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Russell Brand has been out of control for years

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teddyandgypsy · 18/09/2023 20:12

Russell Brand has been enabled to become the preposterous character he is by all those who facilitated his behaviour. That includes people who commissioned and watched his shows, idiots who bought his books and videos and the people who booked to see him. I have no idea if he raped anyone but I would put money on him being in prison within a couple of years. The fact is, his behaviour is and should be abhorrent to anyone with a shred of integrity.

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Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 19/09/2023 00:03

I actually loved his interview with Jordon Peterson. I think they are both beautifully articulate.

pompomdaisy · 19/09/2023 01:19

It couldn't have happened to a nicer person! The guy has always been an obnoxious tit and now he's an obnoxious rapist. They are all enabled by the public but they also become adept at deflection. Have the police taken him in for questioning? I guess the truth will out via the courts. Or it may not!

TrishM80 · 19/09/2023 01:22

NameChangeNotReporting · 18/09/2023 20:17

I bought his books, listened and contributed to his radio show, watched his TV shows, saw him live a few times, and snogged him a few times too.

I had no fucking idea that he was sexually abusing and raping women. Obviously.

I believe the women who have shared their trauma 100%. I don't understand why you think those of us who enjoyed his work, without knowing what was going on, are 'idiots'

I never understood what women saw in this creep. Aside from everything else about him, he always looked like he could do with a wash, a shave and a haircut.

I guess fame and money are the ultimate aphrodisiacs.

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 19/09/2023 01:33

TrishM80 · 19/09/2023 01:22

I never understood what women saw in this creep. Aside from everything else about him, he always looked like he could do with a wash, a shave and a haircut.

I guess fame and money are the ultimate aphrodisiacs.

Uh uh, just because you don't get his appeal, do not claim that women who do are only attracted to fame and money. What kind of misogynistic crap is that?

I loved him because I think he's hilarious, quick witted, and quite brilliant. Also, his looks appeal to me.

Your comment was very ignorant.

bemorebernard · 19/09/2023 01:35

He is what he is . Although I suspect no one thought rapist .

I do however question why now , he's been settled with a wife and children since 2017 . Totally settled down . There's no excusing his behaviour before that but he's so clearly a totally different person now to then . He seems like he was power crazed , thought he could do anything, was above reproach. Why though wasn't he exposed then ? If the industry knew he was such a predator- why hide it until
He's settled with a wife and children?

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 19/09/2023 04:35

dontletsaskforthemoon · 18/09/2023 20:56

To me, he's always been just plain bloody weird, and I've never understood the misogynistic 'humour'. Never understood the appeal personally.

Not to mention nasty, grubby and gross. How on earth could he ever be viewed as masculine or attractive?? Incel boy.

Alwaysdecorating · 19/09/2023 04:42

The thing is, we knew he had no respect for women. But that doesn’t mean anyone should have known (talking fans here) that he was also a rapist.

We knew he was a tit. Again, doesn’t mean rapist.

However, since it was an open secret people who commissioned his programmes absolutely shouldn’t have done. But you still can’t blame them for him being a rapist.

Thirdsummerofourdiscontent · 19/09/2023 05:05

He has always (and esp now) come across as a narcissistic type bully.
He always seems to have a reason to lecture the world on how great he is and how wrong we all are.
He is a fucking horrible human.

N3philim · 19/09/2023 05:11

Get over yourself, OP. This isn’t about you

GodDammitCecil · 19/09/2023 05:26

The thing is, we knew he had no respect for women. But that doesn’t mean anyone should have known (talking fans here) that he was also a rapist.

See, I don’t underhand this thinking.

He has no respect for women. Anyone with an ounce of cop on knows, and recognises, this.

So - these are the men you give a wide berth to. Why wouldn’t you give a man who loudly announces he has no respect for women a wide berth?

If that’s part of the appeal for you - then own it. But don’t go accusing people who wouldn’t touch him with someone else’s barge pole of being ‘smug’.

I don’t know if the man is a rapist.

But what I do know is that when it comes out that he is, I won’t be the least bit surprised.

Mble · 19/09/2023 05:45

I agree with you OP. He was very, very obviously an obnoxious creep. I read one interview and saw him on one tv show and couldn’t understand why people wanted to watch him or hear from him. He is the only one to blame for his actions but it is depressing that people admired him. Years ago, I got blocked by one of my very left wing friends because I questioned why on earth they would like him.

Alwaysdecorating · 19/09/2023 06:22

GodDammitCecil · 19/09/2023 05:26

The thing is, we knew he had no respect for women. But that doesn’t mean anyone should have known (talking fans here) that he was also a rapist.

See, I don’t underhand this thinking.

He has no respect for women. Anyone with an ounce of cop on knows, and recognises, this.

So - these are the men you give a wide berth to. Why wouldn’t you give a man who loudly announces he has no respect for women a wide berth?

