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To think self checkouts in clothes shops is a step too far

309 replies

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 13:59

Went shopping to get my dd some new clothes today. Noticed H and M had self service checkouts... tills were open too though. Then I went to M&S and tills were only for returns or exchanges and to pay you had to use self service. I tolerate self checkouts in supermarkets but when I am buying clothes, I expect some sort of service. What struck me is that in my local M and S they sell Jaeger...a blouse was £125. I assume their coats would be at least a couple of hundred quid. It really irks me and no way would I spend hundreds of pounds on an item of clothing and have to ring it up a the checkout myself. I think it's really crappy to be honest... anyone else agree?

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cardibach · 09/11/2023 18:01

floofbag · 09/11/2023 14:54

Exactly , you queue in the returns queue to pay if you want to be served by someone .

I work in retail and I feel like most customers want a human to 'serve ' them so they feel superior . Why does it matter who or what takes your Money .. surely quicker is better !

It’s not AT ALL about superiority. What an odd attitude. It’s lots of factors, including complications like having a voucher/gift card and not wanting to contribute to staff redundancies - they won’t actually keep the staff on to do tidying etc. I don’t believe anyone really thinks that. They’ll just reduce staffing.

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:01

TheValueOfEverything · 09/11/2023 17:51

I’m quite young and I like a quick chat - brief exchange - with a cashier.

The idea of an automated high street with no human interaction is abhorrent to me. It’s the fleeting human contact that makes us human. I generally refuse to use self check outs. They depress and frustrate me.

Yes I agree. I'm amazed so many people seem to hate these fleeting, daily interactions. It's so depressing. I've worked in customer service before...I actually enjoyed passing the time of day with people. It's a very odd world we're creating. And stop thinking shops are doing this to save you money. They are doing it to maximise profits for shareholders at the expense of ordinary people's jobs.

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LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:01

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 17:57

So out of interest I looked on the m and s website at the Jaegar stuff. The most expensive item was £799 for a jacket. There were many women's coats on there for £399. I can't believe so many people are happy to spend that much on a coat yet prepared to use self checkout to pay for it. I find the concept incredibly rude...spend a lot of money and not even enough decency to provide any level of service.

What do you want them to do with the online purchases?! Have an m&s staff member personally deliver them??

LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:03

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:01

Yes I agree. I'm amazed so many people seem to hate these fleeting, daily interactions. It's so depressing. I've worked in customer service before...I actually enjoyed passing the time of day with people. It's a very odd world we're creating. And stop thinking shops are doing this to save you money. They are doing it to maximise profits for shareholders at the expense of ordinary people's jobs.

Of course. Because without shareholders getting return they won't invest and so there will be no shop from where we can buy our knickers. It's a business not a public service.

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:03

LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:01

What do you want them to do with the online purchases?! Have an m&s staff member personally deliver them??

If I'm buying online, I'm well aware that the item will be delivered to me and I won't have human contact beyond the delivery driver

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cardibach · 09/11/2023 18:05

LifesADance · 09/11/2023 14:58

I also think some people like the interaction, particularly the elderly who can be quite isolated.

Shops aren’t there to provide social care.

Wow. Frank turner is so right. Thatcher fucked the kids. No such thing as society, eh?

1 February 2023

Frank Turner Thatcher Fucked the kids live at York Barbican #frankturner #frankturnerlive

https://youtu.be/CoXAknhQgVM?si=4CWROCkSvYOLcLUv

43ontherocksporfavor · 09/11/2023 18:07

I agree .I hate the whole No bag thing with clothes too. Surely a recyclable or paper bag would suffice for clothes? I use shoppers but I don't like putting clothing into a bag that is not 100% clean/new.

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:10

Well when AI completely takes over, shareholders can get even richer and we'll all be unemployed. That will be brilliant for society and even better we won't ever have to speak to each other

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43ontherocksporfavor · 09/11/2023 18:12

Boots does it now too. There’s no reduction in price though is there, considering you get no service!

RamblingRosiePosy · 09/11/2023 18:14

Working on a checkout/ till can feel like a form of torture for the staff.
l work in a big store and nobody likes working on the checkouts or self service. We all much prefer working on the online side, and that is all the managers care about, because that's where we take more money.

LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:19

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:03

If I'm buying online, I'm well aware that the item will be delivered to me and I won't have human contact beyond the delivery driver

Well now it's the same with the shop

LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:23

43ontherocksporfavor · 09/11/2023 18:07

I agree .I hate the whole No bag thing with clothes too. Surely a recyclable or paper bag would suffice for clothes? I use shoppers but I don't like putting clothing into a bag that is not 100% clean/new.

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Why? Surely you wash your clothes anyway? All the chemicals from the manufactuing process. So wasteful.

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:24

LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:19

Well now it's the same with the shop

And I'll vote with my feet. We should not be so accepting of this. It's really bad for society.

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LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:24

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:10

Well when AI completely takes over, shareholders can get even richer and we'll all be unemployed. That will be brilliant for society and even better we won't ever have to speak to each other

You talk about shareholders as if they are evil but loads of people are share holders of m&s. They used to send you a voucher for coffee and cake.

NurseButtercup · 09/11/2023 18:24

AnneLovesGilbert · 09/11/2023 14:16

Our nearest Matalan does this. They haven’t even done anything new to make it clear what you have to do, they’ve just dragged the scanner out to the front and people stand by the unmanned tills looking confused till a member of staff barks at them to a scan it themselves.

They deserve to go under.

Yup, this happened to me it was bizarre. I'm 50/50 about self - scan but I wholeheartedly object when it's a shit set up. I don't shop in Matalan anymore.

TheJubileePortrait · 09/11/2023 18:27

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:24

And I'll vote with my feet. We should not be so accepting of this. It's really bad for society.

Do you think anyone cares? Do you think any shop will be at all affected? Because they won’t 😂

I love it when people do the whole “well I’m not shopping here again!” Er, good?! 🤣

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:29

LittleMooli · 09/11/2023 18:24

You talk about shareholders as if they are evil but loads of people are share holders of m&s. They used to send you a voucher for coffee and cake.

They're not evil...it's capitalism. But AI and automation is a real concern. Think how many teens had Saturday jobs working in shops. Y It won't be long until that's a thing of the past. You cannot simply wipe out jobs without a second thought for the implications.

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Ginmonkeyagain · 09/11/2023 18:41

It's not really wiping out jobs as such. Since covid and Brexit retail has had massive staff shortages. They can't get enough people to do the jobs.

TheValueOfEverything · 09/11/2023 18:41

The purpose of shops isn't only to make profit. It's also to provide an exchange, money for goods, which is a service. And as humans living in a society, we build in social elements to this exchange which contribute to the fabric of our society.
Automation of shops ultimately weakens society.
And as others have pointed out, reduces the number of human-facing jobs.

winniethedoo · 09/11/2023 18:46

I'm planning a trip to Uniqlo now

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 18:47

I also feel like it's just very graceless. I don't want someone to serve me because I want to feel superior or have someone skivvying after me like some pp said...but I feel like if I have chosen to give my custom to a shop, there should be an element of appreciation and gratitude from that shop, I don't mean the individual sales staff but the shop as a whole. Not having anyone available to serve me is basically saying your custom is not worth it.

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Jimmyneutronsforehead · 09/11/2023 19:17

To each their own really but I'd happily pay not to have awkward small talk or stand behind people quibbling with cashier's over things that are often largely out of their control, like the price of things.

I don't think having someone ring up the cost of things constitutes customer service, to me that's the help in the shop you get when you either ask for it, or are otherwise noticed as needing assistance.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/11/2023 19:18

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/11/2023 18:41

It's not really wiping out jobs as such. Since covid and Brexit retail has had massive staff shortages. They can't get enough people to do the jobs.

No they can’t get enough staff to work at the shit wages they pay-
a gain capitalism

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/11/2023 19:20

Wonder if one day there will be a self service Louis Vutton…..

Comedycook · 09/11/2023 19:23

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/11/2023 19:20

Wonder if one day there will be a self service Louis Vutton…..

Imagine...then sticking it in your asda bag for life!

still at least you wouldn't have had to, heaven forbid, speak to another human being.

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