To be upset partner of 18 years comments on other women's insta in a suggestive way

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So fed up. Just seen on Insta that my Partner comments on other women's insta saying they look lovely with a wink emoji etc and love the outfit etc when they are wearing a small crop top woth large breasts and filming a slow mo video of them.
Just feels so disrespectful, yes it's not a private message yet but that also makes it humiliating as I know other people that do our shared hobby will have seen this. He doesn't know this particular woman irl, she's on the other side of the world so it's not jealousy I feel just fuckin disrespected. He has form for things similar yet worse over the years and has made me quite insecure. He reckons rhay it's fine what he's done and I'm unreasonable and insecure. TWAT!!!

Op, his judgement and behaviour is way off so what does it matter what he says back to you about it? He’s clearly trying to minimise you. He sounds awful. I think you need to workout where your boundaries lie and how you’ve ended up in this situation when you deserve so much more. In short, LTB - and I rarely say that.

You have two choices. You can continue to be married to this absolute waste of space, bottom-dwelling piece of shit, or you can leave him and try to regain your self-respect. You can't blame anyone but yourself if you choose to stay and you continue to be miserable.

Omg gross 🤮
U Shud start a poll on here, describe him (with age AND the fact he's supposedly taken) and a few of his comments and show him the results... Would you be thrilled or would you throw up....?

I bet it would only go one way 😂

He sounds like such a sleaze. Kick him out before he makes an even bigger fool of you.

49 and smokes weed?! My goodness what an absolute loser.

He's a joke, a complete embarrassment.

Please bin this piece of crap asap.

I can't discuss without him blowing up, I normally have to wait until he's smoked weed till I can discuss anything and he doesn't have any access to it until we get home next week.

Wtf?! Come on, OP - you can't discuss things with him because you're scared of him being angry if he hasn't taken drugs? Seriously?! What the hell are you doing with this disaster of a man?

I'm sorry, but why do you think you're in a relationship with this person? There's no emotional connection whatsoever. Do you love him? Care about him? Does he love you? Care about you?

Life shouldn’t be this shit, OP. It needn’t be. Leave the horrible, horrible twat.

Oh come on. There’s no need for anyone to have such a crap boyfriend, stop allowing this sad sack to keep making a total mug of you. You’re not dependent on him for housing, are you?

Don’t waste another minute of your life trying to discuss things with this man. No arguing needed. ‘I’m no longer attracted to you, the relationship is over.’ repeat. Sort the housing situation and child contact schedule if still young enough to need one. Then live your life.

You deserve so much better than this. What a complete creep.