If that’s part of the appeal for you - then own it. But don’t go accusing people who wouldn’t touch him with someone else’s barge pole of being ‘smug’.

I don’t know if the man is a rapist.

But what I do know is that when it comes out that he is, I won’t be the least bit surprised.

I am confused. You quoted me. But I didn’t say I would touch him with a barge pole.

I have always thought he was vile. That doesn’t mean that he also a rapist. Plenty of people (men in particular) are vile and have no respect for women and aren’t rapists.

so I don’t understand what about the ‘thinking’ you quoted, you don’t get.

Valeriekat · 19/09/2023 06:27

pompomdaisy · 19/09/2023 01:19

It couldn't have happened to a nicer person! The guy has always been an obnoxious tit and now he's an obnoxious rapist. They are all enabled by the public but they also become adept at deflection. Have the police taken him in for questioning? I guess the truth will out via the courts. Or it may not!

Hard to do without a complainant!

Saucery · 19/09/2023 06:28

I don’t understand how anyone who read his unrepentant descriptions of animal cruelty in his autobiography continued to give him the time of day, let alone their money for further gigs etc. As well as his descriptions of what he thought of women. What a Lad, eh?
We need to stop giving men like this a free pass.

Valeriekat · 19/09/2023 06:30

Isn't rape the ultimate disrespect towards women?

PinkPlantCase · 19/09/2023 06:36

I don’t know if he still is but a few years back he was involved with the teenage cancer trust. I had a friend in 6th form who had cancer and she went to lots of events and meet ups with him.

I really hope there was nothing twisted going on there 😔

Velvian · 19/09/2023 06:54

That us the ultimate victim blaming @teddyandgypsy .

Many of us have been taken advantage of by arrogant men that bleated on about how important they were. That's kind of how the patriarchy operates.

I'm sure many of those that were sexually abused by Brand had watched his work, bought tickets or books.

WinterTrees · 19/09/2023 07:14

Frankie Boyle jokes about raping women, the evidence is on his DVDs which have sold in their thousands. He should be next for investigated.

Very much this.

On Friday when the news was first emerging of a huge story involving comedians I fervently hoped Boyle was going to be called to account for his terrifying, aggressive misogyny. That a man who said to a female heckler in the audience 'I'll rape you so hard your gynaecologist will think you've been in a car accident' still gets a regular platform on mainstream media is incomprehensibly wrong to me.

I don't just want his BBC/C4 bookings to dry up (though I fucking do want that, so much) I also want his behaviour off air to be scrutinised. Men don't spontaneously say that sort of thing without their actions at some point matching the sentiment, imo.

sashh · 19/09/2023 07:14

TrishM80 · 19/09/2023 01:22

I never understood what women saw in this creep. Aside from everything else about him, he always looked like he could do with a wash, a shave and a haircut.

I guess fame and money are the ultimate aphrodisiacs.

Same here, I never found him funny and I've avoided him as much as possible.

LizzieSiddal · 19/09/2023 08:06

@WinterTreesThat a man who said to a female heckler in the audience 'I'll rape you so hard your gynaecologist will think you've been in a car accident' still gets a regular platform on mainstream media is incomprehensibly wrong to me.

I can’t remember the name of Bolye’s most recent BBC2 show, he talks about recent events and he’s had about 4 series of it. If he gets another series I’ll be complaining every single time it’s shown and asking why the BBC feel it’s ok to give such a man, a prime time show.

TrishM80 · 19/09/2023 08:11

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 19/09/2023 01:33

Uh uh, just because you don't get his appeal, do not claim that women who do are only attracted to fame and money. What kind of misogynistic crap is that?

I loved him because I think he's hilarious, quick witted, and quite brilliant. Also, his looks appeal to me.

Your comment was very ignorant.

So you never thought he was a sleazy creep?

explainthistomeplease · 19/09/2023 08:11

Boyle and Brand. Nasty nasty men.

As for Brand's defence that he was promiscuous but always within the law. Well how would he know? He confesses he was off his face for much of the period. I don't think being out of it is a defence either.

YokoOnosBigHat · 19/09/2023 08:13

I resent the idea that I'm an idiot- he was very funny back in the day and My Booky Wook is actually a very good read.

AnIndianWoman · 19/09/2023 08:13

This IS what happens with untreated sex addiction. Normal sex stops appealing so men go to greater and greater extremes - rape, violence, kids etc. Considering he’s always been open about it the real question is why the channels / production companies he worked with never investigated or reported him to the police.

waterlego · 19/09/2023 08:14

Jesus @WinterTrees, that’s appalling. I knew Boyle had made some awful ‘jokes’ about Katie Price’s disabled son but had no idea he also made ‘jokes’ like that. (I don’t watch much TV nor pay much attention to ‘showbiz news’ so easily miss a lot of this stuff which is why I didn’t realise Brand had form for saying vile things either. The Andrew Sachs thing completely passed me by for example).