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Most traumatic Jacqueline Wilson book?

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Msblueskies · 05/10/2023 13:54

Lighthearted… those who grew up on JW books in the 90s and 2000s which book was the most traumatic for you?

In my early 30s now and I absolutely adored all my JW books. But looking back a lot of the content was pretty dark 😅 I think for me Dustin Baby wins the prize for darkest and most traumatic at all. I read it at age 10!

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Terfosaurus · 05/10/2023 19:34

Vicky Angel. Mainly because I had a friend die at a similar age and he never "visited" me.

I always found The Illustrated Mum really upsetting too, although worry about how much I identify with the mum as a parent now Blush

I gave most of my JW books to a charity shop a couple of years ago and almost immediately regretted it.

MargaretThursday · 05/10/2023 20:18

I have to be honest and say, I think she's a very good writer, but I don't really enjoy her books. Dd1 hated them, dd2 loved them.

They feel rather like misery lit for children, or some of the Catherine Cookson books. You can guarantee that the main child has significant issues, a good number of the adults have issues, and it's not necessarily all resolved by the end.
The main child is normally a girl (can't think of any where they aren't but I might be wrong) but is also rather gobby and rarely would I think they're someone I'd have liked to be good friends with. They might "get together" with a boy they initially didn't like who's normally either geeky or fat.

She's the only author I've removed books from dd2. I removed one of the "Girls in Love" series where I think JW crossed the thin line between informing readers about anorexia and giving them a manual, or even glorifying it. I'm a bit sensitive on that because I've lost a friend to anorexia, but with dd2 who is definitely impressionable and a bit of a tendency for going overboard on things, I could see it definitely giving her ideas.
The other I removed was "Love Lessons" as mentioned before. I was astonished to find it was published in 2005. I thought it would be 80s at the latest. I'm sure she wishes she hadn't written it, but it is still published today. I would have expected one written at that time would have been far more about the teacher as a groomer, rather than the child leading him on, which is definitely the impression got from the book.

Some of the books I like. "Double Act" is good. "The Lottie Project" also has a lot for it and there's others of those type which to me work well. I think they're the only two I'd pick up again though.
I mostly like the first "Hetty Feather". I'm not very keen on Hetty Feather as a character; at times it felt like she'd picked Tracy Beaker up and dumped her in a historic setting. Thing is, for me, whereas Tracy could get away with her behaviour in the modern world because people would have tried to understand her, Hetty wouldn't have been given that leeway. I feel the same about Harry Potter in the first book when he answers Snape back-he has been bullied and disliked all his life, he would not have the confidence to do that at that point.

The later Hetty Feathers feel like they're stretching a very long point, to a point where she feels a bit Mary-Sue to me. She wants it, she gets it, even if the chance of a young girl getting her own way in that era is probably less than unlikely.
And the last book featuring HF that dd got, ("Diamond"?) felt like she lost confidence in Diamond's character halfway through. I liked Diamond (if that was her name). She was a quiet unassuming child, unlike most of JW's characters, but she was getting things done in her own way. The book was going really well, when Hetty Feather appears. And from then on, Diamond is really a backstage character to Hetty; even when they escape, it's Hetty who does it all while Diamond passively does as she's told. Its Diamond's book-she should have been the one to plot their escape!

I was trying to think if the books I read at that sort of age were similar. I know I read a lot of teen-anxy type books, but my memory is that things were generally resolved by the end.
I think I'd describe reading one of her books as going into a cold rough sea. You don't really enjoy it but you may come out feeling a sense of accomplishment.
And tbf to her, what I want from a book is more the feeling of dozing happily in the warm sun. Comfortable and peaceful. So I don't think I'm the chosen audience!

Chiaseedling · 05/10/2023 20:20

This really freaked out my DD (now early 20s!).

Chiaseedling · 05/10/2023 20:20

^ the cat mummy one

Lessstressedhemum · 05/10/2023 20:23

The illustrated Mum is awful. So traumatising. Lola Rose, too. My 23 year old DD is still haunted by Dustbin Baby.

Robotik · 05/10/2023 20:27

A short story sequel to Lola Rose??? Can anyone direct me to it please!!!

Titicacacandle · 05/10/2023 20:27

Was there one about a mulberry tree and a child going between her parents. That one made my cry a lot as I was also going between mine.

Msblueskies · 05/10/2023 20:27

Ooh Sleepovers and The Lottie Project were pretty nice and unproblematic as far as I can remember! Read sleepovers many times.

The Tracey Beaker CBBC series is iconic!

Does anyone remember The Diamond Girls by JW? The mum has 4 daughters all different dads, she has her fifth baby and lies to everyone about it being a boy, which is only discovered by the main character when she is changing her ‘baby brother’ 🤣

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AngryBirdsNoMore · 05/10/2023 20:29

Msblueskies · 05/10/2023 20:27

Ooh Sleepovers and The Lottie Project were pretty nice and unproblematic as far as I can remember! Read sleepovers many times.

The Tracey Beaker CBBC series is iconic!

