My partner has just returned to work full time in the office and I have never been so miserable in my whole life.
He's gone back to the office and with him went my only support during the day, the only adult conversation I get in the day, I'm in immense amount of pain due to an injury caused by an epidural and having to walk to and from the school whilst pushing a double pram and using a baby carrier at the same time (I have very small age gaps between my youngest three) which means I am spending every day topped up on painkillers, he's missing all the little ones 'firsts', I've had to miss one school event already due to not being able to get into the classroom with my buggy and not being able to hold and supervise two non walkers at the same time out of a pram.
The month before he went back to work, out delightful landlord handed us a section 21, so now we are also having to leave our home of 8 years and struggling to find anyone willing to take us on with our young children.
I have had to make all the phonecalls, send all the emails and sort everything to do with our current homelessness, something he would have been able to have chipped in with had he been working at home, and no, it wouldn't have affected his productivity to have sent the odd email to try to help us seeing as he spends enough time on team meeting calls joking around with higher ups.
My partner tells me the call back to the office has resulted in them losing half their staff, as people don't want to be full time in office anymore, so are looking for a new WFH job, or at least a hybrid.
They have already had one data breach since being in office, yet had none WFH for three years.
He says nobody wants to be there and productivity has nosedived.
The call back to work doesn't just affect the workers, it affects those around them too.
It shakes up their whole work/home balance.
We were able to do doctors appointments, school events and other important things without him having to take one day off, because I could just leave one or two little ones with him and he was able to work at the same time.
My mental health is utterly shot to pieces now I'm alone again.
I genuinely hate his boss for it.
Luckily, my partner is leaving them in November for a new WFH/hybrid job, so they can shove it.