Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Meeting: 'Working from home' - your vote needed!

371 replies

coxesorangepippin · 12/09/2023 00:53

Got a meeting invite late tonight titled simply: Working from home'. Scheduled for half an hour. No additional info.

What are they gonna say?

Return to the office full time? Full time WFH???

Your guess is as good as mine. We're currently in once every two weeks.

Results posted in here tomorrow once the meeting has been held.

Yanbu = back to office
Yabu = WFH

OP posts:
Hubblebubble · 12/09/2023 17:15

My job is completely remote. If it wasn't, I wouldn't be able to do my job as the skeleton office is based in England and I live in Wales. WFH has allowed companies to widen their net to find talent. It's also a great way to combat regional deprivation.

Wexone · 12/09/2023 17:18

@TrashedSofa well said
I dont get all this collaborative working in person sometimes, we have worked so well on projects through teams with so many people in different sites, there are people in the US i have never met but yet speak every single day on teh phone or on teams and feel like i know them so well. Before covid i sat right in front of my boss, but i never saw him really he was always gone to meetings etc ( 3 buildings on site). I would often have to sit and wait for him many an eve to get stuff signed or catch up. When work from home i spoke to him more in that 1st year then i did in the three years before sitting right across from him. We can send a quick message on teams or a call, stuff to be signed can be sent via docu sign (Wonderful invention)A colleague has just handed in his notice, i have actually never met him face to face but we have spoken nearly every day and am devastated he is going as he was a big help to me

Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/09/2023 17:23

We have to go in to the office twice per week

Sounds pretty standard to mee, and I'm a big advocate of WFH when it works properly

Staff "not being happy" at not getting everything they want is also pretty standard, but most importantly of all, what reason did the managers give for making the change?

DonnaTellMeThis · 12/09/2023 17:26

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

Summering23 · 12/09/2023 17:27

I guess at least it's only 2 days. My place forces us in 3 days a week. We can't all do the same 3 days so often I'm sat there on my own all day.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:32

The employer's prerogative doesn't outweigh the views of the team.

Of course it does. That's literally how employment works 😂. I work in a highly consultative open environment. Individual / team views are always considered. The ultimate decision is with the employer, and of course it must be.

Regarding culture / environment / package, you're right. If individuals don't like it, as in any employment situation, they are free to leave.

It's not ridiculous to think that the changes since covid mean no or barely any time on site.
I'm not sure you're reading my post correctly. At a management level, there are many subtle & top-level issues (as I described) which might not always be seen at the individual level but matter to the organisation.

Of course a good employer will articulate these clearly and honestly.

Regarding 2 days on site not being an imposition. It's simply not. Yes, if an employee doesn't like it, they can look for work elsewhere - that's fine. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with an employer having an expectation of a number of days on-site that suit them

TrashedSofa · 12/09/2023 17:32

Summering23 · 12/09/2023 17:27

I guess at least it's only 2 days. My place forces us in 3 days a week. We can't all do the same 3 days so often I'm sat there on my own all day.

Actually this is a good point- OP hasn't said whether they're all expected in on the same days. People are talking about the value of in person collaboration, but we've no evidence that's what it's about.

Grendell · 12/09/2023 17:33

I am in the states and when CEO Marissa Meyer brought the WFH Yahoo people back to the office in 2013, my employer did the same. They determined the WFH experiment a failure because while employees started out working well, they slowly deteriorated and stopped working at all. It was gradual over time. The RTO announcement was clear. Return on this day or you are fired. And that's what happened. Several colleagues were fired because they did not think the threat was serious.

This post-Covid RTO is interesting to me. There are mandates to go back to the office "x" number of days and employees are not complying. But this time they are not getting fired. It's just a shoulder shrug. It doesn't seem like the companies are really serious. They want it to seem like they have employees back in the office (maybe to investors, clients, stockholders?), but they really aren't. It's still very much WFH, but from what I can tell, a majority of WFH people have stopped doing very much work at all. But there is not a pipeline of candidates to replace a lot of people should they quit or get fired.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:34

Wexone · 12/09/2023 17:03

Tried to do that in our place suppose to be 2 days a week in office, got pushed right back. The argument was that we have all worked from home past two years with an increase in productivity so why stop it. Plus it turned out not enough space anyway as staff increased over covid, Had to fork out rent for portacabins. Most work from home now 4 days a week or more depending on job and where live. I get nothing done in the office now when i do go in, have face to face meetings ( some a waste of time could be an email job) talking to people haven't seen in ages, going to canteen, searching for a chair as mine gone missing or late for work as there was a bloody crash on the motorway ( a common occurrence) plus need to leave early to save me an hour extra drive. The noise in the office in unbearable now too. You can tell on the teams calls who are in the office as the noise is unreal from them when they speak. We also have three similar factories within in 10 ins from us that allow working from home so struggling to keep staff. Am now at home catching up from a lost day yesterday as was in the office. not worth it.

That's a manifestly disorganised office / workplace though.

I don't blame you for wanting to wfh in that situation.

Every decent employer should ensure for example there are private spaces for Teams calls (I have my own office but in the open plan area they are not allowed. We have designated pods & meeting rooms, ample for requirements).

