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Are accents snobbish

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678somean · 08/09/2023 09:19

I know this is going to get me a lot of backlash. But I love a good debate so thought I'd pose the question....
I hate regional accents. I know they can't be helped but they sound so thick.
There was an article in the Guardian recently where they mentioned that people with regional accents go to speech therapy before moving to London in order to apply for jobs!
I think it's a smart move. But of course not a popular opinion.
I've worked with lots of people in high profile roles and honestly, whether people like it or not, the ones with RP are definitely taken more seriously and respected.
I've noticed all over England that the ones who are highly educated with good jobs rarely have their local accent and most have admitted that it's undesirable to have a regional accent and they are middle/upper class so don't speak with one.
Do others feel the same when applying for high status roles?

OP posts:
678somean · 08/09/2023 10:13

Squirrelblanket · 08/09/2023 10:08

No, I have never found that all 'well to do' people or people in senior roles speak with RP. Perhaps you need to broaden your horizons, OP?

Maybe I do. I can only speak from experience. Working in London in finance surrounded by lawyers, doctors and people who send their children to private schools I have yet to meet anyone with a thick regional accent.
Sure, there are subtle tones. But none very strong.

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Mrsjayy · 08/09/2023 10:13

Actually the op doesn't mean a London accent they mean a "Private school"accent and the rest of England because well where else is there in the world ! Need to just .pull their socks up !

Timmytap18 · 08/09/2023 10:14

678somean · 08/09/2023 10:13

Maybe I do. I can only speak from experience. Working in London in finance surrounded by lawyers, doctors and people who send their children to private schools I have yet to meet anyone with a thick regional accent.
Sure, there are subtle tones. But none very strong.

I'll say it again, there are doctors and lawyers all over the country who send their kids to private school and they have regional accents!

The world is bigger than London.

Didimum · 08/09/2023 10:15

678somean · 08/09/2023 09:30

Acknowledge it or not. It's true though. Most Headteachers of the top schools speak with RP whether they're in the south or Darlington!

Just because the prejudice exists, you don't have to believe it's right or perpetuate it.

Racism and sexism also exists – do you believe those are right too?

JudgeJ · 08/09/2023 10:15

Mrsjayy · 08/09/2023 09:22

Right you are then so everyone in the UK has to sound Posh English so you want Welsh ,Scottish or Irish people to have an English Accent so you just want the UK to be Southern England? I'm just here for the deletion tbh.

People like the OP don't understand that everyone has an accent, even the delightful RP was an accent, if we didn't we would never open our mouths!

Beezknees · 08/09/2023 10:16

678somean · 08/09/2023 10:13

Maybe I do. I can only speak from experience. Working in London in finance surrounded by lawyers, doctors and people who send their children to private schools I have yet to meet anyone with a thick regional accent.
Sure, there are subtle tones. But none very strong.

You can be a successful person without living in London and working in finance! You seem to have a very narrow view of what is "successful."

Many people in the north and Midlands are wealthy, own their own businesses, etc.

JudgeJ · 08/09/2023 10:17

678somean · 08/09/2023 09:30

Acknowledge it or not. It's true though. Most Headteachers of the top schools speak with RP whether they're in the south or Darlington!

My dear, RP is an accent, it's just the one that fits your prejudices!

shearwater · 08/09/2023 10:17

Gahhhhereheisagain · 08/09/2023 10:04

Those rising to the OP are ignoring that this prejudice is very real. You add in a few other protected characteristics and it's very hard for you to succeed.
My DS is very intelligent but I feel that he isn't recognised as such due to his thick regional accent (West Country). There's only two Bristolian sounding kids in his class now, which is fine, that's the nature of the city these days. It's sad that he isn't chosen for things more because the school would rather put the kids who talk nicely at the front of the stage.
I know family who have moved to London with first degrees who don't find it easy to get ahead. To be frank, I think it's hard for people to move away from the idea that we're all pirates and/or farmers.
That said, in my work, I find it much easier to build rapport with people in the local community. You send someone into a council house in the rougher bits of the city with an accent straight of Eaton, they'll need much more relationship building skills to get the clients to trust them. So hurray for those of us with strong regional accents who want to work in social care I guess?

The first time I heard that bloke off 'time team' speak, as an academic and someone from the West Country, I felt such pride.

The prejudice is real, but we need to work on the prejudice not the accents.

With globalisation everything is becoming homogenous and people are starting to sound a lot more similar anyway. Also we've come a long way in media representation even in the last 30 years but there is still some way to go.

GalileoHumpkins · 08/09/2023 10:18

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678somean · 08/09/2023 10:19

Humidititties · 08/09/2023 10:10

So everyone without a London accent sounds thick is what you think, and other people on here are defending this?

Pathetic.

Oh definitely not saying that. Many Londoners sound thick too!

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KimberleyClark · 08/09/2023 10:20

I love Astrophysycist Professor Brian Cox’s soft Northern vowels.

Mrsjayy · 08/09/2023 10:20

Beezknees · 08/09/2023 10:16

You can be a successful person without living in London and working in finance! You seem to have a very narrow view of what is "successful."

Many people in the north and Midlands are wealthy, own their own businesses, etc.

I mean who would have thought success outside the city of London !

