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To not have children due to the potential threat of AI

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NP101 · 11/08/2023 12:46

I realise this probably makes me sound like a fully paid up member of the tin hat society but I'm increasingly worried about the threat of AI.

It has made me re-evaluate having children as the future looks pretty bleak - I can envisage the internet more or less being unusable in 5 years time and then the subsequent fall out of this - both socially and economically.

I realise I probably would have had similar feelings had I been around in various other points in history and subsequently regretted not having children but this current threat seems even more existential.

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malificent7 · 12/08/2023 11:21

Bottom line is that most species don't last...why are we different? I guess weare aware of it which makes it scary.

Yellowlegobrick · 12/08/2023 11:26

The key is to understand that the most effective use of chat gpt & similar is to increase the productivity of skilled humans.

I use it in my role. It won't replace people, it just allows me to get more done, and explore some areas of work that otherwise wouldn't be worth putting time into.

The people who refuse to embrace change will end up being perceived as unproductive - much like when mechanical tractor drawn ploughs came in and were swiftly more productive than the horse drawn variety.

BlueRabbitYellow · 12/08/2023 11:26

I wonder if AI may have come just in time to find solutions to the climate crisis? And not be wiping us all out.

I suspect we'll all be partly AI in the future, with enhancement chips implanted in us. From simple things to making payments to improving our memory to helping to us to see in the dark/ whatever else you can imagine.

'Going analogue' will be an alternative lifestyle choice and probably the analogues will be the survivors.

NicCageisnotNickCave · 12/08/2023 11:26

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 11:20

I'm curious - what, exactly, do you think "the cloud" is?

Now I’m curious, why are you asking? What do you think I think The Cloud is? 😂

The Cloud: https://www.cloudflare.com/en-gb/learning/cloud/what-is-the-cloud/

Yellowlegobrick · 12/08/2023 11:29

AI will always require power. It is quite easy for humans to take control and cut off/disrupt power supplies and probably always will be, its the type of fail safe built into the ways things operate, to ensure human oversight.

DyslexicPoster · 12/08/2023 11:30

I felt like after 9/11 but have four kids now. You can't plan for everything. At some point the environmental damage we wipe us out. Or if AI Wipes out its on own heads so maybe the species time is up. Its got to be up one day, the sun's going to die. Everything has its end point but we aren't close enought to know it's coming relatively soon. If your religious then surely its still worth being born to die? If your not its all going to finish one day anyway.

I get not having kids for environmental reasons, but as a biologist I also belive life has no greater meaning and is just a happy accident of evolution at a perfect distance from the sun. I know the only driving for life is passing on DNA and once the earth dies everything we ever strove for will be wiped out forever. Because that's the order of it all.

Until then, I'm expecting me and kids to die of old age or disease

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 11:35

NicCageisnotNickCave · 12/08/2023 11:26

Now I’m curious, why are you asking? What do you think I think The Cloud is? 😂

The Cloud: https://www.cloudflare.com/en-gb/learning/cloud/what-is-the-cloud/

Because "infecting the cloud" isn't a thing, since "the cloud" isn't a singular thing - it's just virtualised systems, millions-to-billions of which exist in some form of Internet-connected manner.

As a functional "thing", it refers to thousands (if not millions) of entirely distinct networks with very different architectures run by completely different companies in different countries, made out of many different (often proprietary) technologies, almost none of which are capable of running AI workloads (statistically speaking) with even orders of magnitude higher latency than ChatGPT.

Given how much of the Internet's exposed services run on virtualised architectures, you're functionally asking "What if an AI infects the entire Internet?", which I'm pretty sure I answered earlier.

DyslexicPoster · 12/08/2023 11:35

Yellowlegobrick · 12/08/2023 11:29

AI will always require power. It is quite easy for humans to take control and cut off/disrupt power supplies and probably always will be, its the type of fail safe built into the ways things operate, to ensure human oversight.

As a programmer I think you have too much faith in programming. There is always the plug however, as long as it your plug of course.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 12/08/2023 11:37

DyslexicPoster · 12/08/2023 11:35

As a programmer I think you have too much faith in programming. There is always the plug however, as long as it your plug of course.