The office should of course be appropriately maintained eg equipment and furniture.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:38

Isitautumnyet23 · 12/09/2023 17:06

I think probably more time in the office as I think most people are back in alot more now. Ive never worked from home (due to nature of the job) and would really miss seeing my colleagues every day. I would hate my home to become my work space (luckily DH doesn’t work from home either so its a work free home).

I know some people say they work better at home (and im sure thats true in some cases), but ive heard other Mums with Primary School children describe how they worked from home all week in the holidays with the kids at home. You cant possibly concentrate or work to the same level in that situation. That shouldn’t be allowed- its not fair on the employer or the children.

This is true too. I have 1 primary & 2 secondary aged DC. Over the summer I was often WFH when they were here too.

It was really hard. I had to work early / late / some weekends to get my work done.

Then again, being in the office was also a challenge as I was endlessly trying to track down teen DS!

I greatly appreciate the days I can WFH; as a single parent, it really helps in a myriad of small ways. However, I also recognise I at times won't have the same focus as in the office. I view this on a task basis, not time - I put in a bit of extra time when / if I need it.

Goingsomewhere · 12/09/2023 17:38

I've been wfh the past 2 days and barely spoken to another human. Just sat in front of a screen. Don't get why people like it.

Zebedee55 · 12/09/2023 17:40

Many firms now want staff back in the office. They don't see WFH as a positive any more.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:40

Wexone · 12/09/2023 17:18

@TrashedSofa well said
I dont get all this collaborative working in person sometimes, we have worked so well on projects through teams with so many people in different sites, there are people in the US i have never met but yet speak every single day on teh phone or on teams and feel like i know them so well. Before covid i sat right in front of my boss, but i never saw him really he was always gone to meetings etc ( 3 buildings on site). I would often have to sit and wait for him many an eve to get stuff signed or catch up. When work from home i spoke to him more in that 1st year then i did in the three years before sitting right across from him. We can send a quick message on teams or a call, stuff to be signed can be sent via docu sign (Wonderful invention)A colleague has just handed in his notice, i have actually never met him face to face but we have spoken nearly every day and am devastated he is going as he was a big help to me

It's great that works for your office environment. I recognise workplaces are different.

However, if the employer feels there's benefits to the organisation of having employees on site more, that's absolutely reasonable.

As in your case, there'll be organisations where it isn't an issue & remote working is beneficial.

TrashedSofa · 12/09/2023 17:41

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:32

The employer's prerogative doesn't outweigh the views of the team.

Of course it does. That's literally how employment works 😂. I work in a highly consultative open environment. Individual / team views are always considered. The ultimate decision is with the employer, and of course it must be.

Regarding culture / environment / package, you're right. If individuals don't like it, as in any employment situation, they are free to leave.

It's not ridiculous to think that the changes since covid mean no or barely any time on site.
I'm not sure you're reading my post correctly. At a management level, there are many subtle & top-level issues (as I described) which might not always be seen at the individual level but matter to the organisation.

Of course a good employer will articulate these clearly and honestly.

Regarding 2 days on site not being an imposition. It's simply not. Yes, if an employee doesn't like it, they can look for work elsewhere - that's fine. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with an employer having an expectation of a number of days on-site that suit them

Neither the employees nor the employer have the ultimate decision, because there isn't just one. The employer gets to decide what terms and conditions they'll offer to employees, the employees get to decide whether to stay or not, and then for new recruits whether to apply/accept a role. There are two separate sets of decisions here and neither one can override the other.

What you've said about not reading your post correctly and the further explanation doesn't back up your claim that it's ridiculous to think changes since covid mean no or minimal time on site. What you have said here is that management might sometimes identify issues you describe, which is true, but certainly isn't a universal standard. The fact is that in some organisations where people work totally or mainly from home, management (like OPs manager) often don't think those issues exist.

As for two days simply not being an imposition, this is nothing more than your value judgement. You can't prove that it isn't, any more than anyone else could prove that it is. It's a personal call. It's also not a good way to approach the issue.

Seeing things as right or wrong is missing the point: it's about whether employer and employees are able to come to a mutually acceptable agreement on working conditions.

Wexone · 12/09/2023 17:42

@EarringsandLipstick worked for i say about 10 very large global manufacturing companies in past 10 years not one of them have pods, ample meeting rooms for requirements. There was never enough meeting rooms anywhere i worked and you were always being asked did you need it by someone else looking to use it. One company had a makeshift mezzanine floor made above the warehouse to use as a meeting My last company, my office was actually part of the corridor, Management spent a fortune doing up two floors upstairs above us, one was to be sued for poster display's ect, my direct manager couldn't believe it we crammed into a corridor and yet the space above us ( with lovely views might i add) were to be dedicated to posters. Companies do not want to spend money on things like that. Current place has now got rid of phones from all desks, have to use teams or webex to ring people if don't have a work mobile. The peace and quiet i have at home to take calls and do my work at home is amazing.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:45

Goingsomewhere · 12/09/2023 17:38

I've been wfh the past 2 days and barely spoken to another human. Just sat in front of a screen. Don't get why people like it.

