The problem with Labour was there seemed to be a belief that if you weren't on benefits and weren't a single parent - then you weren't deserving of any help.
My parents slogged their guts out, working full time and extra hours to bump their pay. My mother earned minimum wage and my dad worked shifts, on low paid, unskilled work. I grew up in a deprived northern town on a council estate.
At the end of the month, they would only be very slightly better off than the young woman two doors down, who had her first child at 16 and had literally never worked a day in her life.
I went to school with someone who was one of seven. They received free school meals and yet spent three weeks in Florida every summer. We had our first holiday abroad in 2003.
The council estate was once a relatively pleasant place to live. But over the years crime and vandalism took over. People would destroy their council houses, yet no action was taken against them. There was plenty of crime, which became worse as we entered the 00s - people would wake up to find their tyres slashed. Crime became so bad we moved to a different town.
I wasn't eligible for EMA at sixth form, yet I knew some who received £30 a week. They'd have parents who had separated but in many cases, their fathers had very good jobs and lived in big houses. They had bought cars for their kids and they would use the EMA for petrol money. They received this money simply because their parents weren't together. I only knew of one person who received EMA who was genuinely struggling - she only qualified for £10 a week.
The welfare state is too cruel now, but back then it was far too generous, and despite middle class protestations, people were paid a healthy wage to sit at home and have more kids.
My parents say they were doing well in the early Cameron years, when things had rebalanced slightly.
There was a huge amount of unfairness and it's now either forgotten about, or denied by people who had never been around it to see it.
I despise the current shower and will be voting Labour at the next election. But I think the 1997 administration introduced a lot of the ills of today's society and made things worse long-term for short-term gain.