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To wonder why people blame lockdown when talking about weight gain

251 replies

Apple41 · 23/08/2023 22:20

Always been overweight however I lost weight during lockdown due to having time to excerise and cook well. I keep seeing people blame lockdown for their weight being higher and don't get it. Obviously gyms were closed but so were restuarants.

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Oysterbabe · 24/08/2023 06:22

I used to walk to work every day and walk on my lunch break. Suddenly I was stuck in my house trying to juggle work and children, catching up on work while they were in bed so no time to exercise.

Zanatdy · 24/08/2023 06:26

I lost 24lbs during lockdown as like you OP I had more time to exercise. I did couch to 5k too and having a target / the exercise to do gave me something to focus on. So many people gained as they sat on the sofa every night drinking alcohol and eating snacks.

Zanatdy · 24/08/2023 06:29

I did all my steps in the living room too, Leslie Sansone is a great walk to get steps in for those stuck inside with kids. They can even join in too!!

Tinybrother · 24/08/2023 06:30

Oh you had more time to exercise? Lucky you. Many people suddenly had less time to exercise. How is it that some people are too self-absorbed to understand that other people’s lives are different to theirs? I don’t get it.

WaltzingWaters · 24/08/2023 06:31

I was in great shape during lockdown. Used that time to do a load of exercise at home and took up running. I did drink a lot in the evenings though, but didn’t really eat any more than usual.

Tinybrother · 24/08/2023 06:32

“Why didn’t other people do what I did? Oh I’ll just assume they were thick and lazy, that’s easier than thinking hard thoughts”

Augustus40 · 24/08/2023 06:34

Many parents were stressed with children off school so gained weight.

Iloveavocadoes · 24/08/2023 06:54

I was working In the pharma industry at the time so working very long hours. I live alone so my social life disappeared. I had no buddy to exercise with, so I lost the motivation. I drank too much

pollykitty · 24/08/2023 07:13

Are you joking?!
-Parents who normally had some free time to go to gym or workout now stuck at home trying to keep kids from going crazy with boredom
-Boredom and anxiety can both cause overeating
-Food habits shift when routines are broken.
-People who commute to work burn A LOT of calories, esp using public transport. Now they are stuck at home, moving very little, and probably eating more

It’s great you had more time to think about food and exercise. Lots of people didn’t. I hated lockdown, it was hell.

CaptainJackSparrow85 · 24/08/2023 07:19

Tinybrother · 24/08/2023 06:30

Oh you had more time to exercise? Lucky you. Many people suddenly had less time to exercise. How is it that some people are too self-absorbed to understand that other people’s lives are different to theirs? I don’t get it.

Absolutely. I find it almost unbelievable that, after more than 3 years, some people still haven’t grasped that different people had vastly different experiences of lockdown. It’s very, very easy to understand. How thick/self-absorbed can you be?!

PinkCherryBlossoms · 24/08/2023 07:21

CaptainJackSparrow85 · 24/08/2023 07:19

Absolutely. I find it almost unbelievable that, after more than 3 years, some people still haven’t grasped that different people had vastly different experiences of lockdown. It’s very, very easy to understand. How thick/self-absorbed can you be?!

There's a real reluctance from some quarters to accept that. Some of it is stupidity, as you say, but I think there's also a dollop of denial in there at times.

Tinybrother · 24/08/2023 07:26

I think a lot of people don’t like complicated things, it’s too hard. They reject that and want things to be simple.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 24/08/2023 07:28

In the job I was going up to lockdown, I often walked 5-10 miles a day. During lockdown I sat at my desk for 8-10 hrs a day, maybe more, and did site visits by FaceTime. Other time was spent home schooling. I was too exhausted to cook properly. Blasted tiers meant I really couldn't go very far to exercise (we are right on a county boundary, are were not strictly allowed to go in the "nice" direction as that is a different county).

BottlingBurpsForGrandma · 24/08/2023 07:28

As others have said, I didn't have time to exercise or meal plan. I was homeschooling 3 kids, breastfeeding a baby who was up 3 times in the night, working from 9pm until 1am to get my hours in (because I was "lucky" and my employer / study was flexible) and waking up each day disappointed I hadn't died in my (very little) sleep.

Frankly a bit of extra timber was the least of my issues 🙄

HarrietStyles · 24/08/2023 07:37

Because many other people’s experience of lockdown was different to yours. I am a very physically active person usually but during lockdown I had to spend 8 hours a day sitting at a table homeschooling 4 young children (being very young they needed an adult to homeschool them, they couldn’t do it independently). We went for our allowed once daily walk and I tried to do some exercise in the garden……… but I was nowhere near as able to be as active as usual. Plus the added stress of being struck inside with four very lively young children led to much more wine and snacking in the evenings than usual haha. I put on 2 stone in 2020/2021 and as soon as life went back to normal again I quickly lost it again.

