I have read this thread with interest but also, it has made me very sad. Some of these comments are very hurtful and I have found myself thinking... damn, I really wish we didn't choose the UK as our home because I am clearly not welcome.
My British wife and I have just finished a five year old path so I could become a permanent citizen. In that time, we have spent £8k+ in visa applications and processing fees and £3k+ in additional NHS fees (on top of what I already pay in my taxes).
I was not allowed to stay in the country while our first visa was being processed, so we were separated for months. After it was granted, I got a job within THREE days of arrival and have worked ever since. We have NEVER applied for benefits. If we did, my visa would be cancelled and I would get deported. I have since opened my own company which has been successful and earn a very good wage.
But it's the small things that make the entire process ridiculous. As part of my first visa application, we had to pay a legal firm to MEASURE my wife's apartment to make sure there was enough room for me to live there (?!?). When we purchased our first property, only ONE bank were willing to lend to us because of my immigration status, so we just had to take their rate. When COVID hit, I was so scared that any hint of government help to keep my business running would impact my next visa, I did not apply and struggled through.
We have put off having children because we were always scared the rules would change and suddenly we wouldn't meet the requirements. In return, I am looked at as a burden and some kind of leech on British taxpayers. In reality, I have paid double for services like the NHS and now I can't even get a doctors appointment.
So, am I the problem? Or is it because this country refuses to pay its citizens a decent wage and actually invest in services, like the NHS, that are so important apparently?
Absolutely wild.