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To think Lucy Letby should be made to attend court for the sentencing

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Viviennemary · 20/08/2023 22:06

I know there are other threads on this terrible case. But I just read she has refused to attend court for the sentencing which is to be on Monday morning. The judge said he does not have the power to force her to attend. Can't see she will ever be allowed out of prison. And rightly so.

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Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:01

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 16:54

Lol If had wanted to be involved in overhauling English courts I’d be an MP myself.

As it is , just like you, I’m a mum and a member of public giving my opinion on a current case under the AIBU section of a website called Mumsnet.

The families of many other murder victims who have been affected by this issue have already started campaigns and it is much more meaningful coming from them. They have lived it and they are asking for it to be implemented

if they set up a petition that aligns with my views I’ll certainly sign it.

If you wish to not sign it then you of course that’s what you’ll do

Some incorrect assumptions made about me there but fair enough, I get it, you are willing to spend hours on MN arguing about it but not 5 mins on an email to an MP

So it's not that important after all

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:02

JanieEyre · 21/08/2023 16:57

What does that all achieve for the victims' relatives? I just don't see how anyone gets any closure out of watching someone sitting in a cell, or watching a blank screen? It doesn't take Einstein to work out what behaviour will force the court to turn off the camera and microphone.

The reality is that you can't take away control. Even if you handcuff and gag the criminal, they can still mentally switch off and ignore everything that is happening.

Because it allows people to pretend they have the moral high ground over those who have pointed out the obvious flaws with the solutions on the thread

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:05

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:01

Some incorrect assumptions made about me there but fair enough, I get it, you are willing to spend hours on MN arguing about it but not 5 mins on an email to an MP

So it's not that important after all

Where did I make an assumption about you?

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:06

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:05

Where did I make an assumption about you?

As it is , just like you, I’m a mum and a member of public

thedancingbear · 21/08/2023 17:06

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:02

Because it allows people to pretend they have the moral high ground over those who have pointed out the obvious flaws with the solutions on the thread

It's a strange day when people basically advocating torture are claiming the moral high ground...

JanieEyre · 21/08/2023 17:06

Cornettoninja · 21/08/2023 15:47

She may well get a thrill hearing them rather than the remorse and upset many posters seem to think will happen. She might just sit there humming away in her head, smirking or grinning, not giving two hoots of what the parents are going through

in Letby’s case specifically I don’t think those scenarios are likely based on the fact she refused to go to the sentencing. To me that indicates there’s a degree of shame and/or understanding of the gravity the consequences of her actions on her part. Certainly a denial of the reality that is currently happening.

We don’t know enough about her motivations or thought processes to make that kind of call tbh. The victim statements are essentially evidence of the repercussions of her actions and she should hear them in the same way she’s heard the rest of the evidence. I genuinely didn’t realise that it is so easy to simply refuse to attend your own trial but that does leave victims with questions about watching the reactions of the person who’s harmed them which I recognise is important. No reaction or ‘mocking’ gives a point where perhaps victims can let go of an element of their anger about not getting an admission or any remorse because it’s clear that the perpetrator just doesn’t care. It makes that more real.

The victims' families have already been able to see her reactions, both at the time of their children's illnesses and/or deaths, and during the trial.

HeatherMoores · 21/08/2023 17:07

You can’t force someone like that to do things as getting a life sentence means they have nothing to loose and could behave bow they like putting others at risk. Or severely disrupting the court.
Piping it into her cell doesn’t mean she’d listen.

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:07

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:06

As it is , just like you, I’m a mum and a member of public

Well I apologise if you are not a mum but it’s hardly relevant at all to the discussion

maybe you aren’t a member of the public either FFS

HeatherMoores · 21/08/2023 17:09

*lose 🙄

ThisIsNotThePostYourLookingFor · 21/08/2023 17:10

I realise I’m massively in the minority here but no I don’t think she should be made to attend.

As the judge said she relished in what she said. I would worry she would only relish in seeing the pain and hurt in these poor parents. She has shown no remorse and I don’t see what actually seeing her would actually give them anyway. It won’t give them closure or help their pain and I doubt she’s going go show she cares.

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:12

thedancingbear · 21/08/2023 17:06

It's a strange day when people basically advocating torture are claiming the moral high ground...

Because they care more you know!

