I'm with you about the piss takers @jollywhite
A 26 yr old relative is on DLA and PIP for their "Autism". They have a blue badge too.
Having regularly looked after the relative for periods of time from birth, I would not support the ASC diagnosis.
The things they told the GP that put them on the spectrum are things that they found on the internet and exaggerated when asked by any professionals. School never supported them going forward for a diagnosis, as they didn't see it at all. They were only diagnosed aged 19.
Relative had a part time job for a few months. The company didn't make reasonable adjustments for their disability (aka refused to pay a full days wage for 10.30am-2pm days), so they decided work wasn't for them.
Back on the internet they went, and discovered how to be successful getting their PIP/DLA/Blue Badge claim through. They talked to a friend who worked for DWP about how to answer correctly to get the maximum amount. They've been on full benefits for four years now. They're married to someone on a £50k wage who has inherited a house.
I was disgusted to pop in for a Christmas drink last week and to hear them boasting about their brand new car, which I saw had a personalised number plate on my way out.
It made me so cross for all the money wasted on them opting out of a working life and being paid for it, for all the people who need DLA and get refused as they're too poorly to complete the forms and do as much prep for the interview as my relative did. I was also so very very cross that my tax was paying for it.
I decided I need to back away from them now. Their lifestyle choice has made me too cross.