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AIBU to ask if there is anything at all that works as it should in the Uk?

213 replies

Lavendersquare · 03/11/2023 15:36

Just been having a discussion with a colleague and between us we can't think of any public service/government department or agency that is delivering a decent service. Examples include:

Education
NHS
Immigration
Police
Social care
Roads
Railways
Dental Care

it never used to be like this, there was a time when things worked, were maintained and replaced. Now it seems everything is left to the last minute and patched up or left to deteriorate.

What's happened?

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CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 04/11/2023 23:07

LakieLady · 04/11/2023 23:00

Up until this week, I would have said the bit of the courts service that deals with benefit appeals, but I had an appeal on 26 October and the decision letter hasn't arrived yet.

Pre-Covid, they would usually let you wait for the decision, and get the letter out that day or early next day if you didn't. It's been taking a few days, but this is the first time that I've known a client left hanging for over a week for a decision notice.

Good Lord, I’m not going to quibble on your individual experience but I used to handle a lot of pro bono appeals before I went off long-term sick and I can tell you the system was NOT working at all as much as two years ago. I was accepted for a literal PhD on how many ways it is dysfunctional but couldn’t complete for financial reasons. It is not working in the vast majority of cases.

DahliaJ · 04/11/2023 23:14

BarbaraofSeville · 03/11/2023 16:38

I thought 'The Conservative Party' was the answer to 'what happened, why is everything shit now'

Earlier this year we went on holiday to a Nordic country and the difference was stark.

Yes, it was expensive, but everything seemed to 'just work'. Everything we did was well organised and easy to work out, eg transport to and from the airport, tours etc.

There was virtually no litter, public buildings etc were clean and well maintained - my God, how shabby the UK airport we flew back into looked in comparison.

Public transport was frequent, cheap and reliable. In this country they have virtually no crime (there were fewer police officers in the entire country than there is in the one city where we live). There was no visible homelessness, no beggars, housing and utilities were affordable to most people when we looked into it.

There must be some downsides but seeing as all the Nordic countries generally jostle for position in the top 5 happiest populations in the world, they're a lot less prevalent than the UK.

Yes, we find a lot of that the same in The Netherlands and in the main cities in Hungary.

Busy high streets, quality shops, efficient public transport.

DahliaJ · 04/11/2023 23:21

Libertass · 04/11/2023 01:04

Plenty of things work very well in the U.K. Telecoms, media, aviation, supermarkets & food distribution, financial services, delivery infrastructure etc etc. All the things which are run by the private sector in free competitive markets with little or no input from useless governments & public sector bureaucracies. We need more privatisation of public services to bring the current inadequate provision of healthcare up to modern standards.

Hahaha!

Privatisation of the special school system which costs LA’s up to £140,000 per child per year - because politically LA’s can not build new schools without an Academy sponsor to open the school.

Privatisation of residential children’s homes, as above. Leaving already underfunded LA’s with even less.

Of course, shareholder payouts must come before children.

Supermarkets locally have very empty shelves, airlines are cancelling and removing flights, trains the same, so unreliable that we daren't use them for fear of being stranded (again).

BIossomtoes · 04/11/2023 23:21

EssexMan55 · 04/11/2023 21:55

Which is why people are going to very disappointed when labour get in. The country won’t magically get richer and be able to pay for high quality public services. Really, it’s a managed decline for the foreseeable.

Edited

We know that. There won’t be any more money. It’ll be spent much more wisely though.

larkstar · 04/11/2023 23:35

Sarcastically I might say "the class system" works as well as it's every worked.

Creativity in the UK across many genres - I think our acting schools, for instance, turn out a phenomenal number of very talented people. that go into theatre, film and TV. Listen to the diverse and innovative range of music this country produces - this country has always punched above it's weight on that front. We innovate in many fields of technology BUT if you want to scale up and take a product to market you have to go to the US to get the financial backing.