I think it's very individual as well as organisation-dependent.

I generally dislike WFH more than 1 day at a time. My team much prefers to WFH x 2 days, on-site x 3 days, in a block.

For me, on-site days are focused on particular tasks, and often the 'softer' side of management - one-to-ones, checking in with someone who might be upset, relationship building. I then like my WFH days which are task oriented or focused online meetings.

I think the great benefit of hybrid working is facilitating as many of individual's preferences as possible, within reason.

garlictwist · 12/09/2023 17:47

My employer recently made everyone return back 50% of their working week. I must admit at first I was quite annoyed about it but now I think it's 100% the right decision.

I have a much better working relationship with my team, I don't get sick of the sight of my own four walls and I feel more involved in the goings on of the business.

That said, my "commute" is a 17 minute walk so I might feel differently if it were expensive and long. But I do think there is a good case for a hybrid approach.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:48

The employer gets to decide what terms and conditions they'll offer to employees, the employees get to decide whether to stay or not, and then for new recruits whether to apply/accept a role. There are two separate sets of decisions here and neither one can override the other.

That's factually untrue though.

The employer gets to decide what the T&C of employment are. At that point in time, in the vast majority of cases, the employee has to accept it.

It at least temporarily does override the employee's wishes!

In time, if the employee really doesn't want to work in that way, they can look for another job, hand in their notice & leave. This isn't possible for everyone - so it's not an absolute choice. It also isn't immediate & not always straightforward.

There's just not an equivalence.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:50

As for two days simply not being an imposition, this is nothing more than your value judgement. You can't prove that it isn't, any more than anyone else could prove that it is. It's a personal call. It's also not a good way to approach the issue.

Out of a 5 day working week, 2 days on-site isn't an imposition. How could it be?

Imagine thinking an employee asking their staff to work on-site 2/5 of the time equals an imposition 🤦🏻‍♀️

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:53

it's about whether employer and employees are able to come to a mutually acceptable agreement on working conditions.

With respect, this is wrong.

It's correct to consult, discuss & be open to points made by employees.

No workplace is based on reaching a 'mutually acceptable agreement'. That's nonsense. How would you have a 'mutually acceptable' situation that suited all employees?

It's for this reason there are rules of employment. It's correct to have latitude where possible (eg we have flexi time) but it's not parity.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:55

Wexone · 12/09/2023 17:42

@EarringsandLipstick worked for i say about 10 very large global manufacturing companies in past 10 years not one of them have pods, ample meeting rooms for requirements. There was never enough meeting rooms anywhere i worked and you were always being asked did you need it by someone else looking to use it. One company had a makeshift mezzanine floor made above the warehouse to use as a meeting My last company, my office was actually part of the corridor, Management spent a fortune doing up two floors upstairs above us, one was to be sued for poster display's ect, my direct manager couldn't believe it we crammed into a corridor and yet the space above us ( with lovely views might i add) were to be dedicated to posters. Companies do not want to spend money on things like that. Current place has now got rid of phones from all desks, have to use teams or webex to ring people if don't have a work mobile. The peace and quiet i have at home to take calls and do my work at home is amazing.

That's terrible. You've been really unfortunate.

My organisation is public sector. The outlay to facilitate privacy for meetings is minimal. It's about organisation & effective management. The cost is fractional.

You've just worked for poorly organised companies.

Coffeesnob11 · 12/09/2023 17:57

This happened to us but 4 days a week in the office. Rather than just complain we made a business case for 3 max. The presentation included what our clients were doing, reasons why it was better to be more flexible including health, environment etc and quotes from recruitment agents on what top candidates were looking for. It was so well received they used it for the whole global policy. Its fine to say you are not happy and no but I always find its better to give business reasons why.

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:57

garlictwist · 12/09/2023 17:47

My employer recently made everyone return back 50% of their working week. I must admit at first I was quite annoyed about it but now I think it's 100% the right decision.

I have a much better working relationship with my team, I don't get sick of the sight of my own four walls and I feel more involved in the goings on of the business.

That said, my "commute" is a 17 minute walk so I might feel differently if it were expensive and long. But I do think there is a good case for a hybrid approach.

Agree with this.

We worked 2 days on-site, 3 days from home for quite a long while, then it reversed.

I found the initial 'extra' day on-site quite hard, tiring & I felt initially, unnecessary. Now it feels like the right balance.

Like I sat, the type of work I do means f2f connection is very valuable. But it's also the small things, like a quick chat before an in-person meeting to advance something. That can't happen on Teams; it's an ad hoc point of connection.

Wolfpa · 12/09/2023 17:58

I often wonder about the argument about working from home as there is no need to go into an office. To me this is like giving the company you work for an excuse to say “well if this job can be done from anywhere why are we paying high salaries we will now only hire people from cheaper places”

EarringsandLipstick · 12/09/2023 17:59

@Coffeesnob11

That is a good idea, regarding the business case.

From a management perspective, we be also always focused on business need, when explaining rationale for decisions.

Swipe left for the next trending thread