More than the people who work in the prison service and as solicitors or judges

By baying for blood and demanding torture they care more

Just not enough to actually do a damn thing about it. Not even enough to write an email.

Unlike the prison service and the solicitors and judges who are actually out there making the world safer. But what do they know...

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:13

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:07

Well I apologise if you are not a mum but it’s hardly relevant at all to the discussion

maybe you aren’t a member of the public either FFS

Just makes me wonder how often you jump to conclusions based on no data...

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:15

ThisIsNotThePostYourLookingFor · 21/08/2023 17:10

I realise I’m massively in the minority here but no I don’t think she should be made to attend.

As the judge said she relished in what she said. I would worry she would only relish in seeing the pain and hurt in these poor parents. She has shown no remorse and I don’t see what actually seeing her would actually give them anyway. It won’t give them closure or help their pain and I doubt she’s going go show she cares.

I think if she was going to relish in their pain she would have turned up today

she was hiding

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:18

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:13

Just makes me wonder how often you jump to conclusions based on no data...

No I was talking about myself and the fact this is mumsnet

I can’t help it if you are so self centred that you have to make this about you

JanieEyre · 21/08/2023 17:26

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 15:52

How does anyone know what shame a person feels?

Letby might have felt shame not about the babies, but about the affect on her own parents. She might have felt shame to know that her lover, friends and colleagues were hearing what she was hearing and would now be disgusted by her. She wanted to be nice Lucy.

every single murder case is different and it’s very sweeping to assume all murder convicts won’t feel some shame.

as a society we have a duty to try

it might not work and truth is we’ll never know as many will have crocodile tears. But it’s the victims only chance to inflict that upon them so they should have the opportunity. They should also have the opportunity to control what they see by use of technology. It gives the family all the power and the convict none

You really are doing victims and their families a massive disservice if you believe that this is the only chance to show a criminal how shameful their actions have been.

The process begins as soon as someone is charged and becomes dependent on the courts for permission even to stay free pending trial. It continues during the trial when they are seated separately from everyone else but where they can be watched by not only their victims but also members of the general public, and their activities can be reported on in the press. Finally, of course, the main source of shame lies in being sentenced, especially if it is a custodial sentence. Basically you're telling people that they can't live in society, can't live with their families, can't go out when they want to, and have to spend their days doing exactly what they're told, no matter how demeaning or actively unpleasant, if they want life to be halfway tolerable. In this case, you're telling Letby that that state of affairs will last for ever.

If you want them to have to acknowledge their victims, part of the work they will have to do in prison will entail facing that also. They don't get to walk away from what they've done.

If you don't think that inflicts shame and takes away power, I struggle to understand your thought processes.

PinkCherryBlossoms · 21/08/2023 17:31

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:01

It’s not a silly post

you are saying there is a risk when prisoners are moved and officers should not be placed in an unnecessary risk

there was absolutely no reason for Letby to be put in a van and taken to Manchester today when she had already stated she would not appear.

she was only sent because the rules state that the prison have to send her.

why was this risk acceptable to you?

I'm saying the risk should not be increased by forcing people into court on more occasions than they are now.

You are free to argue that the current level of risk is also unjustifiable if you want, but that's your case to make not mine. It also further strengthens the argument that it shouldn't be increased.

It remains the case that you were wrong to say that when we apprehend people, that means we also have the resources to transport them anywhere we want them to be. And that the comment about remand was idiotic.

As I said, silly.

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:33

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:12

Because they care more you know!

More than the people who work in the prison service and as solicitors or judges

By baying for blood and demanding torture they care more

Just not enough to actually do a damn thing about it. Not even enough to write an email.

Unlike the prison service and the solicitors and judges who are actually out there making the world safer. But what do they know...

Oops

You’re assuming that none of them work in these or related roles or with victims.

makes me wonder how often you jump to conclusions with no data…..

thedancingbear · 21/08/2023 17:35

Judging by the literacy levels shown by the pro-torture posters on this thread, I think it's safe to presume none works in the judicial system in any decision-making capacity.

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:45

Ah! Oh so it makes it different if it’s something that already happens now is it?

somehow THAT risk is acceptable even though the reason is pointless.

you’ve never considered that a current process that is risky could be challenged and changed if it’s pointless?

There is no point in putting an officer at risk just so that a convict can get a last drive down the motorway and a look at Manchester City centre.

