12/2023 20:35

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 29/12/2023 19:15

Pigs in blankets
Broccoli
Mash
Peas
Carrots
Roast potatoes
Cauliflower cheese
Parsnips
Green beans
Stuffing balls
Yorkshire puddings
Gravy
Cranberry sauce
Mint sauce
Bread sauce
Sprouts

Meat is:
Ham
Beef
Chicken
Turkey

I don’t host but this is what both MIL and my own mum did Christmas this year.

Edited

Hang on. FOUR different meats for Christmas dinner!

Why so many? Were you feeding 30 people? 😳

Mirabai · 29/12/2023 20:36

Mikimoto · 29/12/2023 19:20

Croquettes was surreal! Unless the cook was five years old?

What’s weird is that they’re French and the French don’t eat them for Christmas dinner. Why have they crept into the menu?

BellaTheDarkOverlord · 29/12/2023 20:38

Meowandthen · 29/12/2023 20:35

Hang on. FOUR different meats for Christmas dinner!

Why so many? Were you feeding 30 people? 😳

Haha no. My mum did turkey and beef. MIL does ham and chicken. Mum’s meal fed 20 of us. MILs was for 12. I would just have turkey if it was me as I don’t like the others much. Love a bit of turkey! Mum also did a veggie option as SIL is vegetarian.

TheAlchemistElixa · 29/12/2023 20:40

HurricaneZeldaAndToto · 29/12/2023 17:01

I’d never have thought this included mash & croquettes!

It doesn’t! Croquettes have no place on a Christmas dinner plate. I don’t think mash does either, but I know I’ll be outnumbered on that one.

Other things that definitely don’t belong include peas, broccoli, cheese sauces of any kind. The idea is to really elevate the meal above your bog standard Sunday roast. Need to dream big people!!!!!

JenJenJenJenJenJen · 29/12/2023 20:54

Educate me, Mumsnet- when should croquettes be eaten?

I don’t think I’ve had any since I was a child. I agree that they don’t belong on a Christmas dinner, but what are they allowed on?

Ohthatsfabulousdarling · 29/12/2023 20:57

JenJenJenJenJenJen · 29/12/2023 20:54

Educate me, Mumsnet- when should croquettes be eaten?

I don’t think I’ve had any since I was a child. I agree that they don’t belong on a Christmas dinner, but what are they allowed on?

With pizza, fish fingers, chicken nuggies. Accompanied by beans, peas or spaghetti hoops
Or on their own, rolled in copious amounts of salt and pepper.

In my house, they're served instead of potato smiles on the very rare occasion we have them

CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 21:02

@Meowandthen I don't think that poster was trying to be unkind - I think she was just humorously jumping on that statement to be funny.

I really don't think it was a personal dig.

BIossomtoes · 29/12/2023 21:03

JenJenJenJenJenJen · 29/12/2023 20:54

Educate me, Mumsnet- when should croquettes be eaten?

I don’t think I’ve had any since I was a child. I agree that they don’t belong on a Christmas dinner, but what are they allowed on?

They’re nice with sausages.

freshgreen · 29/12/2023 21:06

We served parsnips, carrots, sprouts, chestnuts, cauliflower cheese, stuffing, bread sauce, gravy, roast potatoes, mashed potatoes, red cabbage, 2 meat roasts and a vegetarian Wellington, horseradish, cranberry sauce and a partridge in a pear tree.

ManateeFair · 29/12/2023 21:07

There were three of us and we had turkey, pigs in blankets, roast potatoes, roast parsnips, caramelised sprouts fried with chestnuts and Parmesan, spiced carrots, two different stuffings, homemade turkey gravy and cranberry sauce.

Bread sauce is a running joke in our house, as DP and I were once discussing the Christmas things that we associated with the terribly middle-class children at school when were kids, and the two things we both immediately thought of were a) bread sauce and b) opening presents after lunch instead of first thing in the morning. Both completely alien to DP and I!

Mirabai · 29/12/2023 21:12

Ohthatsfabulousdarling · 29/12/2023 20:57

With pizza, fish fingers, chicken nuggies. Accompanied by beans, peas or spaghetti hoops
Or on their own, rolled in copious amounts of salt and pepper.

In my house, they're served instead of potato smiles on the very rare occasion we have them

This must be a joke - potato with pizza or tinned spaghetti hoops??

They’re French originally and typically served with meat fillet or a hearty casserole.

Weedoormatnomore · 29/12/2023 21:12

Roast potatoes
Mashed potatoes
Peas
Carrots
Brusell sprouts
Roast parsnips
Pigs in blankets
Pigs with no blankets
Sage stuffing
Susagemeat stuffing
No Yorkshire I cook loads of everything so no need for that to fill up people.

JenJenJenJenJenJen · 29/12/2023 21:14

Mirabai · 29/12/2023 21:12

This must be a joke - potato with pizza or tinned spaghetti hoops??

They’re French originally and typically served with meat fillet or a hearty casserole.

Chips with pizza is common, so?

Mirabai · 29/12/2023 21:16

TheAlchemistElixa · 29/12/2023 20:40

It doesn’t! Croquettes have no place on a Christmas dinner plate. I don’t think mash does either, but I know I’ll be outnumbered on that one.

Other things that definitely don’t belong include peas, broccoli, cheese sauces of any kind. The idea is to really elevate the meal above your bog standard Sunday roast. Need to dream big people!!!!!

Definitely no kids’ food - mash, cauliflower cheese, and unseasonal veg like broccoli etc.

Mirabai · 29/12/2023 21:18

JenJenJenJenJenJen · 29/12/2023 21:14

Chips with pizza is common, so?

Good God.

Itslegitimatesalvage · 29/12/2023 21:18

@Mirabai

Why can’t the kids have the type of food they like and will eat without fuss? Why would I force my kit to eat roast potatoes when they love mash? And why no broccoli or peas? That’s what they like!