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AIBU to ask what would you class as smart casual please?

127 replies

Oldbird69 · 01/09/2023 12:26

Son is starting teacher training on Monday. It's an inset day, so there won't be any children in. He's been told to go smart casual, what does that include do you think?

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SoTiredOfAllTheSh17 · 03/09/2023 09:48

At our school

  • no jeans/denim
  • no open toe footwear
  • trainers are ok
Boomboom22 · 03/09/2023 09:50

Inset day wear normal clothes.basically not jogging bottoms or ripped jeans, trainers should be clean!

Boomboom22 · 03/09/2023 09:51

Remember this is inset day not a teaching day so everyone wears jeans.

Fotophrame · 03/09/2023 09:52

School INSET is normally just dressed down from what would be worn to teach the children and have meetings with parents.

Keeping it 'smart' usually means nothing inappropriate you wouldn't want the kids to see you in, rather than just what you wouldn't normally wear around them.

Every school I've worked at has allowed jeans, tshirts, sweatshirts and trainers etc. on staff only days and there's always at least one member of staff who just wears their work clothes.

Motheranddaughtertotwo · 03/09/2023 09:54

Inset days in primary schools are very causal. Jeans and track suits are the norm. A t-shirt and track suit bottoms or jeans with trainers is fine.

BorisIsACuntWaffle · 03/09/2023 09:54

Trousers and shirt rather than jeans and a tee

thecatinthetwat · 03/09/2023 09:57

I think it used to mean trousers and shirt, but now means something much more casual. I wouldn’t have thought jeans, but so many have said jeans , they’ll probably be fine.

CaputDraconis · 03/09/2023 09:58

I think on your first day it's better to be over dressed than under dressed. And then he can gauge what everyone else is wearing and adapt for next time.

I would say chinos, polo shirt and smart trainers.

Createausername1970 · 03/09/2023 09:58

A lot depends on age and budget. If your son is just starting out on his working career and it's a school, then smart jeans, clean trainers and an ironed plain t-shirt should be fine. If he has a smart jacket as well, that would be perfect.

Good luck to your son 🎉

PEARLJAM123 · 03/09/2023 10:01

At my secondary school we wear jeans, t shirts, trainers.

NancyJoan · 03/09/2023 10:04

Jeans/trainers fine, but no sportswear.

DelurkingAJ · 03/09/2023 10:05

DH (SLT in a private secondary) went in for inset in smart dark blue jeans and a casual shirt with loafers. A few years ago (when he wasn’t SLT) it would have been the same with trainers.

MasterBeth · 03/09/2023 10:05

Not shorts, not ripped jeans, not loungewear, not battered old gym trainers. Dark denim, fine. T-shirt on its own, probably fine - not with cartoons or jokes on it. Loud Hawaiian shirt, maybe not. Anything else that's clean and ironed is fine.

Absolutelynotfor2019 · 03/09/2023 10:06

Chinos /Dark Jean's; Polo shirt and smart shoes/Trainers. Good luck to your son .

sandyhappypeople · 03/09/2023 10:09

Oldbird69 · 01/09/2023 12:53

I've never seen anyone round here wearing chinos for years, maybe they're back in and it hasn't reached this far north! I think he's going with smart jeans & tee-shirt. Still debating between shoes and trainers.

I’d go for shoes personally, trainers are normally a no no for kids in school so it’s setting a good example to wear shoes/loafers etc.

SageFennel · 03/09/2023 10:09

What does he plan to wear for work?
Better to be overdressed than under.
DS is a teacher and has worn black work trousers and a shirt and tie throughout training and ever since. Maybe drop the tie on inset days.

MasterBeth · 03/09/2023 10:09

sandyhappypeople · 03/09/2023 10:09

I’d go for shoes personally, trainers are normally a no no for kids in school so it’s setting a good example to wear shoes/loafers etc.

The students won't be there.

MasterBeth · 03/09/2023 10:11

SageFennel · 03/09/2023 10:09

What does he plan to wear for work?
Better to be overdressed than under.
DS is a teacher and has worn black work trousers and a shirt and tie throughout training and ever since. Maybe drop the tie on inset days.

Only do this if you want to be known as the worst teacher. "Black work trousers, shirt and tie." Sounds a bit polyester. It's 2023!

Namechangedagain20 · 03/09/2023 10:13

My secondary would be jeans and shirt/plain and ironed t-shirt with either shoes or trainers. Unless you’re a pe teacher, who I’m pretty sure exist 24/7 in the schools pe kit.

SageFennel · 03/09/2023 10:23

@MasterBeth Depends what your aim is? Smart appearance helps you look older / gives appearance of authority when you are young, DS was 21 when he started so only 3 years older than some of the kids.

Hasnt done him any harm as HOD at 26.

princessconsuelobananahammock · 03/09/2023 10:25

I would say it just means nothing with rips in, sweary slogans, baggy joggers/leggings etc. Essentially what you’d wear for a day out somewhere niceish. For most of our male staff that’s jeans (no rips/not super baggy) and a fitted T-shirt, polo shirt or shirt with smarter trainers (i.e. not sports ones) or shoes.

2chocolateoranges · 03/09/2023 10:31

Oldbird69 · 01/09/2023 12:48

No, we're not in disagreement about it. He asked me what it meant, and I wasn't sure. When I was his age it meant trousers and shirt, but tie not needed. I don't want him feeling overdressed though if the others are in nice jeans and tee-shirts.

That’s what it means in Ds’s workplace. Trousers, shirt or smart jumper, no tie required. Smart shoes.

ds has worn chinos to work before too with a shirt.

Cosyblankets · 03/09/2023 10:34

Smart casual to me means nice jeans shirt and shoes

VillageLite · 03/09/2023 10:38

I wouldn’t class t shirt, jeans and trainers as smart casual - that’s just casual.

I think one of them (or even two) combined with smarter elements are probably fine - but you risk running up against some sort of individual quirk in that particular school like “no denim”, “no trainers”, “shirts must have collars” or whatever.

One of my workplaces, open toed sandals were fine, absolutely no trainers. The other had the opposite rule.

Safest option is a short or long sleeved shirt/polo with a collar, dark trousers, leather (or leather-look) shoes.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 03/09/2023 10:39

Not jeans, not sportswear, not joggers, not leggings, not suits.