Dating someone with NPD

[TheSlowRush]

This is a more of WWYD. And not looking for judgements

Been on two dates with a guy and have slept with him, used recreational drugs, which in my line of work would be a sackable offence.

Has come to my attention that he has severe NPD and in the past has been a “public figure” and been incredibly vindictive when called out on his behaviour publicly, to tie point of putting someone’s life at risk.

I don’t want to see him again, and left this morning when he was unkind to me and then Googled and was a bit shocked. He video messaged me later saying he “forgives” me for leaving.

How do I end this safely? Do I block him at risk of him contacting my employer (re drug use )or as he has NPD am I irrelevant small fry to him?

Text him telling him to fuck off (incredibly nicely).

Not contact him and let it cool off naturally?

TIA

Does he know where you work OP?

its not obligatory to comment so if you didnt understand may you should have just scrolled on by

You have been on 2 dates with a man - took drugs and slept with him ..

follow the advice given but why would you put yourself in such a vulnerable position with someone you don’t know.. especially if you could lose your job ?

But OP says no judgment?! If you’re on LTS I’d think even more reason not to do anything silly either to affect your health etc but also your job.

Thanks for all the supportive replies.