Going to chip in here.
get your daughter to write down where and why she’s stuck…explain her reasoning
then she takes to her teacher
And asks her teacher where she going wrong and teacher can see her reasoning so far and help her
i got a “u” grade at A level maths because I relied on others trying to solve my homework when I was stuck. I re-sat my A level and got an A grade. Serious shit. The difference was I was resitting with a private tutor and no one else around to help me with my homework. She made me write down my thinking whenever I got stuck or thought I got wrong, and within WEEKS (with just 4 hours per week) all the pennies dropped and I sailed through my exam. Never sat exams agian like that where I walked out knowing I had made one stupid error but not enough time to figure out where.
that lesson learnt, that I needed to note down where I got stuck then speak to the professional tutor about it, stayed with me into university. I got a 2.1 based on sheer slog and always using my tutors to teach me , not my mates, my parents, or the swotty student who fancied me
I also found out at university, that when I stuck my hand up in lectures to ask for clarification I was met with other students murmuring, “I don’t get it either”. I learnt there is never a dumb question, if it’s a genuine lack of understanding. (I did chemistry at uni) .
That was over 40 years ago. I never forgot that lesson. I became a tutor of adults as part of my job, I always said if you get stuck come back to ME, not your colleagues, wirte down where you get to and your thinking so we can together “unravel” your mind and get you thinking in the way to solve it for you. as a teacher you know you will never teach anything in a way everyone will understand.
Your daughters big lesson you CAN teach her is to build confidence that she isn’t stupid in asking her teacher for the explanation on how to solve it, and she isn’t a nuisance, or teachers swot, and that by indicating on the question exactly what bit she is stuck on it’ll help her teacher to “get inside her head” with where her taking is getting stuck.
you are, frankly, doing her few favours trying to solve her problems for her😢 unless you are a maths teacher too. 😉