Went out for dinner with a group of friends I see all together once or twice a year. This time we did dinner and invited our partners. The partners don’t all have much in common but they can manage to find common ground for an evening. All day I had mentioned pudding at this pub and when we arrived I said how I wasn’t sure on a starter as I wanted pudding. No one wanted pudding but someone wanted another drink. My partner said you don’t want pudding but I still asked for the menu. As the menu was handed to me he said get the menu and say no to pudding. He said we would get pudding at some dessert place. I mentioned this to the table saying husband wants to get pudding from this place you are all more than welcome to come. He then went for a wee and asked for the bill. As we left I said I didn’t like being told that I shouldn’t order dessert. He then said in the car he was so glad to leave the boys as they had nothing in common. That everyone else was ready to go home and just me ordering dessert would have been weird. I said that my friends were happy still talking and someone wanted another drink. I said he seemed rude by not wanting to be there and as it was 1 dinner he could suck it but that I wouldn’t bring him next time. He thinks no one noticed and that they where all wanting to leave. He kept suggesting we could go get pudding from this place but it’s completely different types or dessert.