Ireolu · 04/11/2023 23:39

HMRC for the salaried worker.

mrlistersgelfbride · 04/11/2023 23:42

COVID vaccine
Royal mail is still good (IMO)
Payroll departments
Libraries very well run in my area

That's pretty much it

Kendodd · 04/11/2023 23:46

Blame Tory voters OP, the state of the country is 100% on them.

Knitgoodwoman · 04/11/2023 23:50

My kids go to great state schools
The NHS whenever I’ve used it has been brilliant
Our local sports facilities and libraries are great
Our train services are actually not bad
I’ve lived in several countries and I’m very grateful for this one! Small things like I feel a lot safer driving here than in many countries I lived in.
Our streets are a lot cleaner too.
We also take care of the more vulnerable in society, some countries I’ve lived in have homeless cities, which I’ve never seen in the UK
I choose to see the positives as well, no point dwelling on the negatives when by global standards we’re very lucky.

verdantverdure · 05/11/2023 05:17

mrlistersgelfbride · 04/11/2023 23:42

COVID vaccine
Royal mail is still good (IMO)
Payroll departments
Libraries very well run in my area

That's pretty much it

Most of us don't get a covid vaccine anymore do we? Leading to more covid out and about to infect those who do. It's short-sighted and stupid to have a vaccine only covid policy and then not to vaccinate everyone who wants one. As it is, we are on track to waste loads of doses.

MidnightOnceMore · 05/11/2023 07:08

Knitgoodwoman · 04/11/2023 23:50

My kids go to great state schools
The NHS whenever I’ve used it has been brilliant
Our local sports facilities and libraries are great
Our train services are actually not bad
I’ve lived in several countries and I’m very grateful for this one! Small things like I feel a lot safer driving here than in many countries I lived in.
Our streets are a lot cleaner too.
We also take care of the more vulnerable in society, some countries I’ve lived in have homeless cities, which I’ve never seen in the UK
I choose to see the positives as well, no point dwelling on the negatives when by global standards we’re very lucky.

This attitude is partly what allows governments to get away with making things worse.

It's comforting to look on the bright side, but it isn't always honest.

I'm grateful I don't live somewhere worse too, but factually speaking all the things you mention - schools, the NHS, railways, safety, homelessness - are in a significantly worse state than they were.

It is being 'grateful' that enables governments to treat voters like fools.

I don't want miracles, I just want decent public services. Like we had 15 years ago. I don't see why I should be grateful for decline, especially when the result of deliberate government policy.

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 05/11/2023 07:31

@verdantverdure sorry this is a little off-topic and I don’t know how much you know about the Covid vaccine, but I’m ten years older than my boyfriend and very clinically vulnerable with multiple health problems and being basically housebound. Not had my second booster yet or been offered it. He says he’s having the vaccine because he hasn’t had Covid whereas I have and still have traces of long Covid. Do you know if this is the reason? He’s a very healthy 21-year-old.

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 05/11/2023 07:37

@MidnightOnceMore that’s what I think, too. On the micro-level I’m grateful for the things that are limping along - my life has been saved by the NHS several times even if it took 15 hours to get me to intensive care (kidney failure on that occasion) and things like passports, driving licences etc are ticking along for a youngish white Briton like me. But how about the homeless, food bank users, those with chronic conditions stuck on waiting lists, criminals (this is more controversial but most of those convicted of incredibly minor crimes are stigmatised, sent out into the world with almost no money and minimal support), immigrants, refugees, the elderly - who are privileged in many ways but also find it very difficult to navigate some systems. The strong and privileged ought to stand up for the weak, it’s no good saying “I’m all right Jack” or adopting a Victorian attitude that being charitable to the “deserving” is all that’s needed.

EasternStandard · 05/11/2023 07:38

Knitgoodwoman · 04/11/2023 23:50

My kids go to great state schools
The NHS whenever I’ve used it has been brilliant
Our local sports facilities and libraries are great
Our train services are actually not bad
I’ve lived in several countries and I’m very grateful for this one! Small things like I feel a lot safer driving here than in many countries I lived in.
Our streets are a lot cleaner too.
We also take care of the more vulnerable in society, some countries I’ve lived in have homeless cities, which I’ve never seen in the UK
I choose to see the positives as well, no point dwelling on the negatives when by global standards we’re very lucky.

