Nope, Parliament regards a settlement with under 7,500 inhabitants as a village! The council tax bill says "village of xxxxx" as do lots of other official signs/documents, such as electoral boundaries/seats, etc.
As for your other point, I'll ignore you inferring I'm a liar, but all there is in the centre of the village is a chain pub/restaurant which isn't used by locals, and is a typical "country" pub where people come by car for meals from nearby towns. The neighbour I was talking about can't buy a pint of milk, a loaf of bread, pick up a prescription or send a parcel from there, so it's useless to her!
There's a huge Tesco two miles away which is where all the villagers with cars go to buy their shopping. Useless for my neighbour now she no longer drives as the road doesn't have a pavement so she'd have to walk 2 miles in the road on a main A road!
Such places exist. I've lived in one for 25 years. Just because you don't recognise places like this, doesn't mean they don't exist. Perhaps you need to get out more and open your eyes!
My point was that she DID think about her old age, likelihood of giving up her car, etc., and "did the right thing" as people have suggested, in moving closer to amenities. What she didn't expect was that all those amenities would close down! What's she expected to do now? Move again? What happens if she goes through all that to move to somewhere with amenities, and they close down too! My entire point is that things change and even with the best planning in the World, you can't foresee what the future holds!