Today I am hosting a playdate a home, I have tidied up the flat and hoovered so everything is nice and ready. This is when DH decided to fix his bike and creates a big mess in the bathroom, kitchen and living room. I politely ask him to clean up before leaving for work. He does clean begrudgingly (except the bathroom he tells me he doesn't have time) but before leaving he tells me that I should have cleaned up myself and I am not a caring person and I should have offered to clean. AIBU?