Sorry if this is just a long rant! Feeling a bit p*ssed off and resentful but not sure if i'm being unreasonable. My DH works from home while I am in office 2 days a week, both work full time. I do all of the household cleaning, washings, sorting out recycling etc. I make him take the bins out but have to tell him when each collection is every week. We often eat seperate meals during the week but will take turns cooking when we do have the same meals. I will always be the one cleaning up/ loading dishwasher regardless of who has cooked. I am also responsible for ensuring we have all household items from the shops. Along with this I do bulk of looking after dog and 75% of his walks - he generally only walks the dog the 2 days I am out at work. We have a decent outside space so he does cut the grass and usually takes care of any DIY (although I do a lot of painting). He's currently working on an outside job at the weekends so thats taken over, I've cut the grass the last time as he was busy with this (although have also been roped into help with this job at the weekend), plus things like weeding etc are split or generally suggested that I go out and pull some weeds. He is responsible for washing the cars however hasnt done this in over 6 months and won't allow me to take to my car to a car wash place "incase they scratch it".
This morning he says up that all the interior windows need cleaned and why have they not been done for so long. I agree they do need done but have been busy with plenty other things.I feel very taken for granted and much like a slave, even just with simple things like he doesn't put his washing in the basket, doesn't put any packaging in the bins in kitchen or plates in the dishwasher.
AIBU to be p*ssed off with this split of household responsibilities and starting to feel very resentful?