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Really upset at the school need to vent

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AnnoyedTeacherrrr · 19/12/2023 09:59

Apologies in advance for any typos I might make. I am very upset right now and need to vent/get advice.

I worked as a supply teacher in a secondary school. School was very happy with me and wanted to keep me on as permanent. They said things such as my work ethic is amazing, I’m hard working etc. a couple of months later there was an incident where I was pushed very aggressively by a 14 year old student. It was not accidental, he purposely pushed me and I was hurt. The school did nothing, no consequences, talking to him, nothing at all. He was back in my class the next lesson which I questioned and headteacher told me he is still investigating it and has to look at it from both angles. I decided to give my notice in and left a week later as per supply contract. The school tried to convince me to stay and said they’re sorry how it all escalated etc.

I applied for a permanent job as I’m sick of supply teaching, everything went great; I did amazing at interview, the lesson observation was amazing and I got offered the job against 3 other applicants subject to references.

I got a call this morning from my new school saying there has been a concern raised from one reference (the school with the incident). The HR has told me I need to write a statement and they need to investigate it further as it’s a safeguarding concern. She wouldn’t tell me exactly what was in the reference as I need to get a written request in to view but she said the reference “is very positive” just one slight detail related around an incident involving a student.

The old school (supply position) is being very petty aren’t they? I feel so angry I feel I don’t want to let this go and I actually want to contact someone like governors etc but I don’t know what I should be doing. I’m on phone to my union now but I’m like position 8 still!

Please help. I’m so worried I’ll never get a job again. I have two young kids to support plus rent to pay and bills.

OP posts:
AnnoyedTeacherrrr · 19/12/2023 21:00

Thank you all. I can see some of you have read my original thread when it happened as your including details I haven’t written here - thank you so much. The old thread will be deleted tomorrow as it was put on 30 days only just want to thank everyone for their support. I’m sorry I didn’t include everything on here as I was trying to be unidentifiable but the thread is there for anyone who wishes to read. I totally forgot he made inappropriate remarks about my daughter. Re-reading my old thread it’s made me feel very bitter about how the school dealt with it at the time, I’m so glad I’m out of there!

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AnnoyedTeacherrrr · 19/12/2023 21:07

@Iamtheelephantintheroom thank you. That makes me feel better that not all schools are like this. Your place of work sounds lovely and very competent

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FrippEnos · 19/12/2023 21:13

You are allowed a copy of your reference from your new/prospective employer.
Make sure that the union has a copy of of the email complaining about your new school telling you your reference to the union and ask the union if you should tell your new school about it.
If you loose the new job you may have a case against the old school.

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