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Embarrassed myself whilst giving a presentation

37 replies

dfhytrgh · 06/12/2023 20:20

Today I had a presentation, just a spoken presentation with no PowerPoint slides. It was in a small group of 5, with 3 examiners sitting at desks assessing us. When I entered the room, I was surprised to see that there were chairs at the front lined for each of us to sit on. I didn't think much of it, as with there being no slides and no big audience who needed to see us from the back I presumed we were supposed to sit down and speak. I went first, and remained sitting. The person after me also stayed seated, but after them the next person stood up and so everyone else remaining also stood once it was their turn, and then sat back down once their turn was over.

I feel really embarrassed and awkward about it. It just didn't cross my mind to stand up. I've done presentations before but in front of the whole class and with slides to go and point at or gesture towards. There's never been any chairs, even in group presentations you all stand throughout. But with a row of chairs at the front I just presumed were were supposed to stay seated. I'm now worried I'm going to get marked down for it, and feel guilty that I influenced the next person to stay seated too. I honestly just didn't realise or think. I spoke to some of my friends who were in different groups and every single person stood up when speaking, and in some groups the whole group stood for the duration.

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AnyFucker · 06/12/2023 20:29

🤔 that doesn’t sound embarrassing at all

I thought you might have broken wind whilst speaking or something

Springcleaninginsummer · 06/12/2023 20:29

Don't worry, the chairs were there for you to be able to choose whether to stand or sit. You didn't do anything wrong. I am sure the content was what everyone focused on.

Dacadactyl · 06/12/2023 20:32

While I'd have stood up myself, I doubt they'll mark you down for it, unless your degree is in Public Speaking!

ZinniaB · 06/12/2023 20:32

I’ve done the same during presentations for my doctorate where other people have then stood up after, I haven’t thought twice about it and have never been marked down for it. Don’t worry! So easy to dissect after.

barbarahunter · 06/12/2023 20:32

It's not embarrassing, it's their fault for giving you a confusing layout. I'm another who thought you were going to say you farted 😂

plumtreebroke · 06/12/2023 20:33

I would have thought each speaker would be introduced and invited to stand. If not whatever you want to do, very small audience any way.

WillowCraft · 06/12/2023 20:33

I don't think sitting or standing will be in the mark scheme so I really wouldn't worry . It's fine to present sitting down, especially for smaller groups or for online for example.

cpphelp · 06/12/2023 20:35

I think you're fine OP.
I once gave an assessed presentation at uni and sat on the lecturers desk for most of it as a little too relaxed... I didn't even realise I'd done it until my fellow student laughed after. Still passed.

fluffiphlox · 06/12/2023 20:36

I thought you were going to say your shirt was unbuttoned or something worse. You need to put this into perspective.

Aprilx · 06/12/2023 20:45

I think unless seated around a table, the expectation would have been to stand. But I don’t think it is embarrassing that you didn’t.

Tomatojuiceandvodka · 06/12/2023 20:45

I had to do a presentation as part of a (8 hour-horrific) job interview earlier this year. It was me and an audience of 12. There was no PowerPoint or anything and a chair, so I sat to do it. I got the job

Mariposista · 06/12/2023 20:48

That sounds fine OP. I prefer sitting too as I get dizzy standing still for long periods of time (blood seems to pool to my feet).
I bet you did really well!

FuckHonestlyKnows · 06/12/2023 20:50

You're assuming the 'sitters' were wrong and the 'standers' right though. Nothing to say that's the case.

LoreleiG · 06/12/2023 20:50

That sounds completely fine to me!

My mouth once froze during a presentation and I literally couldn’t speak. That was embarrassing…

tomatoontoast · 06/12/2023 20:52

I reached down to get my notes out of my workbag mid presentation & farted. The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop. It still keeps me up at night.

CavalierApproach · 06/12/2023 20:53

Oh don’t worry OP, that doesn’t sound bad!

I know it’s easier said than done not to worry, though Flowers

What was that ancient MN thread where someone introduced herself as the wrong name during a presentation? I think it was maybe the name of someone else who was actually in the room. So yeah, could be worse 😁

user628468523532453 · 06/12/2023 20:53

I don't know the marking criteria, but in my workplace if we were giving a presentation to a small group like that we would stay seated.

I don't see the issue unless you're being assessed on your standing skills?

CavalierApproach · 06/12/2023 20:53

Oh no, oh noooooo

Editing, I meant this to quote @tomatoontoast !

Neriah · 06/12/2023 20:55

If I gave a presentation standing up, I'd fall over! Seating isn't what is important.

Allwelcone · 06/12/2023 20:55

I once did a presentation so boring someone groaned during it

FuckHonestlyKnows · 06/12/2023 20:57

The CEO of my company was once giving a presentation on an all-hands call. It was the same old stuff he'd been saying for years and years. Mid-sentence, someone who had forgotten to mute themselves said 'oh blah blah blah for fuck's sake, heard it all before mate'.

And he managed to style that out and keep going 😆

Doyouthinktheyknow · 06/12/2023 20:57

I thought you were going to say you farted too, I’m very childish!

I think the set up sounds confusing and going first is always going to be stressful.

I think it will be fine, you will be judged on the quality of the content and your presenting skills, surely? Anyone can sit or stand, no skill in that!

hastalavista · 06/12/2023 21:01

I once called my boss 'mum' during a presentation.
I hope that puts things into perspective.

Itsallsostressful · 06/12/2023 21:02

Another one that waited on a fart story !!!

OP I deliver training to smallish group and generally always stay sitting down. Please don't worry 🤗

Notmetoo · 06/12/2023 21:04

I don't think it matters that you were sitting. In a small group I actually think sitting is better.
I can't see why you would be marked down for it or that you embarrassed yourself