If someone you love, and who loves you, does things which are truly horrific to you; is it possible those things are unforgivable?
I know the first response will be "people who really love you don't do horrific things to you" - but actually sometimes they do.
If that happens and you truly love them and they truly love you and you both wish it had never happened, is it possible that some wounds are just irreparable?
I feel I have tried, and maybe "unforgivable" is the wrong word, but I can't undo the destruction. I feel a deep sense of loss, and I'm wondering if its unreasonable to think not everything can be fixed.
Even if you really wish it could. Even if not fixing it means you'll be a little bit sad for the rest of your life.