L1verp00l1 · 08/09/2023 10:21

OP, the title of your post does not reflect the point you are making.
What you are actually saying is 'is my judgement of the regional accents of other people snobbish?'
The answer is technically yes. Ironically both the point you are making and the way you are making it makes YOU sound thick.

In terms of the wider implications of what you are saying:
Studies have proven there is a bias against regional accents. National accents (Ireland/Scotland/Wales) are not judged as harshly as regional ones, with accepts like Yorkshire and Estuary English being less negatively judged than Brummie/Scouse/West country.

I my profession (law) I would say that the biggest barrier to entry (assuming relevant academic qualifications) is undoubtedly the social class that your accent reveals. Way, way more than your race, sex or sexuality. It's a huge problem for social mobility.

It's also interesting that colleagues from around the world don't hear my accent and Americans in particular marvel at how intelligent I sound, whilst my English colleagues are sniggering at the reality if the stereotypes that my accent carries.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 08/09/2023 10:22

I notice Prince William is developing a slight Estuary accent which sounds much better than his wife's newly acquired ultra posh voice.

Perhaps OP thinks we should all sound like Boris Johnson eh?

shearwater · 08/09/2023 10:25

Beezknees · 08/09/2023 10:16

You can be a successful person without living in London and working in finance! You seem to have a very narrow view of what is "successful."

Many people in the north and Midlands are wealthy, own their own businesses, etc.

I work with very successful and wealthy people up and down the country who run very successful privately owned small to medium sized construction, engineering and manufacturing businesses (SMEs) with highly skilled employees. All of them have regional accents.

Business, contrary to what a lot of politicians, lawyers, accountants and FTSE CEOs think does not just mean white collar office based service and financial industries, big retailers and global corporations. Construction does not mean house builders alone or someone coming to build your extension and duck house. We do still actually make, invent and build useful and brilliant things in this country and the majority of the workforce are actually employed by SMEs and it is about time these people took their heads out of their arses and realised this.

Chickenkeev · 08/09/2023 10:26

What is RP? Is it just the generic newsreader accent? What does it stand for?

Chickenkeev · 08/09/2023 10:28

678somean · 08/09/2023 10:19

Oh definitely not saying that. Many Londoners sound thick too!

People who judge people by their accents and not by what they're saying, don't just sound thick, but are thick.

678somean · 08/09/2023 10:29

Mrsjayy · 08/09/2023 10:13

Actually the op doesn't mean a London accent they mean a "Private school"accent and the rest of England because well where else is there in the world ! Need to just .pull their socks up !

You're not wrong. It's how it's seen mostly.
People can hate me all they want but I'm just speaking from experience.

OP posts:
KimberleyClark · 08/09/2023 10:30

Chickenkeev · 08/09/2023 10:26

What is RP? Is it just the generic newsreader accent? What does it stand for?

Received Pronunciation.

shearwater · 08/09/2023 10:31

L1verp00l1 · 08/09/2023 10:21

OP, the title of your post does not reflect the point you are making.
What you are actually saying is 'is my judgement of the regional accents of other people snobbish?'
The answer is technically yes. Ironically both the point you are making and the way you are making it makes YOU sound thick.

In terms of the wider implications of what you are saying:
Studies have proven there is a bias against regional accents. National accents (Ireland/Scotland/Wales) are not judged as harshly as regional ones, with accepts like Yorkshire and Estuary English being less negatively judged than Brummie/Scouse/West country.

I my profession (law) I would say that the biggest barrier to entry (assuming relevant academic qualifications) is undoubtedly the social class that your accent reveals. Way, way more than your race, sex or sexuality. It's a huge problem for social mobility.

It's also interesting that colleagues from around the world don't hear my accent and Americans in particular marvel at how intelligent I sound, whilst my English colleagues are sniggering at the reality if the stereotypes that my accent carries.

I agree with all of that.

I have a soft Mancunian accent, not trying to be RP at all and still say bath not barth etc and have met South Africans who thought I was posh and people from the US who said I sound like John Lennon.

City law firms were not completely adverse to my accent but people can be quite patronising "Oh bless she's NORTHERN" about it.

Chickenkeev · 08/09/2023 10:32

Thanks. Is that just generic english accent then? Like posh Londonesque?

KimberleyClark · 08/09/2023 10:33

Chickenkeev · 08/09/2023 10:32

Thanks. Is that just generic english accent then? Like posh Londonesque?

Yes it is.

shearwater · 08/09/2023 10:34

shearwater · 08/09/2023 10:31

I agree with all of that.

I have a soft Mancunian accent, not trying to be RP at all and still say bath not barth etc and have met South Africans who thought I was posh and people from the US who said I sound like John Lennon.

City law firms were not completely adverse to my accent but people can be quite patronising "Oh bless she's NORTHERN" about it.

And also interestingly I found the civil service harder to get into in terms of class prejudice than law.

Chickenkeev · 08/09/2023 10:34

KimberleyClark · 08/09/2023 10:33

Yes it is.

Every day's a school day! Thank you.

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 08/09/2023 10:37

I really dislike the Essex accent. It's just awful. Also, the Birmingham accent. A lady I work with is from Birmingham and says everything is loov-lay instead of lovely and it bugs me so much.

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