Does anyone remember The Diamond Girls by JW? The mum has 4 daughters all different dads, she has her fifth baby and lies to everyone about it being a boy, which is only discovered by the main character when she is changing her ‘baby brother’ 🤣

…but why?!

Robotik · 05/10/2023 20:33

I’ve googled and can’t find the sequel to lola rose but if anyone has more info please let me know. I’m desperate to read it.

BigTedLittleTedCardboardBox · 05/10/2023 20:39

We listened to an audiobook of The Longest Whale Song on a long car journey and found it quite harrowing but also very predictable. The mum ends up in a coma and the daughter must bond with her step dad.

I quite liked Lily Alone though, it had a less formulaic plot that most.

Snowinjulyy · 05/10/2023 20:40

I remember the diamond girls, they moved into an empty house and had to sleep on the floor I think. ?

I looked up the biscuits character that I can remember and he's from buried alive.

Terfosaurus · 05/10/2023 20:43

@MargaretThursday Cliffhanger and Buried Alive both have a male main character.

Beezknees · 05/10/2023 20:45

AngryBirdsNoMore · 05/10/2023 20:29

…but why?!

She already had 4 daughters and was desperate for a son, she was convinced the baby was a boy as she did a tarot reading or something that said boy.

User478 · 05/10/2023 20:50

How to survive summer camp was my favourite one.

I quite like her retelling of What Katy Did too, it never quite sat right with me that If you were very nice to everyone and behaved yourself then you wouldn't be disabled anymore.

I devoured all the ones in our school library and then found Falling Apart which I plagiarised shamelesslywrote a creative writing story at school based on which caused my parents to get a very worried phonecall from school.

1month · 05/10/2023 21:04

I’ve not read half of these, I’m definitely going to have to!

I used to read them to my DD as we loved her books and they were not too babyish.

The one that sticks with me is cookie.
Its about a child who feels insecure about her looks and her mums really pretty and slim but her dad is mentally abusive and they end up running away.

When I was reading it I thought it was a bit heavy but then I thought it was good because I had sheltered my DD quite a lot and she didn’t realise that some husbands may not be very nice.

She’s 15 now but I might encourage her to read them again and the ones ones here too, as I do think they’re written in a child friendly way.

Papillon23 · 05/10/2023 21:04

I remember 3 or 4 that didn't seem actively traumatic: the mum minder, sleepovers, double act and the Lottie project.

The illustrated mum, and dustbin baby are the first that come to mind as being pretty horrendous. I mainly stopped on them after a few awful ones.

I think I struggled tbh because my reading was easily good enough to read them by the age of maybe 7 or 8, but I was nowhere near mature enough.

I quite happily read Sherlock Holmes as an 8 year old, but whereas the teacher confiscated Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde off me at the same age, they didn't do that with Jacqueline Wilson when frankly I think they were just as unsuitable in the main.

IsabelaYourBoyfriendsHere · 05/10/2023 21:04

Oh how could I have forgotten My Sister Jodie, I sobbed and sobbed when I read that for the first time (I reckon I would've been about 12)

What Katy Did was very good too, my heartstrings were tugged a fair few times during that.

I'm another one who would love to be directed to the Lola Rose ending short story?

BeeHumbert · 05/10/2023 21:09

Okay but Girls under pressure was definitely the mist traumatic, didn't know it was a kids book when my grandad gave it to me. There's a huge paragraph where the main character details sticking ehr finger down her throat to make her throw up so child me essentially discovered bulimia.

Also has anyone read her newest teen book? The one where the fourteen year old gets raped by a French man and gets pregnant and is sent away because its the sixties?

Saschka · 05/10/2023 21:40

@Papillon23 Yep same - I remember watching Tracy Beaker on tv aged about 7 or 8, and really not understanding why this aggressive gobby child who smashes things up was the heroine of the series.

None of the characters were relatable to me, and I was too young to really understand why they were like that - I just found them all scary and unpredictable. The parents as well.

I was obviously lucky to have a fairly sheltered village childhood!

SuperGinger · 05/10/2023 22:02

I haven't read to much JW but my DD was obsessed with Tracy Beaker at 7 so much so she asked if she could have a care home themed birthday party, we had to set her straight on that one.

Msblueskies · 05/10/2023 22:02

Ooh share the Lola Rose sequel please!

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Beezknees · 05/10/2023 22:02

See, I had a fairly chaotic childhood that continued into adulthood and devoured JW books because I didn't want to read about perfect families, I wanted to read about kids like me. I lived in a hostel for a bit which reminded me of the bed and breakfast star! And my mum suffers with her mental health like the illustrated mum. Love Lessons was shocking to me though!

Msblueskies · 05/10/2023 22:03

SuperGinger · 05/10/2023 22:02

I haven't read to much JW but my DD was obsessed with Tracy Beaker at 7 so much so she asked if she could have a care home themed birthday party, we had to set her straight on that one.

I remember my auntie complaining that my cousin was desperate to go and live in care after watching too much Tracey Beaker 🤣 CBBC made it look like a holiday camp

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SuperGinger · 05/10/2023 22:09

It did look fun on CBBC.