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Beyond fucking angry about our primary school

158 replies

Whattheactualhell123 · 03/10/2023 13:50

This article has just
appeared in our local paper about my kids primary school - I'm so upset for the kids and the remaining staff sticking it out.

https://www.cambridge-news.co.uk/news/local-news/former-teachers-slam-toxic-culture-27669063

Rumours have been circulating and heated debates launched on the school whattsapp from time to time about the new head.

In all honesty what power do we really have to make any changes for a better learning environment for our children and the teachers?

. Is it ever really possible for a head to be removed from their post because they have behaved so badly towards their staff?

What would you personally do if this was your kids school?

If you are a teacher or support staff (apparently the PA had an awful time too!) who has left this school due to this person I am so sorry that you have been so utterly failed in your profession. ❤️

Former teachers slam 'toxic culture' at Cambs primary school after many leave

Former teachers at Bassingbourn Community Primary School said there was a culture of 'bullying and fear' at the school

https://www.cambridge-news.co.uk/news/local-news/former-teachers-slam-toxic-culture-27669063

OP posts:
LuluBlakey1 · 04/10/2023 17:44

cansu · 03/10/2023 20:18

lulublakey1
Whilst some of what you say about change is true, you do not get wholesale departures in this way unless the head is poor at managing. The sad fact is that some people who become heads are poor at communication. They lack warmth and empathy. They do not practise what they preach and they sometimes are unwilling to listen. They see listening to staff as weakness and are so keen to be shown to be strong that they ride rough shod over others. I have worked in several schools and have worked with some good heads. I have also seen some poor practice that has had a serious impact on a school. Getting the best from your staff is part of the head's role. I am sure that all the poor heads I have met or been told about would say that they are getting rid of weak or obstructive staff. I am sure that is what they say to governors or advisors. The problem is they also alienate and lose good staff who they need to keep along the way.

New headteachers will never win all staff over, even in a generally good, happy school with a positive culture. Many people find change difficult. Some, especially this who don't see the necessity for it or don't want change, will find it difficult and may not budge- which increases their unhappiness.

As I said a good Head will win some staff over quickly, some gradually and some not at all. Some will leave quickly and others who remain unhappy will have to be supported to work with change or supported to leave- there are various ways of doing both.

It is clear from looking at Ofsted that this school has been on a slow, downward journey for a number of years. The most recent Ofsted identifies middle and senior leadership issues and significant Literacy and planning concerns and mentions bullying of pupils as a previous concern. The school is not in a category and seems like it could be improved quite quickly. What is emerging is a 'culture' issue. Time will tell whether the SLT are the right people to lead. There will be new staff, obviously and that can be a good thing in building a more positive culture. The remaining staff need to try to contribute positively- I'm sure most are.

It's not a disaster, yet.

Loubelou14 · 04/10/2023 17:49

I have a friend experiencing something similar but there seems to be no way to escalate without repercussions. Any advice?

LuluBlakey1 · 04/10/2023 17:58

Whattheactualhellpart2 · 04/10/2023 11:34

To my knowledge. there was no historical bullying - im sure the prevouse SLT might have something to say about this - I'd be raging to have such spurious claims put out there.

It was just such a happy school - not perfect but did its best.
Interestingly the Governors minutes used to be on the website but were taken down not long after the Ofsted report.
The chair of Gov wrote a letter after the result from Ofsted outlining that ‘They were aware of areas needing improvement.…etc.. Where was this mentioned
In the minutes? It wasn't, because I read every single one and, nothing!
Ofsteds reputation is completely on the line at the moment. Most sensible people put the result down to bad luck on the day!

@LuluBlakey1 are you the head in question? It's a school, not the military fgs! Change should not come at the expense of peoples’s mental health!! Some of the Staff have been traumatised by their experiences - people in power have no idea how intimidating they can be.

@cansu i agree with everything you said
@Mutters123 agree with you also
@Cookiecrisps 💐 sorry you had an awful experience

@EllieDen you have hit the nail on head! The board of Govenors are 100% culpable. In matters such as described in the article - it demonstrates, that this stucture of voluntary Govenance may fail due to its intrinsic nature of being made up of school parents who do not wish to whistle blow! It seems, everyone has been a bystander

Thank-you for all other posters adding their insights and experiences- it seems we still have huge mountain to climb within our school management.

I hope all those affected will collaborate and take this forward towards a thorough investigation.