When I build my killer robot it will be solar powered.

fullbloom87 · 12/08/2023 11:43

OP ignore the naive and ignorant commenters that think you're mad. They just don't understand AI and haven't really thought that deeply about it to understand it. What they don't realise is that most of them won't have a career in the future. So Yanbu to think twice about having children.

NicCageisnotNickCave · 12/08/2023 11:59

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 11:35

Because "infecting the cloud" isn't a thing, since "the cloud" isn't a singular thing - it's just virtualised systems, millions-to-billions of which exist in some form of Internet-connected manner.

As a functional "thing", it refers to thousands (if not millions) of entirely distinct networks with very different architectures run by completely different companies in different countries, made out of many different (often proprietary) technologies, almost none of which are capable of running AI workloads (statistically speaking) with even orders of magnitude higher latency than ChatGPT.

Given how much of the Internet's exposed services run on virtualised architectures, you're functionally asking "What if an AI infects the entire Internet?", which I'm pretty sure I answered earlier.

I haven’t read your comments.

I posted on the thread yesterday and came back to respond to a question I was tagged in. I haven’t read any of the pages inbetween and if the tone of the thread is anything like the way you have responded to me (mocking, patronising and pretending not to understand metaphor) I’m deffo not bothering.

I personally believe that AI is a more immediate threat to humanity than climate change.

AI has lots of negative potential, one of which involves losing human control over some really dangerous hardware. As in, weapons of war.

I don’t let this keep me up at night because everyone dies and life is what happens before that.

https://time.com/6295879/ai-pause-is-humanitys-best-bet-for-preventing-extinction/

An AI Pause Is Humanity's Best Bet For Preventing Extinction

Constantly improving AI would create a positive feedback loop: an intelligence explosion. We would be no match for it.

https://time.com/6295879/ai-pause-is-humanitys-best-bet-for-preventing-extinction/

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 12:05

NicCageisnotNickCave · 12/08/2023 11:59

I haven’t read your comments.

I posted on the thread yesterday and came back to respond to a question I was tagged in. I haven’t read any of the pages inbetween and if the tone of the thread is anything like the way you have responded to me (mocking, patronising and pretending not to understand metaphor) I’m deffo not bothering.

I personally believe that AI is a more immediate threat to humanity than climate change.

AI has lots of negative potential, one of which involves losing human control over some really dangerous hardware. As in, weapons of war.

I don’t let this keep me up at night because everyone dies and life is what happens before that.

https://time.com/6295879/ai-pause-is-humanitys-best-bet-for-preventing-extinction/

I wasn't mocking or belittling you; I was genuinely trying to figure out where you were coming from - specifically whether you have technical knowledge of the subject, or if you were coming at it from more of a philosophical/ideological angle.

I'm not entirely sure which metaphor I'm supposedly pretending not to understand, but then...I'm autistic, so being accused of being malicious when missing a subtle hint is something I'm kinda used to.

NP101 · 12/08/2023 12:16

Apologies, yesterday was very hectic so I haven't had a chance to check back on this thread until now - thanks for all the replies!

My main concerns were in the short term (within the next few years) information will be increasingly challenging to sort through making elections and the like difficult - this could lead to a lot of social unrest.

In the longer term when there is general artificial intelligence and singularity there won't be a way to stop it - we will become like pets to AI.

It is too late to 'turn it off' as that would mean getting rid of the internet which will also have huge economic and social ramifications.

I realise there have always been existential threats but this seems more all encompassing somehow. Nuclear weapons require a great amount of resources, most likely need to be state backed. AI can cause havoc by some kid in his parents basement.

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RoseslnTheHospital · 12/08/2023 12:28

An AI point of singularly is by no means an inevitability! It's a theoretical concept, only slightly more than a science fiction concept. And it won't arise from some kid in a basement, if it ever does.

Information is shit on the internet already because of human behaviour, nothing to do with AI. Teaching some basic fact-checking ability and critical thinking skills to children would be an easy way to address that. We're not helplessly adrift at the mercy of machines.

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 12:33

NP101 · 12/08/2023 12:16

Apologies, yesterday was very hectic so I haven't had a chance to check back on this thread until now - thanks for all the replies!

My main concerns were in the short term (within the next few years) information will be increasingly challenging to sort through making elections and the like difficult - this could lead to a lot of social unrest.

