I made dinner for husband and he ate on his own while I was dealing with something else at the time. C.30 mins after he started eating in the kitchen I went in to put away 3 mugs. Husband asked me to stop as it was annoying, so I did. I then took out a frying pan to make my own food. Husband got up, walked out of the kitchen without saying a word and went upstairs. Food left half eaten on the table. I text him if he had finished and he said yes. Asked him why he didn’t say anything when he left, he says he doesn’t need to and he left because taking the frying pan out annoyed him after having told me already that the noise from putting the dirty dishes away annoyed him. We got into an argument about his rudeness and he’s now asking if he has to tell me every time he goes from one room to another.
Was he rude when he walked off or AIBU?