I’ve lived in other countries which were not unsafe and I agree with this still

Freysimo · 05/11/2023 07:43

MyBedIsMySpiritualHome · 03/11/2023 15:36

The Conservative Party

Please check out Wales governed by Welsh Labour.

KatieB55 · 05/11/2023 07:53

DWP shambolic - takes too long for anything to happen & what's the point in having a journal if no-one reads it?

NHS - 111 sending everyone to A&E. What happened to walk-in centres? In Spain pharmacies can do blood/urine tests & do basic triage & prescribing.

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 05/11/2023 07:57

@katie they all got shut down. Eight years ago I had a broken hand x-rayed and plastered in under an hour at a UCU. It no longer exists. I’ve waited up to 21 hours for care at my local A&E since.

Comedycook · 05/11/2023 07:59

The passport office is incredible. Fast and efficient. Did all our passports recently. Amazing service

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 05/11/2023 08:19

verdantverdure · 04/11/2023 18:04

There's quite a lot of privatisation in the NHS @saltinesandcoffeecups.

An ex colleague with appalling cataracts (he hadn’t seen an optician or even a GP for God knows how long) had them dealt with very quickly and efficiently by a private clinic on contract with the NHS.

Quisquam · 05/11/2023 08:31

Privatisation of the special school system which costs LA’s up to £140,000 per child per year - because politically LA’s can not build new schools without an Academy sponsor to open the school.

If a child’s school place costs £140,000 (and a few can be way more than that), then they require far more input and care such as can only be found in the non maintained/independent specialist schools; not maintained special schools afaik.

Twenty five years ago, I didn’t know of any maintained special schools providing that level of input. So, these placements always were private. I don’t think anything has changed?

Do you know of any maintained special schools, where a place costs that much now?

SerendipityJane · 05/11/2023 11:14

Freysimo · 05/11/2023 07:43

Please check out Wales governed by Welsh Labour.

Is it ? Is it really ?

All the devolved administrations are bound up in whatever straightjacket the Tory Westminster government deigns to lock them into.

"Oversee" more than govern would be a better description. I personally see them as Tories wearing a halloween mask of Labour.

Same for all the local authorities going bust. Some are Labour. Some are Tory. But all have had their funding cut (by the way, where the fuck are my taxes going, Rish! ?) until they are indistinguishably poor. (Admittedly Birmingham stands out as making their own Horlicks worse).

BIossomtoes · 05/11/2023 11:53

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 05/11/2023 08:19

An ex colleague with appalling cataracts (he hadn’t seen an optician or even a GP for God knows how long) had them dealt with very quickly and efficiently by a private clinic on contract with the NHS.

He was extremely lucky. Where I live there’s a two year wait for cataract surgery. They do one eye then you get sent to the back of the queue to wait another two years for the other eye to be done. That’s why I paid £5k for my surgery rather than go blind while I was waiting.

User135644 · 05/11/2023 15:13

Lolaandbehold · 04/11/2023 22:24

They’ll give it a good go. Raising taxes, I mean.

I think left leaving voters think that Labour will sweep into power and fix the mess the Conservatives have left.
I for one am sceptical, and would love to be pleasantly surprised. I’d probably be more optimistic if we could bring back David Milliband, however.

There's very little enthusiasm for Labour though. People just want this government gone.

User135644 · 05/11/2023 15:15

larkstar · 04/11/2023 23:35

Sarcastically I might say "the class system" works as well as it's every worked.

Creativity in the UK across many genres - I think our acting schools, for instance, turn out a phenomenal number of very talented people. that go into theatre, film and TV. Listen to the diverse and innovative range of music this country produces - this country has always punched above it's weight on that front. We innovate in many fields of technology BUT if you want to scale up and take a product to market you have to go to the US to get the financial backing.

The women's football team.