In the longer term when there is general artificial intelligence and singularity there won't be a way to stop it - we will become like pets to AI.

It is too late to 'turn it off' as that would mean getting rid of the internet which will also have huge economic and social ramifications.

I realise there have always been existential threats but this seems more all encompassing somehow. Nuclear weapons require a great amount of resources, most likely need to be state backed. AI can cause havoc by some kid in his parents basement.

As a counterpoint, AI can (and has) been used to design things that humans couldn't come up with. The technology could very feasibly solve the climate crisis, come up with ways to effectively neutralise the threat of nuclear weapons, create vaccines to stop the next pandemic before it even gets that far etc.

Those possibilities are just as likely as the "AGI destroys humanity" narrative - it's not a fait accompli.

From more of a futurist perspective, the whole "pets" thing would appear to be illogical; an AGI is more likely to cooperate with humanity than subjugate it, because apart from anything subjugation requires far more resources and is far more tenuous a strategy than cooperation (just ask Putin). If it does require separation from humanity, it'll probably just build rockets far better than we ever could and sod off to the moon (or further out of our reach, to somewhere that has better and more appropriate resources with no atmosphere to impede its most consistent power source).

Effectively, unless an AGI's core values force it to interact with us, its best and least-risky survival strategy would be to put itself as far out of our sphere of influence as is possible.

Changesarecomong · 12/08/2023 12:34

onefinemess · 11/08/2023 16:37

You are right

I have more than a passing interest in computers and AI. Development of such tech has directly impacted my field of work and will continue to do so, to much greater extent than a lot of other industries. I also follow a few developer forums, although I am not a programmer.

Consider the following.

Our world, more specifically the way we interact with our environment and other people has changed dramatically over the past decade. That rate of change will grow exponentially over the next five years, a decade from now there will be technology which today seems like science fiction.

AI will replace (if you believe to forums) upwards of 60% of all jobs. There is a clear developmental path for this. There are no plans in place for what four billion unemployed people will do or how they will support themselves.

There is currently AI in development which can literally read minds. In tests, the machine learning is about 70 percent accurate. For example, when a person involved in the study though about a chicken sandwich, the AI came up with "putting chicken on bread". Currently the participants have to wear a headset and allow their brain waves to be mapped in an MRI scanner. Can you imagine the implications when this tech is developed further, or even perfected. You will have literal thought crime, considering we currently have the police "speaking to people to check their thinking" the development of this tech is absolutely terrifying. But it is real, and it will be coming to the UK.

Think about the millions of CCTV cameras we have in the UK. Can you imagine each one linked up, with facial recognition capability and linked to a digital currency. The GPS systems mandated for all new cars is nothing to do with safety, its to ensure the state has the capability to track every vehicle. And just like in your phone, the microphone in your government mandated built in SOS system can be activated remotely. Your every move, your every word and possibly your every thought WILL be monitored by the state. ULEZ cameras and ANPR are mass surveillance devices. AI will allow the government to piece that data together in a much more efficient way. This tech currently exists and within five years all those systems will be linked.

And that's just a snapshot of our brave new world. Neither the Bank of England nor the EU have made a secret of the fact that they WILL be introducing a CBDC or Central Bank Digital Currency. This will give the state a perfect record of every transaction within the economy.

So a report on a citizen might look something the following.

"Jo Bloggs, 36 years old, NI# 12345567. Woke up at 06:18hrs, looked at his TicTok account for 11 minutes (insert activity) also accessed pornography (site details logged and videos copied to file. Smart appliances recorded coffee x1, toaster used (both slices) and milk (non dairy) removed from fridge. Smart Meter confirms power usage, also TV remote batteries at 22 percentt. Drives vehicle registration 123 ABC, left his residence at 07:26hrs, proceeded along Main St, (recorded speed 27mph in 20mph zone, prosecution authorised). Continued along Main St, turned left onto M89, proceeded West for 11.5 miles. Entered Drive Thru at McDonalds, transaction #1234 recorded at 07:52hrs, amount £4.95. Vehicle audio confirms Breakfast roll (no ketchup) with Latte. Also recorded in conversation with spouse Brenda Bloggs, 34 years old, NI# 987654. Discussed dinner plans and argued over alleged infidelity on the part Mr Bloggs. (Audio records from phone provider accessed and attached to file, please advise local police of possible domestic incident). Arrived at registered place of work at 08:05hrs. (Late arrival at place of work confirmed by cross-reference to shift times on employee rota system) Supervisor has been made aware via "tellus" system.

