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To think this could be drugs?

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sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 15:25

So I was just getting things out for the kids to play with in the water tray and came across a tin and thought they could use it. Just opened it and found a brown substance wrapped in cling film and rolling paper.

What does it look like to you?

I never need to go into the storage outside but today I did and happened to come across it.

I want to confront my DP who I know will probably gaslight me and say he has no idea. But it was a tin together with the rolling paper.

The problem is he's off next week and we've planned days out with the kids and I don't want to ruin it for them if things go sour.

I don't like the stuff and don't agree with it so it's a possible deal breaker for me tbh.

I'm not sure whether I should just leave it where I found it and check on it week after next and see if it's been used or hide it somewhere else and see if he reacts to it. He obviously won't tell me he can't find it as he's clearly hidden it from me. But then he'll know I've found it.

I don't know what to do atm until next week is over with.

What would you do?

To think this could be drugs?
To think this could be drugs?
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honeybonbon · 10/08/2023 15:59

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TregunaMekoides · 10/08/2023 16:05

That's definitely hash/solid/resin.

How long have you lived in your house? Could it be from someone else? Could it be the neighbours?

MNetcurtains · 10/08/2023 16:05

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 15:44

There's pond products kept in the same place so it smells a bit pondish

Do you know what hash smells like?

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:06

I don't like smoking either I hate the stuff but this for me is worse.

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sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:07

@MNetcurtains no I don't

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MNetcurtains · 10/08/2023 16:08

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:07

@MNetcurtains no I don't

Okay. I'd put money on it being hash.

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KAM1997 · 10/08/2023 16:11

I wouldn't be able to leave it if it meant that much to me ( which it would). Have you ever discussed drugs?

10HailMarys · 10/08/2023 16:12

Yes, that’s hash. I’d just ask him why he’s smoking hash and trying to hide it.

huggiess · 10/08/2023 16:13

Yep that's draw (resin) which is the solid form of cannabis. You use a lighter to melt it down/soften it then crumble it in the rizla with your tobacco

Giantwindows · 10/08/2023 16:15

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 15:45

The thing is the neighbour is always smoking weed and he gets annoyed when they do and the smell comes through the house

This sounds like a bluff to hide his own weed smoking tbh

gettingoldisshit · 10/08/2023 16:17

It's cannabis

gettingoldisshit · 10/08/2023 16:18

And it doesn't smell as strong as actual weed !

Sandra1984 · 10/08/2023 16:21

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 15:25

So I was just getting things out for the kids to play with in the water tray and came across a tin and thought they could use it. Just opened it and found a brown substance wrapped in cling film and rolling paper.

What does it look like to you?

I never need to go into the storage outside but today I did and happened to come across it.

I want to confront my DP who I know will probably gaslight me and say he has no idea. But it was a tin together with the rolling paper.

The problem is he's off next week and we've planned days out with the kids and I don't want to ruin it for them if things go sour.

I don't like the stuff and don't agree with it so it's a possible deal breaker for me tbh.

I'm not sure whether I should just leave it where I found it and check on it week after next and see if it's been used or hide it somewhere else and see if he reacts to it. He obviously won't tell me he can't find it as he's clearly hidden it from me. But then he'll know I've found it.

I don't know what to do atm until next week is over with.

What would you do?

That’s hash (hashish), we smoke it a lot in Spain because it usually comes from Morocco which is very close by.

beforeafter · 10/08/2023 16:22

I was going to say it looks like solid too. Give it a smell, it will stink if it does. The unmistakable smell!

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:25

It is solid yes.

I'll ask him later on once he's home

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sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:25

It's a small amount but how much would something like this cost?

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newnamethanks · 10/08/2023 16:25

It's hashish. It doesn't stink like the filthy skunk leaves everyone uses these days, it's more fragrant, a bit like incense. Don't bin it, it's possibly belongs to someone else. Ask him OP. It's probably not a LTB but that's up to you.

Sandra1984 · 10/08/2023 16:26

Hash is a brown tablet (looks a bit like chocolate) that is literally compressed marihuana, it’s made in a press. It’s not a dangerous drug by any means, it’s just organic weed but compressed and the effect is a tad stronger than smoked weed. It’s illegal in this country.

Sandra1984 · 10/08/2023 16:34

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:25

It's a small amount but how much would something like this cost?

Small amount, no more than 50 quid. I wouldn’t be very worried about it OP.

Fbshe · 10/08/2023 16:38

If you aren’t sure if it’s his or he’s actually smoking it you could weigh it, leave it a month or so and weigh it again.

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:41

@Sandra1984 for us £50 is a lot of money.

We go weeks sometimes not being able to afford food. Clothes for the kids etc. we've not taken the kids anywhere this summer because we can't afford it.

Right now I have no food to give my kids for snack and dinner portions are small to spread it out.

So spending money on this is not on

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sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:41

Fbshe · 10/08/2023 16:38

If you aren’t sure if it’s his or he’s actually smoking it you could weigh it, leave it a month or so and weigh it again.

I think I will put it back and check on it in a couple of weeks and see what's what.

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ImtheFlag · 10/08/2023 16:46

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:41

I think I will put it back and check on it in a couple of weeks and see what's what.

I wouldn't put it back where I found it, I'd keep it somewhere else.

There's a good chance of you put it back, it may get moved and you wouldn't see it again.

That's if you aren't going to show it to him and ask him.

Sandra1984 · 10/08/2023 16:49

sidesplittinglol · 10/08/2023 16:41

@Sandra1984 for us £50 is a lot of money.

We go weeks sometimes not being able to afford food. Clothes for the kids etc. we've not taken the kids anywhere this summer because we can't afford it.

Right now I have no food to give my kids for snack and dinner portions are small to spread it out.

So spending money on this is not on

he may have not bought it necessary, it’s possible a friend/colleague gave him a little piece. Don’t jump to conclusions yet. Sorry to hear about the money issues OP.

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