We were a happy school. Outstanding and dedicated teachers have been lost to other schools and some never to return to the classroom 😔. You have not been forgotten 🌺

Well the LA say there was 'historic bullying'. Ofsted mention it too. Staff might not like that but if it has come to the attention of the LA and Ofsted, something has gone on. Children are now telling Ofsted that it has improved so surely that's good?

I have only ever seen one Ofsted report that I felt was unjust as an outcome. If the Headteacher felt there was an issue with the team she should have rang HMI at the end of Day 1 when she listened to their discussion- the concerns will have been flagged up then- and told HMI she felt the outcome was likely to be inaccurate and why. An HMI would have intervened at that point and may well have turned up on Day 2 to take part in the process. If she didn't then that's a sign of her weakness as a Head. With the report I described as unjust, the Head did not ring HMI to express her concerns at the end of Day 1 and now admits she should have. She did not even express her concerns to the lead inspector about what they were discussing.

This does not sound like an awful school to me. It was graded as RI with clear areas for improvement that are quite straightforward in terms of actions. The difficult one will be changing the culture amongst staff and governors-all of whom lead this school- your posts illustrate that clearly.

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FrippEnos · 04/10/2023 18:31

LuluBlakey1
Well the LA say there was 'historic bullying'. Ofsted mention it too. Staff might not like that but if it has come to the attention of the LA and Ofsted, something has gone on. Children are now telling Ofsted that it has improved so surely that's good?

I wonder where they got that from?
No record of it before, now there is, Could it be that the Head and governors are covering their arses?

wizzbitt · 04/10/2023 18:34

As a teacher I definitely agree with pp who say how common it is. It’s definitely the reason I left my last role.
I haven’t rtft yet but I’d be interested to find out why people think YABU! 🤔

FrippEnos · 04/10/2023 18:37

wizzbitt · 04/10/2023 18:34

As a teacher I definitely agree with pp who say how common it is. It’s definitely the reason I left my last role.
I haven’t rtft yet but I’d be interested to find out why people think YABU! 🤔

I can save you the time its those damn lazy teachers out for revenge as they were made to work.

Of course non of the supporters of the SLT mentions the lack of evidence, support plans, competency plans and further formal action

Moglet4 · 04/10/2023 18:46

Spudinafuckit · 03/10/2023 15:16

Reading between the lines on the council statement, there appears to have been a bullying culture over several years.

So I read this as there may have been an old guard clique who have left as new leadership has been introduced to specifically improve culture (and may well been part of a group creating an unhealthy culture). They have then gone to the papers?

Edited

This exact thing happens at a huge no of schools and is largely responsible for the mass exodus of staff. It is almost never the ‘old guard’ ie the experienced teachers who are to blame.

Toomuchtrouble4me · 04/10/2023 18:46

Kemper · 03/10/2023 15:43

It seems to me that a lot of people that make up “senior leadership teams” in schools are inadequate or bat shit crazy. I wonder why this is.

Based on what? That’s just not true.

Moglet4 · 04/10/2023 18:52

Toomuchtrouble4me · 04/10/2023 18:46

Based on what? That’s just not true.

Because they’re young, inexperienced and cheap. They’re being fast tracked to senior management positions when they have little to no experience in the classroom. Add to that the fact that lots of schools have become academies and the culture of them has changed as a result with the likes of Wilshaw holding up bullying staff as a shining example of how schools should be run (yes, I have personal experience of him). The result is miserable teachers and a mass exodus from the profession.

FrippEnos · 04/10/2023 18:55

Toomuchtrouble4me · 04/10/2023 18:46

Based on what? That’s just not true.

Like most of the positions in schools, Headteachers (and SLT) are in short supply, it means that people are often put in positions that they are not suitable for.

Honestwife · 04/10/2023 19:00

They can be removed but have to go through a long process, need parents support with this as many teachers hands are tied. Parents don’t realise that schools are very toxic environments and it’s not the teachers it’s usually the management team causing it.
You need governers, union and parents to help fight this. Even Ofsted, HR and legal bodies are required.

MadMadaMim · 04/10/2023 19:02

Board of Governors would be first stop to escalate to.

FrippEnos · 04/10/2023 19:03

MadMadaMim · 04/10/2023 19:02

Board of Governors would be first stop to escalate to.

Unfortunately you need a board of governors that isn't in the pocket of the headteacher.

Most won't be as they won't admit to making a mistake in appointing them in the first place.