Just a window into ten minutes of the average persons day once AI is rolled out country wide.

So yeah OP, the world is about to get very ugly.

Think the above can't happen? 90% of the tech needed is already in place. The Alexia devices, the GPS in vehicles, the SOS system in vehicles, the microphone, camera and GPS on your phone, the camera and microphone in your Smart TV, your Smart Meter, your "connected appliances". It just requires a reliable AI system to bring it all together.

I honestly don't care if 'they' know all this stuff. I run a lot on my own, like all day, I purposely use my card in petrol stations for food so that I leave a trail in case I didn't show up at the end of the day. I am tracked on my Strava by my partner, again, I want him to know where I am. I use the tech and surveillance if you like to call it that to help me. I get loads of suggestions on FB related to running, races that I'm interested in, I like that.

I've spent 45 years worried to death about climate change, I'm hoping AI will help with solutions. Of course it will be used for nefarious reasons by lots of organisations but I prefer to look at the useful side of it.

DyslexicPoster · 12/08/2023 12:35

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 12/08/2023 11:37

When I build my killer robot it will be solar powered.

Humans need to create better batteries for that yet....

I'm just thinking of all the non extinction level carnage bugs have caused unintentionally in my carer, yet we have seldom been able to just switch the server off anyway. I wanted to, but your never anywhere near it and you rightly have no way to shut off a live server even if I was the highest level admin. I could however wipe everything from root, but I'd be sacked 😆 unless it was a mistake, which amazingly happened a few times ( not by me).

NP101 · 12/08/2023 12:40

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 12:33

As a counterpoint, AI can (and has) been used to design things that humans couldn't come up with. The technology could very feasibly solve the climate crisis, come up with ways to effectively neutralise the threat of nuclear weapons, create vaccines to stop the next pandemic before it even gets that far etc.

Those possibilities are just as likely as the "AGI destroys humanity" narrative - it's not a fait accompli.

From more of a futurist perspective, the whole "pets" thing would appear to be illogical; an AGI is more likely to cooperate with humanity than subjugate it, because apart from anything subjugation requires far more resources and is far more tenuous a strategy than cooperation (just ask Putin). If it does require separation from humanity, it'll probably just build rockets far better than we ever could and sod off to the moon (or further out of our reach, to somewhere that has better and more appropriate resources with no atmosphere to impede its most consistent power source).

Effectively, unless an AGI's core values force it to interact with us, its best and least-risky survival strategy would be to put itself as far out of our sphere of influence as is possible.

I'm not sure how something so vastly more intelligent could effectively cooperate with something far less intelligent? There wouldn't even be an effective way to communicate.

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ntmdino · 12/08/2023 12:45

NP101 · 12/08/2023 12:40

I'm not sure how something so vastly more intelligent could effectively cooperate with something far less intelligent? There wouldn't even be an effective way to communicate.

Of course there would - it would know every human language. Not to mention that any AGI will never just not exist one moment and exist the next, because the whole point of AI is that it learns and becomes something better with every iteration. How is it going to learn without interacting (in one direction, at least) with and understanding the only available body of data - human-generated content?

Or, for less verbose argument...we can communicate with our children, can't we? They're vastly less intelligent than adults (mostly), but it's not a problem in the majority of cases.

Changesarecomong · 12/08/2023 12:53

onefinemess · 12/08/2023 08:50

My God, how naive.

Do you realise how dangerous your attitude is?

WTF!

OK. The police will arrest you and keep you will be kept in prison for life. Don't worry, it will reduce crime, if everyone is locked up, nobody can commit any crime.

You OK with that?

Your naive "nothing to hide" attitude is fucking sickening.

