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To think many fell for the Captain Tom scam

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Binjob118 · 12/11/2023 21:47

I never understood all the fuss about Captain Tom. A rich old man walked around his garden and was lauded as a hero. Family then go on freebie holiday to Barbados whilst rest of us were locked down for Christmas. Then it turns out he was part of family scam to pay the family from book proceeds. No wonder so many people in this country are targeted by scammers, we are a gullible lot.

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Americano75 · 13/11/2023 06:48

MinnieL · 12/11/2023 23:37

What’s the doc called and where you watching it pls?

It was on channel 5 at 9pm last night, called Where Did the Money Go? I turned it off in the end because it was bloody annoying. 😆

StarShipControl · 13/11/2023 06:54

spillyo · 13/11/2023 06:37

Virtually everyone lost their fucking minds at the time, so not surprised people fell for it.

Well, not all of us. I'm still horrified by how utterly insane this country went. My partner and I did not go along with it. We did not hide at home, rat on our neighbours, CLaP fOr tHe NhS, disinfect our shopping or take the pointless vaccine.

Still paid for the fucking madness though. We took a serious financial hit due to our sectors, missed saying goodbye to much-loved grandparents (who didn't die of covid) and now have no faith at all in the common sense of most people.

So yeah, if the Captain Tom bollocks helps some people see what gullible twats they are, great.

I'm so interested in what made you different? How come some people thought like you but the vast majority didn't?

I did too but I felt so bloody alone. No one else I knew thought like me. I knew all my thinking was based on logic but I started thinking maybe I'm the crazy one?

It was an awful time.

unfairornot · 13/11/2023 06:55

I'd like to think he wasn't in on it and just genuinely wanted to help the cause. He was very old so hardly likely to benefit from the success. What his family did after is awful.

Agree the clapping was stupid can't believe we did it.

BatshitCrazyWoman · 13/11/2023 07:00

itsallovernowbabyblueee · 12/11/2023 22:13

Lol, I lost my shit on fb when someone I know who lives in a European country (used to live in the UK) was squawking about how awful it was that "it was shocking that the NHS had to be kept afloat by an old man"

It was ridiculous that this stupid, mawkish story was being spun that way and people in other countries actually believed that he had anything to do with supporting the clinical NHS.

I was a proper grundle at the time about both Captain Tom and the stupid pot banging and clapping and I make no apologies for my attitude.

Completely agree about this mawkishness. I didn't bang any pots (and really felt for my shift-worker neighbour being woken up by the pot-bangers) or an shrewd old man wandering round his garden. Thought it was tosh then, and still do now.

I've not seen the documentary - did any money go to the NHS?

spillyo · 13/11/2023 07:04

StarShipControl · 13/11/2023 06:54

I'm so interested in what made you different? How come some people thought like you but the vast majority didn't?

I did too but I felt so bloody alone. No one else I knew thought like me. I knew all my thinking was based on logic but I started thinking maybe I'm the crazy one?

It was an awful time.

I don't know. I was brought up to question things. To be naturally skeptical of big claims.

I looked up the Diamond Princess cruise ship, and I also found details of what the vaccine trial protocols were actually testing. Covid was obviously not as deadly as was being claimed, and the Diamond Princess was the perfect illustration of this. As for the vaccine trials, they were clearly not intended to prevent transmission, so I wondered why everyone up to the US President was claiming that they would. It seemed like people were lying.

I also felt extremely alone. Only my partner and one parent felt the same was as I did. Well, I had a long-distance friend who did too, but I actually couldn't cope with his opinions too. I was wary that he was going too far the other way, and I didn't want to go down some weird rabbit hole.

tpxqi · 13/11/2023 07:04

The same naive people who believed this also believed all other lies about Covid. The only difference is that this scam made an individual family money, while the Covid gravy train made corrupt governments and their cronies a lot of money.

Remember, how anyone who questioned anything at the time was called a conspiracy theorist. Most people must be feeling very stupid now to fall for all of it.

walttynutcade · 13/11/2023 07:04

It was very uncomfortable watching, I am sure most fund raising events are all run above board however this may make some people connected to charities review how their charity is managed,

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tpxqi · 13/11/2023 07:07

fuzzystar · 12/11/2023 22:08

We were all bored and scared we would die if we didn't wash our shopping.

Speak for yourself. Rational people thought no such thing.

Reba767 · 13/11/2023 07:08

It felt eggy at the time to me.
What channel is the documentary on?

