Friend and I can’t agree so we’ve agreed I’ll put on here objectively and see what the majority say. names changed obviously although it’s pretty obvious if you know us!
anna and Beth have been friends 20+ years and both have primary aged children. Beth is also friends with Cath. Cath’s daughter is due to get married next year. Cath has invited Anna and Beth’s children to come along the morning of the wedding to watch the bride get her makeup and hair done and put on her dress. Beth is invited to the wedding. Her children, Anna and Anna’s children aren't. Beth and Cath think this is a perfectly reasonable thing to do, Cath and her daughter aren’t anxious/stressed people and Beth thinks it’ll be fun for the children to watch. Anna thinks even non-anxious people will be stressed on their wedding day and having four young children running around won’t be a good idea. Who is being unreasonable?
YABU- Anna is wrong, it’ll be fun for the children and they’ve been invited by Cath so it’s fine
YANBU- Beth is wrong, no one wants random kids running around when they’re getting ready to get married, stay away