Bearpawk · 24/08/2023 07:37

Loss of routine
Poor mental health
Banned from going outside

It's not rocket science

Ginmonkeyagain · 24/08/2023 07:40

Oh I dunno - perhaps because I live in a two bed flat with no garden, all exercise classes were closed, people were judging others for using local parks for exercise, I went from walking 3 miles a day on my commute to WFH and my job became insanely busy and stressful- in the first few months of covid we were working 18 hour days on a 24/7 shift.

There wasn't a whole lot of time for more exercise or healthy home cooking.

misskatamari · 24/08/2023 07:41

How is it hard to imagine how others experience might be different to yours..? I can think of so many factors which could lead to weight gain over the lockdown period (and equally for those who managed to gain time and create new habits, I can see how it would have been a great time for losing weight). This really isn’t a “how is that even possible” scenario tho. Some people will have had a hard time during the lockdowns. More sedentary, anxiety and depression increasing, juggling home schooling with home working, missing families etc etc. so many drivers of weight gain!

Problesolving · 24/08/2023 07:44

People had very different experiences of lockdown. I’m surprised you weren’t aware of this. Some people had loads of extra time while some people had more to than time allowed so didn’t have time to exercise. Some people were able to save while so people had significant financial worries and weren’t able to afford healthy food.

JudgeRudy · 24/08/2023 07:47

There's the obvious mathematics of weight gain (more energy in than out) but that ignores the psychology aspect. We are human beings with a head and a mind, not machines.
I worked for the NHS during covid. For the majority of that time I worked 1 on 1 or alone. I live alone. It was hard. 2 days before lockdown I had been attending boxing classes. They stopped. At work 4 times a day I would go to the canteen to buy a latte just to have some human interaction. I didn't have more free time. In the evening I would return home. I don't have a garden and my hobby/interest had gone. Around me friends family and colleagues were dieing. Id come home and flop. I ate differently and moved less.
People's experience were very different. I knew someone who renovated her home and gave the garden a make over. Lots of 'smug' couples. I also know people who mourned their dead and became mentally ill.
People tend to gain (or lose) weight when they're stressed. I don't see how hard that is to understand

ChristmasKraken · 24/08/2023 07:49

Isitautumnyet23 · 24/08/2023 00:17

I agree that it was an extremely emotional, scary, isolating time and can totally understand for some people, the consequence was gaining weight.

However I cant believe the number of people on any Covid related thread that believed there was a time limit on how long you could go out. We did miles and miles of walks, out all day in beautiful countryside and sunshine. You could go out for as long as you wanted to. I really wish Michael Gove had kept his mouth shut (rather than giving his own opinion on how long people should go for - it was never a rule) and perhaps it might have helped the population stay fitter?

That's lovely that you were able to do that. Some of us worked full time though, whilst trying to home school kids, had to use time at weekends to make up hours we'd lost during the week, and if we did go out for a walk we had to take young children with us who couldn't walk for miles and miles..

PinkCherryBlossoms · 24/08/2023 07:50

JudgeRudy · 24/08/2023 07:47

There's the obvious mathematics of weight gain (more energy in than out) but that ignores the psychology aspect. We are human beings with a head and a mind, not machines.
I worked for the NHS during covid. For the majority of that time I worked 1 on 1 or alone. I live alone. It was hard. 2 days before lockdown I had been attending boxing classes. They stopped. At work 4 times a day I would go to the canteen to buy a latte just to have some human interaction. I didn't have more free time. In the evening I would return home. I don't have a garden and my hobby/interest had gone. Around me friends family and colleagues were dieing. Id come home and flop. I ate differently and moved less.
People's experience were very different. I knew someone who renovated her home and gave the garden a make over. Lots of 'smug' couples. I also know people who mourned their dead and became mentally ill.
People tend to gain (or lose) weight when they're stressed. I don't see how hard that is to understand

Mmm, the concept of comfort eating is pretty well known.

NotMeNoNo · 24/08/2023 07:51

I didn't miss a single day of work during lockdown, had just started a high pressure intensive project which instantly moved to WFH. I spent so much time indoors working I developed a Vitamin D deficiency. Lost practically all daily activity of walking to work, around shops, at weekends etc.
I'd lost weight previously but it all came back plus an extra stone. Surely it's obvious some people had less time than others.

Batatahara · 24/08/2023 07:53

I did not realise until lockdown how much walking I did in my commute. Turns out 10-15k steps a day.

I was WFH and incredibly busy during lockdown so I did not have time to exercise instead

BendingSpoons · 24/08/2023 07:54

Usually I walk regularly - commute (walk to the station), school run, after school activities. At work I am up and down stairs between appointments. I will do 10-18k steps depending on the day. Working at home cuts that massively.

I would go for a walk before work/lunch time but DCs would ask to come and at 1 and 4, we didn't go far or fast!

Plus at work I am too busy to go to the shop, so eat what I packed. At home it takes a few seconds to grab a biscuit from the drawer!