AIBU? Had long standing plans booked today - leaving before kids drop off at school and getting back after their bedtime.
DH said yesterday afternoon that he was getting a sore throat. Thought no more of it until this morning when he woke me up at 5 going downstairs to get paracetamol. He said he felt like death and ‘the worst he’s ever felt’. Temperature at a textbook 36.4. He then says he very much doubts he can look after the kids today - they were out of the house from 8am-5pm.
I cancelled my trip, worked all day instead and did drop off, pick up, tea and I’ll do bath and bed.
DH is limping around the house after spending all day in bed.
I have been called unsympathetic and horrible by him today. I was upset at missing my day out - if I had felt the same way and he had plans I would have just popped a few nurofen and cracked on with it (as I do, and have done, on many occasions).
AIBU? Am I a horrible person? Or is anyone else with small children and very little time to themselves similarly irritated when their partners are ‘ill’.