CandyLeBonBon · 13/11/2023 07:10

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No need to be so scathing. That's a pretty unpleasant attitude

maybejustonemoretime · 13/11/2023 07:10

@Zanatdy no nothing wrong with coming up with a genius marketing ploy to start using a title you haven't been referred to as in decades to conjure up a certain image that allows you to manipulate a patriotic middle England at a time of unprecedented despair to raise huge amounts of money so you can cream off hundreds of thousands of pounds to line your own pockets and extend your million pound pile with a pool and spa, and enjoy national treasure/celebrity status and all that goes with it for essentially nothing extraordinary at all.

When you put it like that you are right, nothing wrong there.

tpxqi · 13/11/2023 07:14

CandyLeBonBon · 13/11/2023 07:10

No need to be so scathing. That's a pretty unpleasant attitude

It may be unpleasant but It’s true now and it was true then.

CandyLeBonBon · 13/11/2023 07:18

@tpxqi sorry no, you're just using your opinions as an excuse to be unpleasant.

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CandyLeBonBon · 13/11/2023 07:26

Nothing to do with being kind, I just can't bear people pretending to share 'their truth' when it's just barely disguised vitriol. You're perfectly entitled to share your opinion, but sneering and scathing and pretending you're superior to others who think differently is just unnecessary

FancyFanny · 13/11/2023 07:26

I doubt the the whole Captain Tom thing started as a scam. However, when they saw how much money was rolling in I'm sure they then thought that it was an opportunity to make a little for themselves. I'm pretty sure Captain Tom was happy for his family to benefit a little from this unexpected opportunity and told them to do so.

tpxqi · 13/11/2023 07:27

CandyLeBonBon · 13/11/2023 07:26

Nothing to do with being kind, I just can't bear people pretending to share 'their truth' when it's just barely disguised vitriol. You're perfectly entitled to share your opinion, but sneering and scathing and pretending you're superior to others who think differently is just unnecessary

You can’t bear it? And?

Ballsbaill · 13/11/2023 07:33

He was forced to enlist (conscripted). He was an officer and in India, he was setting up and running a training programme for army motorcyclists. Hardly front line at D Day. Some time in Burma but it was all training for armoured vehicles.

After that he left at 26 and worked for the family business then was a salesman.

Cashing in on his titles and wearing his medals for that. He and his daughter were so in on it.

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Headshoulderscheeseontoast · 13/11/2023 07:41

I said at the time there was something off about his daughter, she seemed to be enjoying the lime light a bit too much and the whole thing felt suspicious to me.

I was told I was a miserable cow. But a correct miserable cow it seems!

EasternStandard · 13/11/2023 07:42

spillyo · 13/11/2023 06:37

Virtually everyone lost their fucking minds at the time, so not surprised people fell for it.

Well, not all of us. I'm still horrified by how utterly insane this country went. My partner and I did not go along with it. We did not hide at home, rat on our neighbours, CLaP fOr tHe NhS, disinfect our shopping or take the pointless vaccine.

Still paid for the fucking madness though. We took a serious financial hit due to our sectors, missed saying goodbye to much-loved grandparents (who didn't die of covid) and now have no faith at all in the common sense of most people.

So yeah, if the Captain Tom bollocks helps some people see what gullible twats they are, great.

I feel like this too. This site was a mess to show how much people lost their minds

WeAreOnTheRoadToNowhere · 13/11/2023 07:46

His privilege was clear. Top of the range walker, not NHS issue for sure, large house and garden. Nobody would have clapped or donated to a chap walking around his housing association bungalow with his zimmer frame
They had the connections to get the publicity. It blows my mind what people don't are to. Sadly its often those who need the money more

Blogswife · 13/11/2023 07:47

Binjob118 · 12/11/2023 21:47

I never understood all the fuss about Captain Tom. A rich old man walked around his garden and was lauded as a hero. Family then go on freebie holiday to Barbados whilst rest of us were locked down for Christmas. Then it turns out he was part of family scam to pay the family from book proceeds. No wonder so many people in this country are targeted by scammers, we are a gullible lot.

I agree . I couldn’t understand the hype & hysteria around a very wealthy elderly man walking up and down his garden . Many elderly people take a daily walk around their gardens for exercise - my 92 yo aunt who has recently had her hips replaced for example .
However I’m all for raising money for charity so to an extent was onboard too
I certainly didn’t understand the awards , adoration and hero status that he received and started to have my suspicions when his daughter seemed so keen on the tv appearances and interviews .
What (he?) & his family did was deplorable. No doubt many people with far less wealth & privilege gave hard earned cash to fund their lavish lifestyle.
I think the whole country was duped