Pres11 · 04/10/2023 19:16

I’ve just left my job as a member of the office staff at a school that sounds very similar. One thing I wouldn’t do however, is publicly start slating the school because of just how you feel now. Your children are your world, and the thought that they are going anywhere that isn’t perfect is awful. The school I was at had lots of staff leave this year and is moving to academy status, so I’m hopeful the leadership will change. My own children went to the school and I would love for it be back to how it used be.

DarthTater3 · 04/10/2023 19:25

I experienced the exact same thing as a teacher. Sometimes headteachers will use bullying and divisive tactics because they want to get rid of the experienced teachers who have an opinion and replace with cheaper newer/younger teachers who do as they’re told. Only explanation I can think of other than serious personality disorder. Majority of staff left the same or following year the head started, including me. It’s an incredibly difficult decision to make because as a teacher you care deeply about the children and your colleagues and the school as a whole, but at the end of the day you’re powerless and the majority can’t afford to risk their career and/or income by trying to stand up to a bullying head.

If this was my child’s school I would seriously consider moving my child elsewhere, and I would make sure that the head’s boss knew why. I would also speak up on behalf of the teachers involved. I think it’s appallingly hypocritical of staff at any level to expect the children to treat each other with care and respect but can’t model the same behaviour themselves.

tommyhoundmum · 04/10/2023 19:28

Start your complaints to the school governors

noodiedoodie · 04/10/2023 19:49

this exactly. and I'm always sceptical of press stories. trust your own experience not stories

PurpleFlower1983 · 04/10/2023 19:55

The school has recently had a downgrade so this often happens but it does seem that the new leadership may be particularly harsh. The pressure to get them back to good will be immense and that often means getting rid of a fair few staff.

shockeditellyou · 04/10/2023 20:09

I’m a school governor at a maintained primary in Cambridgeshire. The LA is completely toxic and has hounded several excellent heads out.

Cambridgeshire primaries are some of the poorest attaining in the country. Most of them are LA controlled.

SausageinaBun · 04/10/2023 20:12

Cambridgeshire primaries are some of the worst funded in the country, it isn't surprising that attainment follows.

Teateaandmoretea · 04/10/2023 20:26

I think you are getting massively overinvested OP.

It’s weird because my DD’s primary school went into special measures and there was a massive hoo haa over it. The secondary has been partially closed because of RAAC and people seem less concerned. Just because it says ‘good’ in some old government document.

TheDogIsInCharge · 04/10/2023 20:26

Moglet4 · 04/10/2023 18:52

Because they’re young, inexperienced and cheap. They’re being fast tracked to senior management positions when they have little to no experience in the classroom. Add to that the fact that lots of schools have become academies and the culture of them has changed as a result with the likes of Wilshaw holding up bullying staff as a shining example of how schools should be run (yes, I have personal experience of him). The result is miserable teachers and a mass exodus from the profession.

Yes the head who was such an unmitigated disaster for my children's primary school was like this - inexperienced and fast tracked. The chair and deputy chair of governors decided on her and not the vastly more experienced and much loved deputy head who had been at the school for years. He left of course. And then, when it all went spectacularly tits up after just one year, the chair and deputy chair resigned, with the deputy chair removing her kids from the school and sending them to the local private one.

I became a governor to attempt to moderate some of her batshit ideas and I can remember very vividly in one meeting saying to her "so it is SATS results at the expense of everything else?" and she said yes.

Castleview6 · 04/10/2023 20:30

Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/10/2023 16:55

From the report: "Expectations for children's behaviour and learning have increased and the focus has been put on improving teaching to improve behaviour but again, some staff found this a challenge"

Not being there I couldn't say, but it's hard not to wonder if this means the place had been coasting along lazily until a new Head arrived and expected better, leading to resentment among some staff who quite liked their own way of doing things

By all means ask for this to be looked into, but I wouldn't pay too much attention to a one-sided hatchet job on social media

Exactly this. Unless you or your family have been directly effected and know exactly what is happening, I’d not jump to conclusions. There’s obviously long term issues over standards and a new SLT are trying to turn the school around and perhaps some of the staff have left because they can’t meet the new expectations. Maybe try to be supportive rather than jumping to conclusions from a one sided newspaper article.

FrippEnos · 04/10/2023 20:41

PurpleFlower1983 · 04/10/2023 19:55

The school has recently had a downgrade so this often happens but it does seem that the new leadership may be particularly harsh. The pressure to get them back to good will be immense and that often means getting rid of a fair few staff.

As pointed out, there is "getting rid" of staff in the correct way, which means observations to gather evidence, putting support plans in place, making sure that teachers can attain competency targets and there is just bullying people out.
The latter is a lot easier than the former.

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