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Do our souls know when we're going to pass away?

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SwiftieGrainger · 20/09/2023 22:45

Please, please do not read on if you find themes of loss or bereavement triggering. This is hopefully intended to be light hearted as a thread. I'm just wondering if anyone believes we subconsciously know when we or people close to us are going to pass away?

I am not hugely superstitious and I have no real view or opinion on the afterlife that makes me more susceptible to taking on such beliefs but I think I do. I was at work and for absolutely no reason at all as I heated up my pasta, I felt the need to call my dad's uncle. We rarely speak- he's an absolutely wonderful old man, but I have never called him in my life. I just did it without any real thought and I could not tell you why. It was lovely, just a light hearted chat that I found time for in my day but hugely unlike me. He peacefully passed away in his sleep the next day and I'm so glad I called. I'm also really glad that somehow the phone call happened when I'm usually so busy at work I don't even respond to texts. It's made me really happy tbh to know he knew I was thinking of him before he went, has anyone else had similar experiences?

Yabu - death is random and we can't know it on a cellular level
Yanbu - this is a common phenomenon

OP posts:
Rowen32 · 02/10/2023 21:11

RainCloudsInTheSky · 02/10/2023 18:22

Thanks for replying. And the other poster too. I wish I’d had something like that, something reassuring when my person passed away. There was nothing. No sense of a presence, no seeing anyone coming for them. Nothing that indicated there was any kind of after life. I would love to know for sure.

If it helps I've had loads of experiences, seeing souls go up in the clouds, feeling them hovering after they've passed, getting messages from them.. I've had souls come to me that needs help crossing over - just way too much that can't be explained so I don't think anyone can know for sure but I'm 99% convinced they're still here, just across a veil :-)

MasterBeth · 02/10/2023 21:14

Springforward1 · 22/09/2023 09:17

There are definitely people who are more in tune with the 'spiritual' parts of the brain which scientists have proved exists.

What do you mean? What are the spiritual parts of the brain?

Coffeemakers · 02/10/2023 21:28

MasterBeth · 02/10/2023 21:11

Maybe I can turn invisible or maybe I can't. Nobody knows for sure... There's no proof that I can't, apart from everything we know about the nature of reality.

Our consciousness doesn't have to transfer anywhere. It could just stop.

I think people need to just believe in and tell themselves whatever makes them feel most at ease during life because whatever happens it’s not something any of us can control 🤷‍♀️

Rowen32 · 02/10/2023 21:55

Mooshamoo · 02/10/2023 18:27

My dad died by suicide.

It was sudden and unexpected as those kind of deaths are.

One night, a long time later I had a really interesting dream about him.

In the dream - I saw everything that happened to him after he died.

I was behind hin watching him. I saw him wake up from his body and he was confused.

A lady greeted him. She explained to him that he was dead. And she brought him to a healing centre. He was a bit confused and disorientated , and they brought him to a place with healing energy.

I heard my dad say to the woman "what about tom and Anne". Which are the names of me and my brother.

My dad had realised that he was dead. And he was realising that he had left me and my brother behind.

The woman said to my dad "they will be fine"

My dad has been dead for four years. Me and my brother haven't been fine. We both have been very depressed since my dad died. So I often wonder what was that lady on about

I'm really sorry for your loss. Maybe she means in the future you'll be okay? I hope so xx

Mooshamoo · 02/10/2023 22:17

Thanks. Maybe sometime in the future we will be okay yes

MasterBeth · 02/10/2023 23:33

Coffeemakers · 02/10/2023 21:28

I think people need to just believe in and tell themselves whatever makes them feel most at ease during life because whatever happens it’s not something any of us can control 🤷‍♀️

Sure, but that doesn't make it true. And we shouldn't pretend that the truth doesn't matter.

Tentaculoose · 14/10/2023 10:29

@dinsday, you refer to 'end of life surge'. Do you mean a sudden surge of energy/movement prior to death? If so, I've experienced this a few times when nursing patients. They suddenly got very energetic and you think, oh, they're getting better, then they died the next day.

JMSA · 14/10/2023 10:55

I'm an old cynic and the least woo person ever.
But I remember clear as day, one night when I was 16 or 17. I had my very first panicky sensations. I was at home and it came out of absolutely nowhere. I felt so incredibly uneasy and had never experienced anything like it.
The following day, I found out that it had been the anniversary of my grandmother's death. She had died around 5 years before. There had been no talk of it in our family, and I hadn't even been at the funeral. So there was no way for me to know this.

Mummyratbag · 14/10/2023 11:23

My grandmother was in her late 90s and very unwell. I had chatted to the GP the day before and he said that she didn't have long, but nothing was imminent (maybe weeks/months left). The next morning I woke to someone calling my name (male voice). I thought it was my husband, but he was sound asleep. Checked on small child (who would have said Mummy not my name). Went to the bathroom, checked the time and went back to sleep. Spoke to Mum later that day and she said they had resuscitated (we stupidly didn't have a DNR in place) my grandmother at the time I woke.

I read somewhere that the body dies because the soul has left, not the other way round. It brings me comfort.

Tentaculoose · 16/10/2023 01:09

@Mummyratbag, that's interesting. About the body dying because the soul has left. Is contrary to what we presume but who knows? I like to think the soul moves into another form e.g. another human or animal but who knows.

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