Im going to say the unpopular thing. People now have higher expectations and dont appreciate that you dont get everything you want in life.
We bought a 220k house on a joint pretax income of 44k. We lived in a houseshare with some bloody difficult people to save up. We went without a car, we didn't have a wedding.
We bought a 3 bed house in a nice area almost an hour from the city and commuted for 5 years before having kids and changing one if our jobs to suit childcare. We waited to have a baby. We overpaid on the mortgage as much as we could afford to, which was not a lot at the start, and for the first 5 years had little by way of holidays.
As soon as we remortgaged after 5 years, we used the spare money to overpay. We had extra money because we had climbed the ladder. One of us has a degree we dont use, the other started at the bottom of a retail chain. We used the salary bumps to pay off more on the mortgage every month and started doing the house up piecemeal. We haven't even been close to living in poverty, we have just chosen to progress and put the money into the house.
Pre kids we picked up overtime to pay more into the house.
If i told you now that we both earn a combined salary of 60k pre tax and have a mortgage of 60k because we overpay by £1000 a month and are on track to be mortgage free by 40 & 45 you'd tell us we are the exception. And we are.
But we worked hard to do that. We didnt get help to pay the deposit, we haven't had inheritance. We lived in a shithole for years before buying and we didnt buy the aspirational 4 bed house, we bought smaller and knew that we could fit in 2 kids and have less stuff. We dont have a nice finance car, we have an old run around. We didnt buy in our preferred, convenient area, we compromised.
I'm not saying there arent politics and that it isnt hard for the 20-somwthings of today. But I think some people have more privilege than they think and choose to stay static because they wont compromise temporarily on lifestyle to achieve the future financial security. They'd rather flap about the older generation (who will always be catered to as they are a large portion of the voting population)
There will always be political and social problems but sadly it will take generations to fix. I feel incredibly sorry for people raised rurally who are priced out of their home towns by expensive housing and a lack of good jobs. But that is where things are unfortunately. We were priced out so we moved.
OP, many generations lived without healthcare, sanitation, basic human rights. We are where we are. What are you doing to improve your life chances? Living at home? Buying less? Staying in more? Got a LISA? Picked up some overtime?