Met guy a few times, but ended it because I found out…

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I found out he’s still living with his ex of 10 years and sharing a bed together!

I was absolutely livid when I found out because he told me they’d broken up 6 months ago, but she was still living with him temporarily as she has nowhere to go. But he said she has friends & family etc nearby.

I was really bad at him and told him it was unfair to start dating when your ex is still living with you, let alone sharing the same bed!!

what does everyone think about this? I raised it with him and he was barely apologetic, very matter of fact like yes you’re right, nothing I can do about it

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My ex lived with me for months after we broke up. He slept on the sofa. I still didn't think of looking for someone else until he had left (and still haven't really).

Nooooo, this thread was about a guy I met back in September - this is not the man I met last year who has a daughter.

I am really having the worst luck with dating!

I don’t know if a lot of you posting are married or are in relationships, but it is VERY hard to meet someone these days. I feel like everyone comes with “something.” And the reason I’m asking for advice is because I don’t know if I’m writing people off too quickly. It’s so hard to know.

You are in absolutely no place to start a relationship op

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You don’t actually know me other than a few threads on MN, I think that’s quite the leap there…

Urgh what a lying loser better you found out now rather than years

Definitely

Did he know that you were also dating someone else? You know… they guy you started a thread about today wanting to have his baby

Yes, he knew I had dated someone else.

Not “had dated”

”was dating when with him”

no doubt explains his stance to you. Although he should have been honest about seeing others. As you were. Indeed you were seeing someone that you are serious enough about to start a thread today about moving in with him and having a baby.