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To ask you to please help me find a wedding song?

122 replies

candyflosstheboss · 06/09/2023 22:00

I'm old school, stuck in the 80's to be fair, rarely listen to any new kind of music! So I guess I'm looking for something that would work as a fantastic song to walk back down the aisle with my new husband.

I like pop, he likes rock....

So far songs we like but have decided not quite right are:

Love Shack (B52's)
Groove is in the Heart (Deelite)
Never Gonna Give you Up (Rick)
Don't stop Believing (Journey)
Everywhere (Fleetwood Mac)

We can't use 'happy' as used by a friend...

Does anyone have any other suggestions of something that is uplifting, fun and will make us and our guests smile?

Running out of options and wedding in 2 weeks!

Would be really grateful for any suggestions new, old, classics, out there!

Thank you so much!

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candyflosstheboss · 06/09/2023 22:39

We do have songs that our ours for walking up the aisle and first dance. I am trying to find something that will be a celebration song - our songs are slow! Want to leave with a bang!

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Zhougzhoug · 06/09/2023 22:40

Prince!!! Kiss?

TrixieFatell · 06/09/2023 22:40

My favorite wedding songs were Lovesong by the Cure and Love and Happiness by Al Green

candyflosstheboss · 06/09/2023 22:41

Some fantastic suggestions there! Currently on Spotify listening!

We have considered starship, total classic song!

Up aisle is your song by Elton John, that's our song really!

Fancied dancing back down to something more fun!

Thank you thus far! My sister had the Barry White song! That was a good one!

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PimpMyFridge · 06/09/2023 22:41

Van Morrison - Moondance

Aquamarine1029 · 06/09/2023 22:41

Celebration by Kool & The Gang

Zhougzhoug · 06/09/2023 22:42

Madonna - Cherish

TomatoSandwiches · 06/09/2023 22:44

Higher - Jackie Wilson not an 80s song but was on the Ghostbusters sound track so everyone will know it.

JaneIntheBox · 06/09/2023 22:44

Flight of the Birds (edid you know flamingos mate for life and this was first used in a documentary about them)

Not really a wedding song but Higher Love (from the umbrella academy tv show). Listen to the original by Steve Winwood, the 2017 version with him and his daughter, and the whitney houston version.

The Cinematic Orchestra Arrival of the Birds & Transformation

The first part is also of the commercial of Acqua di Gioia, this video contains also Transformation, which is a bit different but still the same concept. Enj...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqoANESQ4cQ

Clarissa111 · 06/09/2023 22:44

I get married next weekend. After 25 yrs together. We've picked songs that mean something to us. Also there's one in there for my dad who has passed away.
I can tell the the songs if you'd like. But they all songs for us if you understand what I mean.
The song we are leaving to is not a wedding song at all. But it's our song.

CheeseAndBeans · 06/09/2023 22:46

We walked back down to “together forever” by Rick Astley. Perfect for us. We love 80’s cheese and it made everyone smile!

JSmithIloveyou · 06/09/2023 22:47

A few by The Cure ..
Give their hits a listen

Fourlegsandatail · 06/09/2023 22:48

I think I read on here that one couple had Florence and the Machine’s ‘the Dog Days are Over’ which is quite funny!

TomatoSandwiches · 06/09/2023 22:49

You make my dreams - Hall and Oats

OxSome · 06/09/2023 22:51

Happy Together by The Turtles 🐢
Not a long song but up best & always makes me smile
Whatever you choose enjoy your special day 🥰

OxSome · 06/09/2023 22:51

Up beat not best!!

JaneIntheBox · 06/09/2023 22:52

Clarissa111 · 06/09/2023 22:44

I get married next weekend. After 25 yrs together. We've picked songs that mean something to us. Also there's one in there for my dad who has passed away.
I can tell the the songs if you'd like. But they all songs for us if you understand what I mean.
The song we are leaving to is not a wedding song at all. But it's our song.

None of ours are really wedding songs either. One of my suggestions above is my 'aisle song' and the other picked by future husband. We both just heard them before and liked them, that's all.

I do think however, if not wedding songs they at least have to be somewhat appropriate. My MOH jokingly refers to my music taste as 'sad songs' - certainly songs about heartbreak and betrayal wouldn't suit a wedding...

JaneIntheBox · 06/09/2023 22:52

Also OP if you look at the setlist for musicians, like these for example:
https://emilyowenmusic.wixsite.com/emily-owen/repertoire
https://theweddingpianist.co.uk/repertoire/
Lots of suggestions.

I noticed the same songs tended to appear over and over again. I gave a lot a listen but ultimately stumbled across the ones I liked by accident.

REPERTOIRE | emily-owen

https://emilyowenmusic.wixsite.com/emily-owen/repertoire

MaggieFS · 06/09/2023 22:55

The Kylie and Jason duet 🙂

[slightly] more seriously, if you really want 80s pop and rock, I'm struggling to better Starship, but you could consider

Bon Jovi - I'll be there for you or Livin on a prayer
Journey - don't stop believin

sequin2000 · 06/09/2023 22:56

Led Zeppelin Thank You is beautiful

Lyrics

If the sun refused to shine
I would still be loving you
When mountains crumble to the sea
There will still be you and me

Kind a woman, I give you my all
Kind a woman, nothing more
Little drops of rain, whisper of the pain
Tears of love's lost in the days gone by

My love is strong, with you there is no wrong
Together we shall go until we die, my, my, my
Inspiration's what you are to me
Inspiration, look 'n' see

And so, today my world it smiles
Your hand in mine, we walk the miles
Thanks to you, it will be done
For you to me are the only one
Alright, yeah

Happiness, no more be sad
Happiness, I'm glad

If the sun refused to shine
I would still be loving you
Mountains crumble to the sea
There will still be you and me

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: James Patrick Page / Robert Anthony Plant

bettynutkins · 06/09/2023 23:02

L-o-v-e Nat King Cole. Had everyone dancing at our wedding, such a lovely song 😊

CharlotteStreetW1 · 06/09/2023 23:03

It's not exactly a classic banger but I'm loving this at the moment:

https://open.spotify.com/track/1Y3LN4zO1Edc2EluIoSPJN?si=YjDAg5fjQjKKPkh_NZbwpQ

Or how about this?

Spotify

https://open.spotify.com/track/1Y3LN4zO1Edc2EluIoSPJN?si=YjDAg5fjQjKKPkh_NZbwpQ

Arriettyborrower · 06/09/2023 23:04

We had Florence and the Machines version of you’ve got the love ❤️

CharlotteStreetW1 · 06/09/2023 23:04

TomatoSandwiches · 06/09/2023 22:49

You make my dreams - Hall and Oats

Oh good call!

Nicole1111 · 06/09/2023 23:06

Rusted root - send me on my way