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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask how i go about meeting wealthy women (not romantically)

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nansn · 21/07/2023 23:02

I am a pretty "normal" person, mid thirties, Berks based.

I have a family, there is nothing unusual about me, however, i really have this fascination for wealthy people.

Growing up we were not well off but also not struggling. There was this one house on my road in SW london, far bigger than the rest and I always was so curious about it.

That curiosity hasn't gone anywhere.

I really want to meet "normal" wealthy women. I just honestly have no idea where to start!

I am aware it probably seems odd. It's not for any strange reason other than to genuinely see how they live and understand their mentality & possibly learn from them I guess?

The more I write this I feel I am asking for a complete unicorn! Someone who would be actually willing to let me ask them questions and show me how they live & what is normal to them.

For eg, I recently drove up Titlarks Hill (not sure now if i was allowed) and it just blew me away.

I really crave to see first hand how wealthy people live.

AIBU? Is this the most bizarre thing ever?!

OP posts:
Pinkitydrinkity · 22/07/2023 13:04

I have a lot of very wealthy clients, the “old money” types are the nicest people and very grateful for everything they have.

nansn · 22/07/2023 14:37

@Whitecup24 thank you so much! I will dm you

OP posts:
Mirabai · 22/07/2023 21:45

Get the Hayu app on Amazon Prime and watch:

  • Real Housewives of Beverly Hills
  • Millionaire Listings LA
  • Below Deck

Read Jane Austen, Henry James, Edith Wharton and F.Scott Fitzgerald.

Onelifeonly · 23/07/2023 08:36

Our house is worth well over a million pounds but that doesn't mean we live the life of the wealthy! Our kitchen is falling to pieces, awaiting the builders to get started on it, and the car I drive is a 2009 model. We happen to have been lucky in trading up when we've moved and have lived for 30 years in an area of London where house prices have risen exponentially (not somewhere especially known for this). Yes, we could sell up and move to a far less well-off area, thus freeing up a lot of it, but have no wish to do so

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