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Breakfast at Tiffany's- not a love story

68 replies

Gahhhhereheisagain · 01/09/2023 23:57

I should start by saying I'm a big fan but isn't it kind of fucked up? The kind of film which people rave about and you don't know if they've actually seen it or remember it, or have considered it by today's standards.
They're kind of both prostitutes.
I love Holly Golightly but she must be maddening to live with, or next door to!
Her and Fred would never work, what would they do? Get jobs? Who would hire the work shy pair?
Much prefer the grittier novela.

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TheLeadbetterLife · 02/09/2023 12:35

It's a misogynist, racist male fantasy - the gorgeous, damaged, fragile yet spirited prostitute who needs rescuing. Same as Pretty Woman, Moulin Rouge and god knows how many other films with the same tropes.

I never understand why women like these films.

Tiespin · 02/09/2023 12:37

I always get upset about the cat being dumped out in the street in that film, don't know why but it always distresses me

andrainwillmaketheflowersgrow · 02/09/2023 12:38

TheLeadbetterLife · 02/09/2023 12:35

It's a misogynist, racist male fantasy - the gorgeous, damaged, fragile yet spirited prostitute who needs rescuing. Same as Pretty Woman, Moulin Rouge and god knows how many other films with the same tropes.

I never understand why women like these films.

Because it's just a film - it's not reality.

Greenfinch7 · 02/09/2023 12:42

the cat is the only thing I remember, and cat made me feel bad

CosyCoffee · 02/09/2023 12:42

I absolutely love old classic movies but I was terribly disappointed when I watched this. It's put me off anything with Audrey Hepburn ever since.

I don't remember any of the plot now but I do remember feeling sad about the cat.

Sueveneers · 02/09/2023 12:44

Tiespin · 02/09/2023 12:37

I always get upset about the cat being dumped out in the street in that film, don't know why but it always distresses me

Me too. And in the rain. Holly was a self-absorbed and cruel character who was oblivious to everything and everyone else around her.

Sueveneers · 02/09/2023 12:46

Greenfinch7 · 02/09/2023 12:42

the cat is the only thing I remember, and cat made me feel bad

Yes, the treatment of the cat is the main reason (among many) that I hate the movie so much. Someone should've dumped Holly in the rain, see how she likes it. Then there is the racism. And then, prostitution.

So it begs the question; why does anyone like this movie when there is NOTHING remotely likeable about it?

MarkWithaC · 02/09/2023 13:16

Fred's Holly's brother. You mean Paul Varjak.

I recognise a lot of the criticisms voiced on this thread and agree with a lot of them. Nonetheless, I still like it. I see it as a fairytale of New York and as a film of its time. I like Audrey H and I like the clothes, the settings, the music.

They do go back for the cat!

GalGadont · 02/09/2023 13:19

I just found it boring. The male lead is so completely blank - is George Peppard just a bad actor, or were they so busy trying to remove the character’s gayness that they forgot to put in any personality traits? It’s a ‘love story’ in the sense that it ends with two people smushing faces in the rain, but I don’t remember there being any interesting sense of what is drawing these two people together. It’s about as romantic as watching two mannequins being pushed together into a kiss position in a shop window.

inisisle · 02/09/2023 13:23

WeetabixTowels · 02/09/2023 03:26

This film is so utterly, utterly terrible (and racist) that when I watched it maybe 15 years ago I was genuinely angry for a day after that I’d wasted my time. Awful, insipid pile of total shite

It is terrible isn't it.

andrainwillmaketheflowersgrow · 02/09/2023 13:25

Sueveneers · 02/09/2023 12:44

Me too. And in the rain. Holly was a self-absorbed and cruel character who was oblivious to everything and everyone else around her.

I didn't think Holly was supposed to be likeable, though, was she?

PuppyMonkey · 02/09/2023 13:28

They do go back and get Cat in the end though.

MarkWithaC · 02/09/2023 13:29

GalGadont · 02/09/2023 13:19

I just found it boring. The male lead is so completely blank - is George Peppard just a bad actor, or were they so busy trying to remove the character’s gayness that they forgot to put in any personality traits? It’s a ‘love story’ in the sense that it ends with two people smushing faces in the rain, but I don’t remember there being any interesting sense of what is drawing these two people together. It’s about as romantic as watching two mannequins being pushed together into a kiss position in a shop window.

