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Trans husband

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Fedupwashedout · 15/09/2023 20:07

am I unreasonable? My husband of 20 years is a trans woman. He asked if the relationship was sustainable and I told him I didn’t find him as a woman attractive. He took offence and said he’d support me no matter what. I support him and love him I just don’t find him sexually attractive as a woman.

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Mia1351 · 13/11/2023 02:33

There is a link between Autism and identifying as trans

Henrietta70 · 13/12/2023 18:43

My Uncle did this 20 years ago in Australia. He was secretly cross dressing then Transitioned age 70.

Broke his marriage up, messed up his kids.

I’m sure you have heard of Autogynephilia. Look up Trans Widows. They started a link on here in 2017, and now have their own site.

These men are only interested in their own sexualised female self. It isn’t stunning brave, and he isn’t a Lesbian. Eddie Izzard, and others like him are a walking Paraphilia, and Women need to wake up to it.

Save your sanity and walk.

Henrietta70 · 19/12/2023 18:05

Many Male straight Autogynephiles are either autistic or have a narcissistic personality.

pomers · 19/12/2023 20:56

CantThinkOfANameAtAll · 15/09/2023 20:12

You married a man. Are you still actually married if they are no longer a man?

Yes, because they are still a man. You cannot change sex. You can get a GRC, it doesn’t actually make you female. However, you are still married to that person

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