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Dogs Everywhere

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SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 20:36

I don't live in the UK but am just back from a holiday in Cornwall. We were shocked at the amount of dogs allowed everywhere. They were in every restaurant, cafe, pub and hotel. Two or three people with dogs would all go into a small shop, blocking the aisles for everyone else. In Port Isaac on a lovely sunny Sunday afternoon the whole harbour and uphill area was disrupted by loud and continuous barking. Dogs were running around off leash on every beach. People were clogging the narrow pavements with two or three dogs on leads, wheeling dogs around in prams and buggies, stopping outside holiday cottages for ages chatting while their dogs barked, yapped and howled and ruined the peace for the people inside.

We were genuinely wondering if the next time we came back there would be dog and owner spaces in supermarket carparks and an expectation that you should stand up on public transport to let people with dogs sit down.

AIBU to think England has gone a bit mad when it comes to dogs?

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Dickheadseverywhere · 17/09/2023 21:15

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Nemesias · 17/09/2023 21:15

irisretic · 17/09/2023 20:40

YANBU at all. Far too many dogs in cafes and shops these days. Awful for people with allergies or poor eyesight and a myriad of other reasons.

Dogs are famously pretty useful for people with poor eyesight

Comedycook · 17/09/2023 21:15

Redlarge · 17/09/2023 21:13

Id rather be in any place full of dogs than I would kids

Lots of people are like this. It's so weird to me. What kind of species prefers another species to it's own young? I actually find it quite disturbing when people say they prefer dogs to babies/children

Winniewoooooooo · 17/09/2023 21:16

Wow. Would seriously suggest that if this smell is following you around. Its you -not the dogs. I've never been in a restaurant that smelt of dog.

Goodornot · 17/09/2023 21:16

I hate dogs. I'm fed up with them in shops and every cafe, pub, restaurant. They eat their own shit and vomit ffs they shouldn't be allowed in cafes etc.

I'm sick of it and they should be banned from shops etc again.

Nevermind202020 · 17/09/2023 21:16

Dickheadseverywhere · 17/09/2023 21:10

My dog’s barks are definitely less repetitive that these threads.

That's subjective though - to you the bark might not be annoying but to others it might be excruciating! Don't get me wrong, I can forgive dogs barking every now and then, it's the ones who yap constantly for no apparent reason and who set of the chain reaction of other yapping. It is annoying.

SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:16

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 17/09/2023 21:15

Oh woof off.

Running our of arguments, are we?

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SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:18

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And you don't even have any arguments to start with. So we'll take it you know you're a selfish nuisance and just don't care.

Please feel free to follow up with another yawn. I think we all have your measure.

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Dickheadseverywhere · 17/09/2023 21:18

Nevermind202020 · 17/09/2023 21:16

That's subjective though - to you the bark might not be annoying but to others it might be excruciating! Don't get me wrong, I can forgive dogs barking every now and then, it's the ones who yap constantly for no apparent reason and who set of the chain reaction of other yapping. It is annoying.

Didn’t say annoying.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 17/09/2023 21:18

SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:16

Running our of arguments, are we?

No, just having fun.

Is that still allowed?

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bengalcat · 17/09/2023 21:18

We stayed at the Bodmin Jail Hotel last year - there was an option for a sausage for your dog at breakfast . Served on a plate . DDog was delighted . Oddly enough she wasn’t keen on Watergate Bays doggy ice cream - it didn’t taste too bad but less creamy than ‘ human ‘ ice cream .
But yes when sharing public places be mindful of others , appreciate the impact of your dog on others and pick your shit up .

Carsarelife · 17/09/2023 21:18

I love dogs and this is what made me book a break to Cornwall last year. Great I could take him literally everywhere except Wetherspoons who didn't allow dogs. My dog is quiet, no bother and 13 years old, doesn't bark etc. I was so grateful to the places letting him in. It meant he could have a holiday too. Took him to Devon this year - not quite the same vibe

SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:19

Winniewoooooooo · 17/09/2023 21:16

Wow. Would seriously suggest that if this smell is following you around. Its you -not the dogs. I've never been in a restaurant that smelt of dog.

Perhaps you're so used to the smell you don't get it anymore.

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Redlarge · 17/09/2023 21:19

Comedycook · 17/09/2023 21:15

Lots of people are like this. It's so weird to me. What kind of species prefers another species to it's own young? I actually find it quite disturbing when people say they prefer dogs to babies/children

Its mad isnt it. I find it odd that people would enjoy being around other peoples children over dogs. Different strokes for different folks I suppose. But give me dogs any day

Comedycook · 17/09/2023 21:20

It meant he could have a holiday too

🙄

SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:20

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 17/09/2023 21:18

No, just having fun.

Is that still allowed?

But you're not being funny.

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Redlarge · 17/09/2023 21:20

bengalcat · 17/09/2023 21:18

We stayed at the Bodmin Jail Hotel last year - there was an option for a sausage for your dog at breakfast . Served on a plate . DDog was delighted . Oddly enough she wasn’t keen on Watergate Bays doggy ice cream - it didn’t taste too bad but less creamy than ‘ human ‘ ice cream .
But yes when sharing public places be mindful of others , appreciate the impact of your dog on others and pick your shit up .

Awwww this is cute x

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 17/09/2023 21:21

SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:20

But you're not being funny.

I don't care.

SusanandMidge · 17/09/2023 21:21

Carsarelife · 17/09/2023 21:18

I love dogs and this is what made me book a break to Cornwall last year. Great I could take him literally everywhere except Wetherspoons who didn't allow dogs. My dog is quiet, no bother and 13 years old, doesn't bark etc. I was so grateful to the places letting him in. It meant he could have a holiday too. Took him to Devon this year - not quite the same vibe

Why does the dog need a holiday?

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Comedycook · 17/09/2023 21:22

So much nicer in other countries when people are actually nice to children, welcome them as members of the community rather than obsessing over some mangy animal which shits on the pavement

Regholdsworthswaterbed · 17/09/2023 21:22

I love dogs but I have to agree. I went to a designer outlet village place to other week, the sort of place you only go for clothes shopping and every other person had brought their dog. Just why?

MatchyM · 17/09/2023 21:23

I won’t go to Cornwall again. Mainly because of how unwelcoming they are to all outsiders and tourists. The dog situation mentioned just confirms that my decision is the correct one.

I am hoping that the XL bully developments will lead to a wider discussion about what responsible dog ownership entails. Clue: it’s not letting Fido jump up at others with the trite comment: ‘he’s just being friendly’.

rinseandrepeat1 · 17/09/2023 21:23

@Dickheadseverywhere Grin

MatchyM · 17/09/2023 21:24

Barleycat · 17/09/2023 20:55

Agree, hate the smell of dogs and the noise they make and do not want them around when I'm eating. If I ruled the world then I would get rid of all but assistance and working dogs, cannot stand them.

I would vote for you.