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I m right to give him notice aren't I?

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Lilly11a · 25/08/2023 04:18

I ve had someone employed since the new year for me .
Hours are 9-5.30pm with hour lunch - I m happy for people to go at 5 if work up to date .
I ve had issues with him with lateness and sickness which I had to give him a warning about at the beginning.
It has improved but he is still probably late once a week and sick a day a month ( which is now going through at ssp).
Work has picked up massively and I m having to do a lot of unpaid overtime to get something through, after which I do expect things will go back to normal.
He has had a bit more to do but has still been going at 5 - still fine with me if work is getting done .
I asked him to do something extra ,which he has done before , about 3.30pm that would have taken 10 mins .
He refused to do it and said his work load was too high .
After a 20 min somewhat circular conversation where I asked if his work load was high he wasn't staying till 530, it's that he doesn't like changing between tasks and the work can be done he just doesn't like doing it or the pace / the fact there is work all day .
It's also unfair that other people in different departments go earlier ( but anyone that works longer hours then him is nothing to do with him) and sitting at a desk 8 hours a day makes him ill.
After then discussing what happens if he gives notice and having a comment how can you monitor if I slack off - I ve had to say to him either give in your notice tomorrow or I ll give you notice.
I guess I m just frustrated that we almost seemed to be talking different languages and no doubt he would have gone home thinking how unfair it was .

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DoAWheelie · 26/08/2023 21:46

If he is leaving at 5 then he's getting paid for a free 30 mins a day already. Tell him he needs to stay until 5:30 every day but switch him to a 40 min lunch with a 25 min break mid morning and a 25 min break mid afternoon.

Nothing changes for the ratio of paid time to working time from how it is now but he might find it more mentally easy to cope with four shorter bursts of work each day Vs two long slogs. When I was still able to work I would arrange my days in a similar way and my productivity and mental health massively improved.

pilates · 26/08/2023 21:49

Keep up - he’s gone!

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