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If women snored like men

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Caketea · 05/08/2023 01:37

If men were disturbed by snoring like women are, wibu to think it would be common that they’d be offered an operation to stop it?! Because I’m on a campsite and I can hear loud snoring from three tents, mine included. And I just feel women have to endure, as usual. Anyone?

(And I know some women snore…but it’s not the same!!)

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BetsyBobbins · 05/08/2023 11:26

I had a double operation, a septoplasty and turbinectomy together as my nose was completely blocked and I couldn't breathe through it.
I had already had my tonsils and adenoids removed as a teen.

I still snore but not as bad as before, however, there's nothing left to be cut out 🤷🏻‍♀️

KnackeredBack · 05/08/2023 11:41

I snore far more than my DH...don't drink much, not overweight, but snore like an extra from the Walking Dead apparently - zombie noises. Annoys the heck out of him and I entirely understand. Poor bloke!

KimberleyClark · 05/08/2023 11:43

I know of someone who snored so loudly that it turned on the touch sensitive lamp on her bedside table.

BadgerFacedCoo · 05/08/2023 11:49

I snore, so I lost a few lbs and I avoid having more than one or two drinks as that makes it worse.

The problem isn't snoring, I can't help it, my medication makes it worse. The problem is people who won't do anything to help the problem and let their partners suffer.

FarmGirl78 · 05/08/2023 13:47

I (F) snore like a foghorn. OH has slept downstairs before now when I've been really bad. I stayed at a friend's once and next morning the neighbours complained they hadn't been able to sleep.

My Mum snores so bad when I was away at Uni my Dad made her sleep in my old room at the opposite side of the house.

OP, I think it's hilarious you just assume it can't possibly be genteel little ladies making such a horrid uncooth noise.

I bet you don't fart either do you?

ExhaustedMuch · 05/08/2023 13:48

I snore louder than any man.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 05/08/2023 14:00

Jamtartforme · 05/08/2023 10:00

My maternity ward was full of women snoring so loudly I couldn’t sleep and had to be moved. They should’ve moved the snorers IMO

I got woken up and moved to a private room because of the noise I was making when DD2 was born. The private room had a bed with an adjustable back (it didn't work in the main ward, so I was flat on my back with an extra 2 stone of fluid retention), which stopped me snoring straight away.

Win-win all round, I'd say.

Jamtartforme · 05/08/2023 14:06

@NeverDropYourMooncup agreed! Makes no sense to move out all the women being kept awake rather than the 1 snoring, and to sweeten the pill they get their own room

tigger1001 · 05/08/2023 17:32

I think women do snore as badly as men can.

I use earphones playing sleep stories to drown out my partners snoring.

Menopausehaver · 05/08/2023 17:34

The operations don’t work, I had one, still snoring

Bonjovispjs · 05/08/2023 17:42

Simonjt · 05/08/2023 11:20

I read one of these words very very incorrectly.

My mum snores terribly, she has receive complaints in hotelsbl before 🤣

Me too 😲 I was very confused for a moment 🤣

weegiemum · 05/08/2023 18:55

My dh used to be a horrific snorer, he has severe sleep apnea and now uses a CPAP machine so snores very little, though he does wake me up when he adjusts his mask and it sets off a hissing noise. Still nothing like as bad as the snoring!

I now snore worse than him but only when I'm flat on my back and it never disturbs him. I have a weird disability which means I don't move in my sleep so if I fall asleep on my back it's going to be a snorey night unless I wake myself. Sometimes I wake up with a tender soft palate and know I've been snoring. We both sleep much better with his cpap!

VibrantGreen · 05/08/2023 18:56

Caketea · 05/08/2023 01:37

If men were disturbed by snoring like women are, wibu to think it would be common that they’d be offered an operation to stop it?! Because I’m on a campsite and I can hear loud snoring from three tents, mine included. And I just feel women have to endure, as usual. Anyone?

(And I know some women snore…but it’s not the same!!)

Are you sure it’s the men snoring? 🤣

DH tells me I snore like a bloke!

LT2 · 05/08/2023 19:36

Bonjovispjs · 05/08/2023 17:42

Me too 😲 I was very confused for a moment 🤣

Thought I'd be the only one to misread that!😅

Caketea · 06/08/2023 01:37

It’s snore o’clock! Multiple people snoring in tents. I now realise how many women snore and stand corrected by you all. @Ace56 hit the nail on the head. And all of those who said the partner should do something about it - I am inclined to agree.

Whether that’s losing weight, stopping drinking and smoking, wearing a mask or whatever. But I’ve honestly never heard so many snorers in my life.

To the person that said I don’t fart. I let one rip in a camper van earlier. Tried blaming the dog but I was found out.

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JMSA · 06/08/2023 01:39

Guiltyfeethavegotnorhythm0 · 05/08/2023 01:42

Have you ever been in a hospital ward that's not maternity ? God the snoring !! Have earplugs in the house in case you ever get admitted . I once had to ask the nurses for a hot chocolate , cotton wool balls(for ears) and a sleeping tablet . Believe women can snore .

Hot chocolate? Jeez oh, which hospital were you at? Grin

Underminer · 06/08/2023 01:44

I’m the loudest snorer in my house. Record myself on a snoring app and I am most often in the “epic” snoring and the noises are horrible. I should go and get checked out.

Guiltyfeethavegotnorhythm0 · 06/08/2023 04:33

JMSA · 06/08/2023 01:39

Hot chocolate? Jeez oh, which hospital were you at? Grin

Ha that particular ward gets a lot of donations and by some cruel twist of fate I ended up back there yesterday, so I am writing from my hospital bed ,own room this time .😃

ObiKenobi · 06/08/2023 06:56

Some women snore louder than men, they just deny that they even snore.

DcatAnnie · 06/08/2023 07:04

DH has been an extreme snorer for years. He has just been diagnosed with Heart Failure caused by Obstructive Sleep Apnea. He now has a CPAP machine, I wish he had got it 10 years ago.

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