I think you are now just trying to fit it into your own narrative because you didn’t consider it before you came at me.

why won’t you send an email to your MP then about these unnecessary risks that happen now?

JanieEyre · 21/08/2023 17:48

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 16:04

Well then it’s certainly not any worse than giving someone a page to read is it?

and therefore just holds the same point or more if it means something to the family

what would YOU do with blind prisoners?

FFS I think the powers that be could be creative for such exception

I think what people are getting at with your posts is that you seem to think there is some sort of benefit to seeing the accused listen to the sentencing remarks, but you never explain what that benefit is in any way that holds any conviction. You talk about nebulous concepts of shaming them, but haven't explained why listening to sentencing is more shameful than any other part of the process. Most materially you haven't explained how it helps victims and their families when there are so many ways the accused can make it clear that they are just not listening. The reality is that it begins to sound as if what you really want is for them to be put in a pillory so people can throw things at them, but you can't quite bring yourself to say that.

As for blind prisoners, I assume if they want to know the sentencing remarks they can have them read out to them, or put into braille or very large font. If they don't, presumably not.

Insommmmnia · 21/08/2023 17:49

thedancingbear · 21/08/2023 17:35

Judging by the literacy levels shown by the pro-torture posters on this thread, I think it's safe to presume none works in the judicial system in any decision-making capacity.

Exactly

And to be honest if there is a prison officer on here demanding detainees get dragged by their hair, gagged or stripped on their human rights they deserve to be sacked

charliechaplins · 21/08/2023 17:51

Pro torture ?

PinkCherryBlossoms · 21/08/2023 17:51

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 17:45

Ah! Oh so it makes it different if it’s something that already happens now is it?

somehow THAT risk is acceptable even though the reason is pointless.

you’ve never considered that a current process that is risky could be challenged and changed if it’s pointless?

There is no point in putting an officer at risk just so that a convict can get a last drive down the motorway and a look at Manchester City centre.

I think you are now just trying to fit it into your own narrative because you didn’t consider it before you came at me.

why won’t you send an email to your MP then about these unnecessary risks that happen now?

I haven't said anything about whether the current risks are acceptable, and you won't be making that the topic of our discussion.

Your arguments are idiotic. You've said that because a risk exists already its not a problem to increase it, that apprehending someone means we must therefore have the resources to move them and some total nonsense about people on remand. The fact that processes can be challenged is also not a reason to implement whatever bollocks anyone can think of.

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 18:02

JanieEyre · 21/08/2023 17:26

You really are doing victims and their families a massive disservice if you believe that this is the only chance to show a criminal how shameful their actions have been.

The process begins as soon as someone is charged and becomes dependent on the courts for permission even to stay free pending trial. It continues during the trial when they are seated separately from everyone else but where they can be watched by not only their victims but also members of the general public, and their activities can be reported on in the press. Finally, of course, the main source of shame lies in being sentenced, especially if it is a custodial sentence. Basically you're telling people that they can't live in society, can't live with their families, can't go out when they want to, and have to spend their days doing exactly what they're told, no matter how demeaning or actively unpleasant, if they want life to be halfway tolerable. In this case, you're telling Letby that that state of affairs will last for ever.

If you want them to have to acknowledge their victims, part of the work they will have to do in prison will entail facing that also. They don't get to walk away from what they've done.

If you don't think that inflicts shame and takes away power, I struggle to understand your thought processes.

It’s the only chance the relatives get to speak directly to her. For many it is important to them.

Of course all the collective aspects are part of the punishment.

blubberyboo · 21/08/2023 18:08

JanieEyre · 21/08/2023 17:48

I think what people are getting at with your posts is that you seem to think there is some sort of benefit to seeing the accused listen to the sentencing remarks, but you never explain what that benefit is in any way that holds any conviction. You talk about nebulous concepts of shaming them, but haven't explained why listening to sentencing is more shameful than any other part of the process. Most materially you haven't explained how it helps victims and their families when there are so many ways the accused can make it clear that they are just not listening. The reality is that it begins to sound as if what you really want is for them to be put in a pillory so people can throw things at them, but you can't quite bring yourself to say that.

As for blind prisoners, I assume if they want to know the sentencing remarks they can have them read out to them, or put into braille or very large font. If they don't, presumably not.

The guidance on victim impact statements explains the benefit.

it also explains to the relatives that the offender may not feel any remorse.