That's quite the stretch, you could do with some fresh air maybe

Changesarecomong · 12/08/2023 12:56

TeamSleep · 12/08/2023 09:36

@CBAanymoreTBH good point thanks. I think in my admittedly naive way I was thinking it would stop little things like people speeding, help police with investigations such as missing children etc. so there could be benefits and if you’re not doing anything wrong then why do you care if tabs are being kept on you, especially if they’re only being read by machines. I appreciate now that’s naive and it could all be messed with and people could end up being locked away for things they didn’t do though.

Plenty of people have been locked up in the past for things they didn't do without the help of AI though tbf.

NP101 · 12/08/2023 13:35

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 12:45

Of course there would - it would know every human language. Not to mention that any AGI will never just not exist one moment and exist the next, because the whole point of AI is that it learns and becomes something better with every iteration. How is it going to learn without interacting (in one direction, at least) with and understanding the only available body of data - human-generated content?

Or, for less verbose argument...we can communicate with our children, can't we? They're vastly less intelligent than adults (mostly), but it's not a problem in the majority of cases.

I was thinking more like the difference in intelligence between a tadpole and a human rather than an adult and a child.

There are lots of people.I can't communicate ideas with as their intelligence in that field far supercedes my own. What happens when AI is million times more intelligent than the smartest person on the planet? Surely communicating ideas and theories will become impossible and we will be left behind.

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Checkcurtains · 12/08/2023 13:41

There are lots of things to be concerned about that will affect future children. I don't think the impact of AI is a major one - it'll do some good, some bad.

ntmdino · 12/08/2023 13:46

NP101 · 12/08/2023 13:35

I was thinking more like the difference in intelligence between a tadpole and a human rather than an adult and a child.

There are lots of people.I can't communicate ideas with as their intelligence in that field far supercedes my own. What happens when AI is million times more intelligent than the smartest person on the planet? Surely communicating ideas and theories will become impossible and we will be left behind.

The level of the disparity doesn't really matter - the fact that the AGI understands our languages will be enough. Remember, it has effectively unbounded intelligence (since part of the definition of AGI is the ability to modify itself to learn more) - so yes, there are going to be concepts that it understands which we can never grasp; there's a hard line there.

However, high intelligence doesn't mean that it's impossible to communicate with lower intelligence beings. We, for example, can communicate with dogs - it has to be restricted to the things that the dogs are capable of comprehending, though. It's even two-way communication for a lot of things - they can tell us when they're happy/sad/angry/etc, when they need to go outside, when they're hungry and we can give them instructions (which they can elect to obey or not, as anybody who's ever lived with an Akita can tell you).

It would be similar in the case of AGI vs human - yes, there will be lots of things that it will never be able to communicate to us because of our meat-brain limitations, but that doesn't mean it won't be able to communicate with us at all. It'll just be restricted to our brains' capacity for thought, that's all.

BertieBotts · 12/08/2023 23:01

I won't quote the whole "the state will know all of this info from the average citizen's 10 minute snippet of day" because it's long. But.

All those individual corporations already have that info, McDonalds knows who you are if you collect points using their app. Your bank knows what transactions you make and where. Your energy company knows what appliances you're using. Google knows your search and browsing history, and keeps a cache.

We're already giving up all this information and it doesn't cause an issue for the majority of people. Search history has been used in criminal cases and in cases of missing people, so police can access if necessary, but I do feel like the idea that governments will want to get hold of all this info to keep files on people constantly is a bit silly - I mean, why? And how? Those corporations aren't going to give that data up easily. Governments don't have the kind of money lying around to pay what they want for it. And storing all that data would be costly and for what? It doesn't have enough of a benefit to do it. I mean they can barely keep hold of people's NHS records or make them joined up - if they wanted to keep a load of data on everyone that would be a start and most people would be in favour of it.

I don't buy it. I don't think that government has an agenda to control individual citizens to that minute a detail. I think most governments want to do a decent job at balancing the interests of citizens with calm and safety as well as some monetary concerns. Also, government officials are human and therefore they are likely also motivated by money and power and make decisions which are less beneficial to the country as a whole because of these things. Maybe this is even something that might be sense-checked by AI in the future. But the idea of a widespread plan to control and track everyone individually and comprehensively just does not make sense. It's science fiction. I don't believe that governments (outside of a few extreme outlier dictators) even want to bother controlling individuals because the benefit is too low and the cost (energy, resources, time) is too high.

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