My boss took in a refugee last year and I sort of took her under my wing because she's a similar age to me. She had no one else so we've become quite close and she does a lot with me and my bf. Since I got pregnant (I'm 8 weeks) I've found her more and more annoying because she likes to drinks and I can't do that anymore, plus she can be quite a lot to deal with. Not to mention that she is always very over complimentary to my bf.
We all go to a sports class together once a week, but it was brought up recently that now that I'm pregnant it won't be long until I don't go anymore. She asked me if it would be ok for her and my bf to go together, to which I said I wasn't totally comfortable with that.
So now I'm made out to be the bad guy because if he doesn't take her there she can't go because she doesn't have a car. And because he is going anyway it seems reasonable that he should be able to take her too.
But I only feel uncomfortable because of her flirty nature and history of being super complimentary to him ALL THE TIME. And I can't stand the thought of her being alone in the car with him even for the short trips to the gym. I trust him but not her.
AIBU?