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Aggressive dogs in pubs

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spookyastic · 26/10/2023 20:51

Me, my husband and my 18 moth toddler were just in a pub for tea, arrived at 6ish and in the corner of the bar were two cocker spaniels who were absolutely fine with everyone in the restaurant except our 18 month old child.
Our 18 month old was exploring (this might be unreasonable on our part) it was a small pub and she was around our bar stools, always within reach but these cockers kept lunging, barking and growling at her, at one point I had to pull my daughter by her arm as she was about to get lunged at, it made the whole experience in a very small pub really intense.
I genuinely don't know if I'm being unreasonable, these dogs were on leads and if my toddler did get bitten it would be because she went in the dogs space.
We don't hate dogs btw, we own trained gundogs ourselves who we trial to a high standard, cockers too, none would ever bite or show aggression:
We didn't say anything, we just were on guard in the bar area until we were seated but what's everyone's thoughts on this? She didn't even apologise for her dogs aggressive behaviour, but equally we didn't apologise for our toddler walking past the dogs or playing near, but it's a small pub and they were in a doorway

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PenguinRainbows · 27/10/2023 13:30

Dogs shouldn’t be in pubs.

Toddlers shouldn’t be exploring pubs.

She points at a fox on the wall? “Oh yes, it’s a fox isn’t it. How lovely.” You don’t let her go and explore it Confused

RunningFromInsanity · 27/10/2023 14:13

Maybe you should spend less time training your dogs and more time training your child.

I was on your side until you became an insufferable perfect dog owner. If you truly do train dogs then you would know that it's definitely owners who cause it is not always true regarding aggression. Genetics play a huge part.

Verv · 27/10/2023 14:23

So the dogs were on leads and fine with everyone else reacted when your uncontrolled toddler kept going near them they were barking.

Sounds like control your child.
Given that you've got so much experience with dogs it should be a doddle.

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