I feel like they get drawn together fairly convincingly. They have great fun and there's a lot of warmth in the sequences where they go to the five-and-dime and muck about, and to Tiffany, when they explain that they haven't got much money and the assistant is impeccably polite and non-snooty and suggests a Tiffany phone dialler Smile

MarkWithaC · 02/09/2023 13:44

PuppyMonkey · 02/09/2023 13:28

They do go back and get Cat in the end though.

I said that! Grin

PuppyMonkey · 02/09/2023 13:45

I do think Paul has a personality. He’s just sad and stuck and hates himself for being the play thing of the rich, older woman and meeting Holly makes him come to his senses. Sort of ditto for Holly too with her and her various men.

PuppyMonkey · 02/09/2023 13:45

MarkWithaC · 02/09/2023 13:44

I said that! Grin

Oh sorry!

Supersimkin2 · 02/09/2023 13:55

The point is that Holly’s been thrown away so she repeats that to the cat. Being a victim doesn’t mean you’re a nice person.

The short story/novella is brutal. Holly’s a damaged bird who remakes herself in NY, home of transformations, and tries to
fly. She’s a source of fascination to her GBF hooker mate.

It’s sweet and sad, and Audrey Hepburn didn’t get it - but the thing about feeling safe in a smart shop is so true.

MarkWithaC · 02/09/2023 13:56

PuppyMonkey · 02/09/2023 13:45

Oh sorry!

S' OK Smile
I agree with you about Paul and Holly's personalities. Paul reminds me a bit of Brian in Cabaret.

Merrilydancing · 02/09/2023 14:01

I like it, it’s a far more complex story than the glamorous posters imply.

Holly has a very tragic backstory and it’s made clear that everything she is doing is for her brother. Her devastation is clear when she learns of his death.

She is selfish but only because she has had to be to survive and it is clear that she is scared to let anyone in including cat so that she can’t get hurt, basically self preservation.

The film does try to explain her accent which was Audrey Hepburn’s real one.

In real life she had lived in the Netherlands during the war and came and had mixed British/Dutch heritage. You should read about her ear years all very tragic.

Cyllie33 · 02/09/2023 14:01

I think yabu as it’s not supposed to be a love story is it? It’s a film about damaged people and a callous society.

The horrendous racist depiction of Mickey Rooney’s character sadly makes it unwatchable.

SerafinasGoose · 02/09/2023 14:13

I thought the 50 dollars for the powder room reference was pretty clear. The racism was awful and Hepburn woefully miscast - same with My Fair Lady. Julie Andrews would have made a much better Eliza!

Totalwasteofpaper · 02/09/2023 14:22

Sueveneers · 02/09/2023 11:07

I found it to be dreary and boring. I'll never understand the fuss over it. It was like watching paint dry. Most fucking boring movie I have ever seen, and that's the truth.

100% this.

Dull dull and more dull.
Even as a child i thought they were both idiots.

MarkWithaC · 02/09/2023 15:16

SerafinasGoose · 02/09/2023 14:13

I thought the 50 dollars for the powder room reference was pretty clear. The racism was awful and Hepburn woefully miscast - same with My Fair Lady. Julie Andrews would have made a much better Eliza!

I think she's perfectly cast in BaT. It says a lot that the images of her (in that dress with the cigarette holder, gloves et al, where she's eating the croissant outside Tiffany and where she's singing 'Moon River') have become and remain so recognisable and embedded in the general culture (although I agree with those saying that the images/posters do not get across the whole of the film or story).
My Fair Lady – it'd be interesting to see Julie A in it, yes, but I don't watch it and think Audrey H is awful.

peppermintcrisp · 02/09/2023 15:23

Nope. I do not like it at all. A drivelly, whiny and self absorbed film.

Gillyyy · 02/09/2023 15:30

I think I’m the only one who still likes it! And I do think it’s a love story, two lost souls finding each other.

I think Nine Lives would take off and they would give the cat a name.

I also love the book but they are completely separate in my head as they are so different!

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